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Wed 04/01/20 10:14 PM
What stands out to me most is that your description rambles. Edit. Maybe organize your thoughts and rewrite. Also, separated is unclear and scary. If you recently broke up from a long term non-marital relationship, that is far different than separated from married partner but not yet divorced. Address that. I don't think you need multiple sentences to state you are an animal lover. Include some descriptive terms identifying the type of woman you're seeking (quiet, cheerful, affectionate, independent, loyal, fit, likes xyz etc.).
Nothing wrong with editing your profile multiple times until you have included what you think is most important, while remaining honest.

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Wed 04/01/20 04:40 AM
Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus.

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Mon 03/30/20 03:49 AM
It shouldn't be that difficult to know the difference. A GF can say No.

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Fri 03/27/20 07:41 PM
Casual, but with a bit of sass. Always denim, jeans, capris, or shorts with a scoop or V-neck shirt, or a tank, some sweaters, and often a jacket and or scarf if I'm going in public. Nails polished. Leggings and sweats are for home. Hair fixed and at least some makeup even if staying home. It makes me feel good to look good. Everything must fit properly or I don't buy, or I alter it. I own one pair of black dress slacks that have never been worn. But might be needed some day. I own one dress that will be returned because COVID-19 cancelled the event.

I expect a man to be well groomed and present his best self for me. Clothes appropriate to the setting, fit properly, groomed hair regardless of length. Leave the damn baseball cap for outdoor activities.

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Fri 03/27/20 07:03 PM
Ditto on the above. Perhaps the gold digger term can be replaced with confident, self reliant. Unless you're looking for somebody who just looks good on your arm.

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Fri 03/27/20 06:52 PM
Well I've found out what a 1 rating is.
No pic
No information except a narcissistic come on line.
When someone lists looking for everything on the list including marriage, I read that you don't know what you want and will meet anyone with a vagina.

Pass.

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Fri 03/27/20 06:13 AM
Welcome to Mingle2.

Hmm, I won’t respond to guys who are not clothed and I know there’s many ladies who don’t either. Try changing your profile pic and see if that makes a difference happy

Agree. Put some clothes on. Other than that, if you were local I would respond.

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Fri 03/27/20 05:30 AM
I worry for those who live with violent abusers.

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Fri 03/27/20 04:37 AM

It would depend on the extent of the disability , Just a hint maybe change your occupation from disabled to retired
Good luck

Please do not hide from your disability on your profile.
For me, at this time in my life, any significant health issues would probably be a No. Other women will surely feel differently, but they need to make that choice. For the last 15 years of my marriage, my deceased husband's health and mobility limitations significantly impacted our daily lives, what we could do, and where we could go together. I am taking this opportunity to experience some of what I missed during those years. For now, I intend to date only men who are reasonably healthy and mobile.

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Thu 03/26/20 04:43 AM
I think it's a valid question. There is a perception that childless equates to self absorbed. If it's a concern, the subject should be addressed. There could be any number of reasons for being childless.

In my case, my only child died. So my profile says no children. I'm also too old to have children, so of course, no to "wants children".

I have discovered the opposite concern. Having spent little time around youngsters, for decades, I have limited patience with them. So I need to explore the level of any close relationship a grandparent has with his grandchildren.

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Wed 03/25/20 05:25 AM


A walking in the park is ok still.

Yes if you have your own park ,thousands had the same idea ,now they are shutting some parks


Actually, I had a first meet yesterday at a state park. Few people around. I liked that there was an opportunity to talk and get acquainted without any pressure or expectation for physical touching. There will be time for that later if we get that far.

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Wed 03/25/20 04:41 AM
I don't assign a number. I have yet to see a 1 or a 10, so I have no scale. I think your profile is pretty good. You show a sense of humor in your photos and your self description. Plenty of activities listed. I suggest searching your imagination for activities that might appeal to women for dates, since that is part of what you're seeking. And list qualities you want in a woman, or don't want. My guess is you will identify some of these as you receive messages from women who aren't a fit. Fill out that perfect date section. That tells a person a lot.

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Tue 03/24/20 04:42 AM
This question might better apply to younger women. I'm never going to remarry, so there is no question of anybody providing a lifestyle for another. He needs to be self supporting and able to afford to date. When there is an activity we both want to do, I want him to be able to pay his portion without the cost being a barrier.

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Tue 03/24/20 04:20 AM
Darn. I sent my opinion in a message instead of putting it here. Pretty good profile. Add more pics and more info about what kind of woman you would or would not be interested in.

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Tue 03/24/20 04:02 AM
I think your profile is good. It gives useful information about what's important to you. That's something I look for. Let me weed out the obvious non matches. Do you really not want to restrict age of location?

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Mon 03/16/20 04:46 AM
Oh man, too suggestive for me. But that butter pecan ice cream is tempting. I may go lay down for a while.

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Sun 03/15/20 06:36 PM
I'm 5'2" so I don't meet many men my height or shorter. My husband was 6'. That was pretty handy for reaching the top shelf. Seriously though, when we were young, his height, long torso, and broad shoulders was certainly part of the attraction. And the height difference made me feel more feminine and view him as more masculine. Now, at over 60 yo, and second time around, I'm far less interested in physical appearance. We're not 20 anymore. I would prefer a height difference less than a foot. But it would not be a deal breaker.

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Sun 03/15/20 04:27 AM
Are you serious that there are societal taboos about interracial couples? Not my world. IMO we have another generation or two before the majority of humans are mixed race. Ethnicity is nowhere in my criteria for a suitable partner.

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Sun 03/15/20 04:00 AM
If it's the current me, at my present age, with my actual life experiences... No love interest could entice me to voluntarily stay in that world. Women have no rights, no independent money, no opportunities to earn self supporting money, and hold a subservient place in society. I value my independence too much for that life.

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Sun 03/15/20 03:45 AM



Is there something wrong with just saying hi i am not interested:slight_frown:


Yes, there is something wrong with that. People then think a dialogue has begun and message more.
It is easier to ignore messages.


I totally agree with you.

You reply politely you’re not interested and they won’t accept it and continue to message!

Absolutely agree. More effective to ignore contact from those who aren't a potential fit.