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Wed 04/16/08 11:25 AM
Edited by iceprincess on Wed 04/16/08 11:27 AM

iceprincess.....are you asking for help for the one you love so much.....

if you wish for answers for your son, which i with all my heart do as well, than there IS an answer.....

nothing said here thus far was said with you in mind.....

your son has been approached with thinking he is not WELL, so every answer will include this assessment, and therefor attempt to treat a symtom

indeed the thinking he is not well is correct obviously, but to not see this has come for a GOOD reason "hide" the simple answer to his SADNESS.........what GOOD can this create that did not exist prior.........

all the reasons for his sadness cannot and need not be discusseed in an open forum......

if we spoke and your son was better, would that not be proof to you of what is true and untrue............then none have to believe anything but what be PROVEN.......

the offer stands for you from a friend if you indeed seek enough to have nothing to lose......


I have not felt as tho anything were said wiht me in mind. Nor do i plan to air dirty laundry in regards to my personal life or my son. As for something being wrong with my child.......THERE IS........children do not contemplate suicide if all is well in their world and i can pretend all i like that he is perfect.........eventually i'll be looking at a grave......instead i choose to accept the fact that at some point i have failed and am getting my child help and am seeking advice from any source i can glean it..........doesn't mean i'll follow it all but i believe one can never have to much knowledge

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Wed 04/16/08 11:16 AM
Does anyone have any experience in dealing with this? My son has been diagnosed as being depressive at this time we choose not to treat him with meds as his Dr.'s believe it to be situational related vs chemically related. I would just like to know others experiences in dealing with this issue in their life or childrens lives.

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Wed 04/16/08 11:13 AM


can fraidy cat make his own forum so we can discover the root cause of all his fears there.......


That is hysterical!!! laugh

If you start a depression thread for your son I'll be glad to post...


I'm half afraid too........i seen what happened here........

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Wed 04/16/08 11:04 AM
Edited by iceprincess on Wed 04/16/08 11:05 AM


I was actually interested in seeing what everybody's idea's for battling depression were..........as my son is 10 and has been diagnosed as deppressive...........the only thing i've gotten from this is someone is afraid and doesn't want to admitt it........same person also can't seem to speak of themselves in first person but can make a lot of generalities.........and no one seems to have addressed the original ?




i feel sorry for the op.........


I too tried iceprincess, honest opinion would be to seek professional help which is the only sane and proper thing for me to suggest as I have never had to handle nor live with depression. flowerforyou


he is in counselling and we are trying to battle it at this time without meds since he is so young and they believe it to be situational related vs an actual chemical imbalance

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Wed 04/16/08 11:01 AM
Edited by iceprincess on Wed 04/16/08 11:02 AM
well if anyone has any good ideas cna you e-mail them to me as i'm researching the hell out of it and pretty much swimming blind..........that or can fraidy cat make his own forum so we can discover the root cause of all his fears there.......

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Wed 04/16/08 10:58 AM
I was actually interested in seeing what everybody's idea's for battling depression were..........as my son is 10 and has been diagnosed as deppressive...........the only thing i've gotten from this is someone is afraid and doesn't want to admitt it........same person also can't seem to speak of themselves in first person but can make a lot of generalities.........and no one seems to have addressed the original ?




i feel sorry for the op.........

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Wed 04/16/08 10:38 AM
laugh

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Wed 04/16/08 10:35 AM
if your going to live in a glass house expect a few windows to get broke.........

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Wed 04/16/08 10:13 AM



I do that all the time for fun just to mess with people's heads. I know, I'm so nice. Maybe that makes me a not great friend though...


Nah it just makes you an immmature a$$..............LOL




See, the problem I have with this is the fact that I am, in fact, not loaded with $$ and like to think of myself as quite mature. My tactics are like those of an expert that has been doing it for years.


$$=ss not money. and the "experts" use it for personal gain not to hurt a "friend" or just for sick kicks

maturity is debatable..........LOL

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Wed 04/16/08 10:08 AM

today is gonna be one of those days i REALLY need a hug and some friends to cheer me up because certain people really know how to hurt me brokenheart :cry:


good luck darling...........you may not want to focus so much on others as only you can make you happy.........all others can do is support you after that your on your own

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Wed 04/16/08 09:38 AM

I do that all the time for fun just to mess with people's heads. I know, I'm so nice. Maybe that makes me a not great friend though...


Nah it just makes you an immmature a$$..............LOL


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Sun 04/13/08 04:45 PM


I've dated two navy men and neither ever cheated on me to my knowledge. Based on my experience should be more worried about the "fly boys"..........LOL


And you know..I've been in forign port with the "flyboys" from my ship and Woah!! Not only does the jump suit attract more women but they have no problems getting a room and doing god knows what with other women while their wives are at home.


I was joking...............i was married to AF for 9 years........people cheat in all walks of life and in all branches of military.........no one set of rules apply to all......

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Sun 04/13/08 04:40 PM
I've dated two navy men and neither ever cheated on me to my knowledge. Based on my experience should be more worried about the "fly boys"..........LOL

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Sat 04/12/08 04:22 PM
LOL-your screwed........

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Fri 04/11/08 12:57 PM
17........thought i was proving a point...........dumbest move i ever made and led to 9 years of hell

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Thu 04/10/08 07:54 PM
I'll let you listen when i call your wife...........

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Thu 04/10/08 07:53 PM
I would sign one...........i didn't help him get where he is why should i benefit when it falls apart. However whatever is accumulated after we got together is fair game.......

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Thu 04/10/08 07:42 PM


well sweets mine has behavioral problems that have nothing to do with lack of dicipline but with emotional issues.he is starting counseling next week and seeing a child psychologist soon.I don't want the school doing squat as their lovely methods have including closing my kid in a quiet room while holding the doors closed.some kids have real problems and i have missed work because of it.Let's not be so quick to label kids brats and parents lazy.pisses me off.



did i in any way say anything about children with true behavioral problems? No i said crappy parents who will not discipline their children.Only you would know if this were or in this case were not you.Don't be so quick to take everything to heart i promise the world is not out to "get you".

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Thu 04/10/08 05:45 PM
yes............work is work and if they are trying to better themselves and their lot in life that's all that matters.

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Thu 04/10/08 05:39 PM
laugh that's funny

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