Ive had few relationships in the past where in I was older than my boyfriends. It was really unintentional. I always wonder why I am always linked to someone younger. Could be because I am very outgoing and fun loving person.

What does a man need to have all his heart and attention

only advantage of being tall is , they can eat of a short person's head , but a short person canot do that to a taller person ... ha ha !!

Do I meet my wife's lover from 2 years past we separated now but she still has not told me the truth it's been almost 2 years now and I can't forget the hurt and pain

Nature meant for people to find a partner when they were young. If you really want someone later in life? You have to be more flexible. Compromise. Be willing to be open to more people. Willing to select someone not based on their looks but the person they seem to be. Be open to someone of a different race or religion. Shorter than yourself. Go older in your searching. Be willing to relocate. Accept someone with children at home. Someone who smokes. Over weight. Bald. Not such a good figure. Someone who doesn't have a few of your interests. Consider the wallflower. Some one with a serious health issue. People from other countries . A person with a lower income Otherwise you are fighting natures plan. On the other hand if you are rich and show the world you are in an attention getting way. You could like some of the entertainment stars. I don't need to list their names here. But you know them. Not just men but some older women have found partners later in life because they were known to be wealthy. But some over 50 do get lucky and fill their want list. But most won't. Time and health issue are against you.

For men it would be as most women, even really short ones like taller men.

The gentlemen left when women started getting tattoo's, cursing, walking around 30+ pounds overweight like its no big deal, fighting, and basically looking like men with boobs. Oh yeah, let's not forget the entitlement these 200 pound beasts are out shoveling, all the while insisting to be treated like queens because of the "I know my worth" garbage.

Yeah, I said it.

It finally dawned on me, far too late, that it makes FAR more sense to just toss out $50 - $100 every so often, get exactly what is wanted (much younger, much prettier), with zero drama, zero time wasted, zero attitude, and then just get on with my day,week, month and life and be happy without all the nonsense of today's "modern woman".

Few here will probably admit it, but tons of men feel the same way. They've mostly all headed for the doors due to the feminist crap being shoved down everyone's throat.

Personality test can be really great tools to get insight in self.
So is astrology. And it can tell a lot and help as it's very accurate, but you can let all these things become an obstacle too and try to get a connection based too much on such things.

Nevertheless, there are certain starsigns that I don't resonate with and this is the case for 9 out of 10 of these signs. So then I feel it's rather pointless to give that yet another shot. I did a few years ago, and the same annoying traits that seems to come with that sign surfaced yet again.

There are also certain signs I resonate really well with. It may seems odd if you're not knowledgeable in that field, but if I look at all my best friends throughout life... they were all from the same sign.
Some signs aren't in my life at all, and those are usually the ones I have nothing in common or to share with.

As I said the only thing is to make it not too big a factor so you don't rule out the heart/feelings.

I've noticed that guys will be very attentive at first and then it falls off later

I guess they can't sustain it? Or aren't motivated

My store stopped selling my favorite coffee. I'm buying Folgers. Not my favorite.