Nice re-fall day here in Oregon, a little foggy early this morning but that burned off once the sun came out. Got some stuff done, yeah! Working on a necklace had to go buy some beads because I ran out. Ended up going to the bead store here in town and found some that are similar but not "just" like the ones I'm using but will make do, beats a trip to Salem. Just a nice relaxing day and I didn't have to work!

Intimate encounters on the first date? Yay or Nay? How's that?

I think I must be bored.I think I'll just get my beads out and make a necklace or two or three, maybe a rosary.

not meaning you galengale I posted this then thought what if everyone here is thinking I'm inquiring if they've had over 50 encounters of the intimate kind

HaHa! Let me clarify that statement, I mean if you are over 50 in age, not how many you've had.

So what does everyone here think of intimate encounters over 50?

Word........Peace out y'all:

I think everyone that has posted has different interpretations of what FWB means to them. We have all went through divorce, or the lost of a spouse. So what we choose to do with our personal life at this stage of life should be our decision and whomever we are dating.Promiscious according to my dictionary means not discriminating in our choice of sexual companions. I'm sure that many on here would take offense to think you are saying that they just jump in bed without knowing the person. And what guarantees are there for being married? Does that piece of paper mean they can't cheat, lie or make your life a total hell?

Boulder,CO! Rock climbing, hiking, biking, college town ambiance, not to far from Denver for big city sights and close enough to drive to ski areas like Vail.

Right On oldsag! I say tomatoes,bet you say tomahtoes!

Tsk, TSK Sage they're not getting any closer than one email. Who's judging who?

Oldsage because "just friends" usually means "friends with benefits" to most men. You are not of the norm...........Just like men who say they are "romantic" most women think "oh, opening doors, holding hands as we walk, etc" But men think romantic means a romp in the seat of their car

and "activity partner" makes me run also . What kind of activities do you have in mind? Or do I really want to know?

A sunshiney day! but with a bit of chill in the air. And boy! is it chilly now in the mornings and in the evening when the sun starts to set. The leaves are still hanging unto the trees but some are turning color and starting to fall. Can't wait till they turn, red, orange and bright yellow.

Late dinner tonight, oven baked chicken breast in teriyaki sauce, cooked spinach.

Oh good answer Pacificstar. And so true, at our age we can wake up one morning and have had a stroke or find out in our next medical exam that we are a prime candidate for heart surgery. Life is to precious to limit yourself to finding Ms.or Mr. Perfect, because personally you will never find them.

I agree with you shoesmonkey if they say anything about FWB,IE or "just friends" then I'm not interested no matter what else they have to say about theirself. I do admire their honesty in at least being upfront with what they want out of a relationship though.

Okay, when you are reading someones profile what qualities that they write about theirself makes you interested enough to write them and what comments or "wants" makes you decide they're not for you?

Artichoke with butter and a salad

Oh and let me ask this also, he said he really wants to meet me, should I give him another chance? What would you do?