I think you guys are confusing his question, he probably means that if you're already in a relationship, why would you be on a dating site looking for another one. There's a substantial difference between looking for and or having friends here and looking for something else or trying to hook up with a person behind someone's back. There's my point again. It's unavoidable. well wtf are we supposed to think? "Welcome to the best free dating site on the web. Completely Free Online Dating Sign up in 60 seconds and meet someone! Why Join? There's tons of singles. We're one of the biggest dating sites on earth, and it's all totally free. No fakes. We strictly monitor who uses our site, and you can easily block people who you don't want to talk to. It's quick - Most people that use this site find a match within minutes. It's easy - Mingle2 is a piece of cake to use. Within minutes you'll be chatting with potential dates in your area." with that splattered all over the front page? I don't think you have a valid point, this is a dating site. Maybe people use it for more than that and get more out of it than dates etc. but that doesn't mean it's still not a dating site. That or I don't get what you're trying to say, which is completely possible. |
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Edited by
canaryrx8
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Tue 01/13/09 02:33 PM
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Actually nice guys don't finish last, they just run a different race.
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I think you guys are confusing his question, he probably means that if you're already in a relationship, why would you be on a dating site looking for another one. There's a substantial difference between looking for and or having friends here and looking for something else or trying to hook up with a person behind someone's back.
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Edited by
canaryrx8
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Tue 01/13/09 11:58 AM
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I judge as well out of precaution, sometimes fake people use these sites to "phish" or spam, so I pay close attention to spelling, pics or no pics, usernames, the whole thing. I've had some women on here jump all over my profile and tell me their personal email address after only like 2 messages, giving me some line like "it's easier to reach me at.....", well, it sure didn't seem to be a problem contacting me here either so when someone sends me something like that I tell them I don't know them well enough to do that just yet and sure enough I never hear from them again. I fell for it on other dating sites, then when they email me it's a link to another personal site, or they're from a foreign country trying to scam me out of money or something, have to be careful on "teh web", there's no accountability out there so unfortunately I have to judge to an extent.
edit: as far as judging based on religious views, I don't see a problem with women who mention that, and if that's their gig, more power to them and they're smart/brave for putting it out there as it will filter out the people who probably wouldn't work out etc. |
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guess what...
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Well...it's all a state of mind. **** the politics and drink...I'm too busy creating a holiday here.... works for me |
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guess what...
Edited by
canaryrx8
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Mon 01/12/09 11:36 PM
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What bush left already? Open the bottle, Open the bottle... yes, please do, being drunk the next 4 years will make oblahblah's reign of socialism a lot less painful Oh, Wah, Wah... Republicans always cry when they lose an election don't they? who said I was republican? and even if I was, let me count how many times we had to have a recount, oh wait, we didn't I don't claim either party, I only vote for the person who I think will do a good job, picking someone who has next to no experience and is from slimy Chicago style politics did not bode well for me, to bad you and others bought the hype or voted for homedude solely based on party, hopefully the damage he does won't turn us back too far to recover after he's gone. (although sexism took a HUGE hit this past election cycle, not sure how long that will take to rebound) edit: either way, it's over I'll just agree to disagree and let us all be merry or whatever (I actually don't drink, so I'll just toast a diet dr pepper) |
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guess what...
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What bush left already? Open the bottle, Open the bottle... yes, please do, being drunk the next 4 years will make oblahblah's reign of socialism a lot less painful |
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Does it ever get easier?
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I agree. Dating at this age is very difficult. The motivation along with wondering if one will ever find someone who is not so damaged or addicted and willing to love you for who you are with your children and all that comes along with a teenager and a toddler. Somehow, it seems a bit hopeless. Maybe, I am just being a bit pessimistic. Maybe? |
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could be worse, you could have the nooma nooma song stuck instead.
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For every moment you're bitter, whatever you're bitter about is winning and you're losing, you don't want to be a loser do you? no but I envision midgets dressed as leprechauns talking like thugs and running a beat down (with shillelagh sticks) on what I'm bitter about..only I can't put it on youtube..its only in my head disclaimer: this is not meant to be offensive to anyone I apologize if you found it to be so... gotta start somewhere |
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argh
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For every moment you're bitter, whatever you're bitter about is winning and you're losing, you don't want to be a loser do you?
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He Lied! The F*cker LIED!
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If you'll lie about your age, you'll lie about anything.... yup. Did I read he was already 17 years older anyway? I can see a few years difference, but once you start going deep into the double digits it seems kind of creepy to me, I mean, this dude was practically past puberty before you were even born...yikes. Good luck with the outcome, sometimes bad stuff happening is the only opportunity we have to learn from our mistakes. |
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Does it ever get easier?
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Wondering if I will ever date again ****, me too, I have hope and loads of optimism, but no dates. |
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music fans ??????
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ICP? Seriously? Damn that's tragic man. |
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Pepsi or Coke...
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neither, diet dr. pepper or fail.
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Edited by
canaryrx8
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Mon 01/12/09 07:07 PM
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I am in no way a Utah fan and most likely never will be, but, in all fairness to the young men who go out there and play their hearts out I believe they should be national champions. At 13-0 Finishing second in the Associated press and fourth in the coaches poll. I see no reason they should not be ranked first in both. But it's not about what's fair these days. Like has already been mentioned, it's all about the money. Gee, Imagine what these kids are being taught. I agree 1000%, Utah got hosed,it was bad enough being a Texas fan and watching 2 teams we beat play for the conference championship, (and seeing the OU fans on national TV making fun of us as well...awesome, class act there) it must be even worse to be a "ute" fan seeing as they had a quality schedule and handled their business week in and week out, which NONE of the other so called "championship caliber" teams (including my 'Horns..ugh) did. |
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Edited by
canaryrx8
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Mon 01/12/09 05:45 PM
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Another year goes by in College Football and we are yet to wonder WHY there isn't just one team to be the consensus/undisputed National Champion. I'm a big USC fan, so I'll refrain from stating USC's case for being the Number 1 team. But I can understand those Mormon Utah fans for making a case to being the No. 1 team. And as of 30mins. ago, I can understand Florida's argument in their belief that they're the true National Champs. But why are these schools feeling the need to making a case of them being Number 1? I'll tell you why. Those money hungry commissioners of the major college football conferences and their paranoia of losing money, that's the real problem. Their usual excuse for not implementing a playoff system is because the extra games will cause the student-athletes to not focus on their studies. That could be a valid point, that is if EVERY OTHER division in college football didn't use a playoff format which determines a TRUE NATIONAL CHAMPION! It works for Division 2, 3 and god know how many other divisions are in college football. Why can't Division 1/FBS do it? This argument will go on for a good while. Who do you think will go down as the National Champion this year? Or will there be a co-champion, even? Discuss... I believe USC will be the National Champions Nope, and we'll never know who truly deserves it since the current system will never produce a fair outcome. |
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what happens in Austin?
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pick up an Austin Chronicle or do some googling, this place is LOADED with stuff to do, thing is, part of the fun is discovering what that is so I'll leave that up to you.
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Are you a cheater?
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Eventually if someone lies it will be found out. yup, that pretty much says it all, nothing is more persistent than truth. |
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Are you a cheater?
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I've never used narcotics or cheated on anyone ever, belive it or not, it is possible to survive and live and not wither away into dust without infidelity and getting high/drunk/****faced etc.
I believe in the "golden rule" and I've been cheated on before, I could never ever in a million years make another person feel the way that feels, it's a horrible feeling and no matter what circumstance or whatever, I feel there is honestly no excuse for it and I would never wish it on another person or partake in anything that resembles it. If you're in a relationship and something else comes along you should end it and go with the something else, not continue the existing relationship and pursue other ones, it's pretty simple really, but somehow lots of people really like to make a huge mess of it. |
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