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Relationship matters
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Yep, nothing worse than when your partner, the person who rocks your world, withdraws from you....It's a heartbreaker.... that's very true. and i don't think doing this is selfish. as long as they don't get hurt |
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Relationship matters
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Say nothing .. When I turned 36 my ex told me that I wasn't as pretty as when I was younger, I lost all confidence in myself for ages. Ireally didn't get it back until the last 12 months when i found someone who loves me just how i am. We all know when we put weight on or get older, we don't need to be told. Well, some people need to be told, 'cause sometimes they're just to lazy to burn off those fat, and also they tend to eat whatever comes up on the menu. And you think telling them they're fat, even though they already know, is the best way to get them to stop being lazy and do what you say to do? It doesn't have to be in rude way. You can talk to someone in love and if they see the benefits,they might eventually yield. You don't have to be cruel or quarrel with them over it. Being obessed could be deadly |
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Should love ever give up?
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I agree, love as an emotion is not unhealthy, the ways we manifest lovecan be very unhealthy though when someone manifests love in a way that is unsafe or unhealthy for me, I have to step away from them and their 'love' ,, allowing mine to remain in tact Love as an emotion is not unhealthy, but the way we express love can be unhealthy. |
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Should love ever give up?
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i think looking for love is a waste of time... you'll find someone, they'll tell you they love you... they'll tell you EVERYTHING you want to hear... then they'll leave... Yeah; that's been my experience too. 
I guess they could get what they wanted from you, hence they decide to leave. That sounds like a player - tells you what you want to hear and leaves |
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Relationship matters
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If you've noticed your mate has put on some extra unattractive weight, what's a nice way to inform him/her you've noticed the change, and would like him/her to work on it? There is no easy way, Soufie's right about that....But, if the weight gain is having a negative effect on the relationship then it needs to be discussed...With empathy, support, reassurance, love....Open communication about everything good and bad, IMO, is necessary to a healthy relationship...If the love and the trust is intact, the conversation can be had in a positive way...Work it out!!!! I think talking it out in the manner you suggested here above is healthy for the partner involved, rather than keep it to yourself or draw back from them. |
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Relationship matters
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Say nothing .. When I turned 36 my ex told me that I wasn't as pretty as when I was younger, I lost all confidence in myself for ages. Ireally didn't get it back until the last 12 months when i found someone who loves me just how i am. We all know when we put weight on or get older, we don't need to be told. Well, some people need to be told, 'cause sometimes they're just to lazy to burn off those fat, and also they tend to eat whatever comes up on the menu. |
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First Messages
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It could be a transfer aggression from whatever they're passing through at the moment, but i wouldn't take any offensive mail as a joke.
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Ummm I think they would be in big trouble.. For me it would be finished straight away, I hate any type of lies, so that would be a major thing I would choose not to get over. And to me even though I would still be friends I would still see them as the wrong sex Wrong sex? Lol... Or do i call it surgically induced gender? Ooosh (sigh) |
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You're in a relationship with a suppose opposite sex partner and after a while in the relationship, you found out that they're transgender. Do you kick their butt or let it be? You're straight but already loving them. the same as if I was with someone I thought was single and later found was married or someone I thought was a stranger and later found out was a sibling it would of course be harder to do the more emotion had been invested, but I still have control of myself and my body to not be 'sexually' involved in an inappropriate situation I happen to feel two people with XX chromosome is an inappropriate sexual relationship, so it would have to end although the friendship could absolutely remain in tact You're right, self control and cutting it off would be the appropriate thing to do, really |
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What's it with age?
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Why's it that most women see it more of a taboo to date a younger man? One thing i've noticed is that most of these women don't have a cogent reason but they tend to follow the norm of the society. I've bot seen it anywhere or written in a book that the man must be older than the woman in a relationship. So, how young of a man can you date? Afterall nobody complains if an 80years old man marries a 20 years old lady. Honestly for me its probably a vanity thing. I dont want people thinking that my man is my son, I dont want to look in the mirror and see an old lady and have a young man beside me, I would be way to insecure for that... Plus I like someone sensible enough to balance me out. So I would stick with older men as then I feel safer. But does this mean that all older men are sensible, mature and focus? You're in your early 40s, and does it mean being with someone in his late or mid 30s, would make you feel awkward in a way? Common, are you saying you can't date anyone younger than you are? |
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Has it worked for you?
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Thanks y'all, I've always wanted to know the success-stories. Just want to be sure i'm on the right track.
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Has it worked for you?
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I joined this site not to long ago, and really i want to know if anyone around here has actually found a date either in the past or present, and how they went about it and what made it a success.
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First Messages
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It depends on the context, if they're making a good poing then i might adhere
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You're in a relationship with a suppose opposite sex partner and after a while in the relationship, you found out that they're transgender. Do you kick their butt or let it be? You're straight but already loving them.
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I think when it comes to marriage, it has to do with values and virtues. Priority defers from person to person
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COUGAR Dating
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in my 47...........l assume no ..........am not l a cub???? You could be ... plenty of 65 year old sexy mamas would pounce on a cub of 47 You just wouldn't be a cub to me ... of course, I am not a cougar in the market for a cub either. It's all relative... But how young of a man can you date? |
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COUGAR Dating
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No Cougar on Mingle. How true is this? |
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COUGAR Dating
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I want to point out that this question is relative. Everyone's answer would/ willbe different. I know some "cougars" go out looking for cubbies. But I think most cougars just end up finding that a younger man can be just as compatible with them as an older man. Exactly right.  Life is short, but immaturity can last a lifetime.  
To be a male is by virtue of birth but to be a man is by choice. Not by physique |
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Should love ever give up?
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Love is a two way traffic. Yeah and you can get run over in two way traffic. Best to stay on the curb and avoid the love traffic
Love still exist, that i believe I guess as long as you believe; that is all that matters. 
You're right Navygirl |
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Relationship matters
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I knew a dude who, on his anniversary, bought his then wife a membership to a gym. Notice I said "then" wife. Haha! So what happened afterwards? Or are they now divorced |
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