OK WHY DONT GUYS WANT TO GO OUT WITH A GIRL IS IT THE WAY SHE LOOKS OR YOU JUST DONT LIKE HER AND WHEN GUYS CHECK OUT GIRLS PROFILE AND EMAIL THEM THEY TALK FOR A LITTLE WHILE AND THEY LEAVE WHYS THAT WE ARE NOT AFTER THAT WITH ME IM JUST LOOKING FOR A NICE RELATIONSHIP SOMEBODY TO HOLD AND BE WITH THATS MY ANSWER!!!!!!!

I could have sworn that it was all the girls fault:)

maybe you werent a mutual match...lol

shes a true. com spam

Who can figure men out. I certainly can't. Just when you think you have found a really good one, talk for weeks every night, and the next thing you know they won't even read their mail.

That kind of things happens with me to girls. It is normal and nothing to be offended about. You will find somebody worth YOUR time!

we all are not like that

I CAN HAVE ANY GUY I WANT I HAD SO MANY GUYS WANNA TO GO OUT WITH ME AND IM NOT A SPAM GET A CLUE ALL GUYS THINK ABOUT IS WHAT SHES GOT AND YOU SHOULD SEE HER AS SHE IS A BEATIFUL GIRLS THERE ALOT OF GIRLS THAT WANT A NICE DATE OR A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.

Speaking strictly for myself, there are dozens of possible reasons why I wouldn't want to go out with a girl.

As to why they e-mail and talk to you for a little while and then just stop, I have no idea. I really never did that. Maybe they saw something in you that they didn't like, which wasn't obvious at first. Maybe they found someone they like better. Maybe a helicopter fell on them. It's hard to say.

There are a lot of jerks on dating sites, just like there are a lot of jerks in real life. Odds are, you're going to run into some on any site you try.

guys are like women. they talk with you for a while to
see if there is compatibility, then, if they decide that
there is not enough compatibility, they stop talking...

unlike women however, they are less adept at stopping
talking...so they don't tell you that they are stopping...

Babycakes seen this post b4 good luck. sooner or later u will mention some other dating site. Last time it was true.com

i can under stand i just had to put my real pitcher on the web so a girl would email me heven forbid we would chat. i have a new pitcher now.

go figure....
some the messages are flying back and forth....then cold turkey.
New Matches....Mutual Matches...they are both about the same.

I think that some people are people who work the numbers. They are fast and furiously posting to 2-4 girls at the same time. Maybe one works out better and thats natural....but it is funny to look at who has looked at you and not gotten back to you for a bit....and it flashes..."ONLINE"

IM NOT LIKE THAT IM ALWAYS TRUE TO A GUY WHEN THEY DONT EMAIL OR WANNA TALK TO YOU SO WHAT WOULD YOU THINK WHEN YOU DONT HEAR FROM THEM I HAD ALOT OF GUYS DO THAT TO ME LEAD ME ON AND NEVER COME BACK I LIKE TO STAY WITH THAT NICE GUY AND TALK TO HIM AND GET TO KNOW HIM THATS HOW I AM IM VERY HONEST WHEN IT COME TO A NICE BABE.

i gave up on the match thing it will never work.

i wanna be hold

in your case from all your posts, you can't spell, you have no punctuation (which is terrible since you claim to be a "smart girl" in "collage"), you have no sense of humor, you do nothing but complain about how you can't get a date........


ever think maybe it's not the guys? maybe it's you?

i had sympathy for you when you first come on but this same old thread your posting yet again reassures me your doing it to yourself.

you see baby cakes i could not even email you becuse i am 43 oh one year older then you want.whats up with that. wares the love

thats right what is with this wa wa stuff

My experience has been most women like yourself put up restrictions on who can get in touch with you. What is wrong with maybe meeting someone who is not close to you or even a few years out of your range? The right person who you seem to be looking for might not be in your area, but a somewhere else and you are missing out on good people with the restrictions you put up!

Maybe your right guy is not anywhere near you, but you might never know!