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Sun 11/13/11 12:54 AM



If you've noticed your mate has put on some extra unattractive weight, what's a nice way to inform him/her you've noticed the change, and would like him/her to work on it?


I would mention the weight but not because its unattractive but because it can be a health issue especially for people in my age bracket. I also would help the person to lose weight with some exercise and cooking very healthy meals.

I guess many have not seen being over-weight as a threat to their health.

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Tue 10/18/11 05:10 PM

Well sheesh, a woman in her 50's isn't some shriveled up old hag. And what if the younger guys keep hitting on her?? Does that make her a Cougar? Or is it only when she does the pursuing? Apparently some people think it's a big joke and hella funny if an older woman flirts with a younger man. I wonder how you'll feel when you reach that age? Getting older should not mean that you give up on love, or desires, flirting or plain old hot sex. Just saying...



You're damn right

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Tue 10/18/11 05:07 PM


Why's it that most women see it more of a taboo to date a younger man? One thing i've noticed is that most of these women don't have a cogent reason but they tend to follow the norm of the society. I've bot seen it anywhere or written in a book that the man must be older than the woman in a relationship. So, how young of a man can you date? Afterall nobody complains if an 80years old man marries a 20 years old lady.


Me, when I look at a younger guy; I feel more like his mommy. I also found I have nothing in common with a younger man. The guys that are attracted to me are in their 20s to 30s. So having 20/30 years of living over them would make it hard to have any type of relationship. I think younger guys just want an older woman for sex and nothing else.

And who says that if a man is in ur age range, he's not looking for sex either? Not all younger guys are after older women for sex. We're not all the same.


Perhaps...but I will NOT date anyone NEAR my oldest son's age...and he's 38!!!!

Will u also feel like his mom or because u have a son in his age range, u should deprive urself of a good relationship? Afterall he's not ur son, so what's the big deal.

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Tue 10/18/11 04:54 PM


Love is a two way traffic.


Yeah and you can get run over in two way traffic. Best to stay on the curb and avoid the love traffic laugh


Love still exist, that i believe

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Fri 09/30/11 03:20 PM

And when she askes "Do these jeans make me look fat"?
Say "No, it's your fat that makes you look fat" !!!

Hahaa, quite funny man. Of course it's possible to add weight and not know until u get on a scale, this has happened to me

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Fri 09/30/11 09:25 AM

cougar bait
A gentleman usually 21 or older (19 and up in Canada) that is in a bar enjoying his alcoholic beverage of choice that is being hit on by a woman typically 35 and up that may or may not have a few kids and some extra baggage.(form urbandictionary)
I was always told that under 40 you were still a cubbie.
my problem with this is
What if the lady is 60's-70's and the guy is 40's-50's? Is she still a cougar, and him a cubbie?

You just raised a good point. Well, to me I feel once the woman is older than the woman, she's a cougar and he's a cub?

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Fri 09/30/11 09:22 AM

Dude.
Dude.
If you have noticed, so have they.
Keep it zipped.

So do think it's unecessary to talk about it?

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Fri 09/30/11 09:15 AM
If you've noticed your mate has put on some extra unattractive weight, what's a nice way to inform him/her you've noticed the change, and would like him/her to work on it?

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Thu 09/29/11 11:42 AM

Caught ex-girfriend with my cousin who is a man if anyone was wondering after i dump her he started going with her and started beating her right after they got together now she sees the mistake she made,my cousin loves to beat women

But how is your relationship with you cousin afterwards?

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Thu 09/29/11 08:49 AM


If you were my stepson putting the moves on my daughter?


I'd kick a 27yr olds arse... no doubt about it smokin

agreed

If i was ur son, okay what if your daughter is about 27, what would u do? Or would u accept it if they're both in their teens? Common don't be bias with ur judgement, lol

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Thu 09/29/11 08:45 AM


Do cougar care about age?


By definition, they'd be into younger guys. So, I would say yes.

Okay but are u one? And do u think they have an age-limit(down)?

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Thu 09/29/11 08:24 AM
Do cougar care about age?

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Thu 09/29/11 08:24 AM

Well OP, I would forgive, but it doesn't mean i'd be visiting those people again for quite some time. Not never again. Just never any time soon. I'd have to cut contact with the two people at first.

Uhmn uhmn, i guess would have bridged ur trust by so doing

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Thu 09/29/11 08:21 AM

Love is a two way traffic.

Yes you're not mistakened on this

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Thu 09/29/11 08:14 AM
Is 40 the cut-off age for cubbies?

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Mon 09/26/11 06:24 PM
Thanks, it's relative but is it about maturity or age differences?

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Wed 09/21/11 07:37 PM
What do cougars look out for in a cub and how young of a cub is too young for you to date?

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Wed 09/21/11 06:00 AM


I have been in a relationship where my partner called it quit but I found it difficult to let them go, not because they were perfect but because I truly loved them.

If you truly love them you will let them go.

Later on, I found out that some times those we love don't love us back and unless the feeling of love remains mutual it can never grow. To me I believe love is a seed, and if planted on a good soil can grow like banyan. I still believe true love exist somewhere, maybe mine has not gotten to me yet. With little being said, at what point would you say a 'no no' in a relationship and how did you feel when your ex told you it's over without you hurting them? Did you ever feel like having them back? Even though they've hurt you badly? Share some experience. Thank you

due to my little experience in relationships, before your partner will call it quit you already know.
Sometimes, we just hold on to what we know is not there.
Iam tempted to say love don't exist, definitely not for me. happy people love you for what they want to get from you, they love you b'cos of comfort, and once they gets better one out there their "love" change.
So i don't bother my head over a lost relationship, i just conclude i could not meet your need. flowerforyou

It was never love in the first place, if it was love it wouldn't turn out that way. Most people mistaken other kind of emotional feelings (infatuation, crush, lust,etc) for love, at the end they say love don't exist or is wicked. Love is unconditional to me, and it doesn't have to be mutual

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Wed 09/21/11 05:07 AM

um well i wouldn't allow them to date what if one has feelings for the other more then the other one does for them n what if later on they move on n find someone else but there is still one who has alot of feelings for the other?? i would make sure if they really want to be together they mean it because one will end up getting hurt n things in the household will become ugly if they don't nip it in the butt n see how the other's feelings are n they need to know how one feels more then the other does...

Yes someone might just get hurt and the family might get ugly

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Wed 09/21/11 04:52 AM


Love is overrated.


Only if it is for a relationship but not over rated for family and friends. flowerforyou

But should love ever needs to be conditional? Regardless of whoever we're sharing it with