The kids are listed as residing with him my son goes to a public/military school by the base where their father lives.At this time Amber alert is not an option as they won't put my children as kidnapped they know who they are with and can safely assume they are "safe". They will only classify him as in violation of a court order. Social Services has taken a report nad suggested i call Local Family Advocacy for the AF Base........they can't or won't do anything as he is on leave and can't be declared AWOL until he doesn't report back to duty.The judge has all the paperwork it's his decision to declare and emergency hearing or wait till monday. Since this year was to be my Exes year for easter we figure he will wait till monday. Since my ex would have had my kids for the holiday starting tomorrow.

Depends on the type of wrong..........some things should be avenged on the principle of the matter.......

We go to court on monday. I have called social services here we think he is going to OH but don't know for sure. He withdrew my son from school but didn't ask for the resords to be forewarded he is hand carrying them. He did this as of yesterday the school cslled me this morning.

very pretty big brother i loved reading it.........

everyone agrees on that the problem is we can't find him. Not only that local PD and States Attorney are saying we can reasonably assume my kids are safe as we know who has them and they are reluctant to treat it as kidnapping yet till the judge decides how he wants to view it. I don't get it he's military therefore above the law?

When i found out he was being deployed i put in for a reduction in hours because i realize i'll have my kids 100% of the time now instead of 50%. He told me that it's not good enough and demanded i sign an agreement for the children to go with his mother since she doesn't work..........I refused so he told me he was gonna take them and i could fight him after the fact. I filed a complaint in regards to this back on 3/7 i was told he actually has to do it............now he has and no-one knows where he is

I have the base refuses to talk to me we think it is because they don't know where he is either.....he's on leave pending a deployment. OUr divorce was finalized without custody being established we were set up as joint. he wants to remove the children to OH with his parents while he is deployed because of my work. I work 12 hours a day and he thinks this is to much.

My Ex-husband took off with my kids and left the state. He was to drop the children off with me this morning at 8:00am and never showed up. I filed a report with the local PD and they called the states attorney who said i need to call the clerk of courts. I called them and was told i needed to write up a letter for the judge. i have done so and filed it with the court. My ex is military so i was informed they need to tread lightly and can't do anything till the judge says so. I have a court date on monday for a seperate matter and my lawyer said the judge probably won't address this issue till then. I'm scared because we don't know where he or my children are at this time or where they are headed for sure. we think he may be going to OH. has anyone else had this happen if so what else can i do........

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are we referring to physically or emotionally.

physically i don't ever hurt myself.

emotionally i have tendency to push those the closest and dearest to me away. If i think someone may be getting close to me i cause something to happen to push them back, all in the name of "self preservation"

possibly the potential to find love........

write something in your profile

I don't think so............you fall in love with an idea of someone..........an image presented to you be it visually and/or verbally but the real person... no you don't love them.........it's impossible you haven't experienced the little idiosyncrasies that make up the sum total of who they are......those can only be experienced by living with someone day in and day out over time (JMO)

as i stumble around drunkenly............

LOL.........that was good

I pray for my ex husband............

He better hope God doesn't answer..........

you have what documentation to back this..............

I'm also gonna guess you didn't fall in love without meeting them.....but i could be wrong.......it's been known to happen once or twice in my life...........

obviously something failed since they are no longer your loves..........JMO

let him find out she usedto be a he or she doesn't look like the pic any more or that she is isn't she at all.....bet you he don't love her so damn much.......again JMO

the dark.......i can't stand to be in a dark room i panic........