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Wed 12/05/18 05:34 AM

hmm. I think in the US, Presidents are just shown a respect when they pass, like most people when they pass, folks try to remember what they did correct and the good memories.


Yes, I think you are right about that. At least, that's the right thing to do when someone dies.

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Mon 12/03/18 07:41 AM

He was a good President, a good politician, a good husband, father and Grandfather. He was a good man.



Was Bush really that popular when he was in Office? Hasn't his reputation as a president grown after his presidency?

I remember that Reagan had varying popularity in the eighties. But to day many Americans seem to remember him as one of the more popular republican presidents.

Even his son, Bush JR, is remembered as an average popular president today, if I'm not mistaken. But during his presidency his only short time of popularity was right after 9/11, wasn't it?

Does (former) American presidents get better reputation by the years?

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Mon 12/03/18 06:56 AM

Anyway, depending on his experiences overseas, the current situation might be something entirely new to him. With race being such a hot topic over here these days, it's wise to be cautious when encountering bonafide racists.


When you say "overseas" do you mean Europe (as in overseas to America) or US (as in overseas to Europe)?

I don't know how this topic (racism) is either in US or Germany other than I've read and watched in the news. But I do read and watch much, so I know some anyway. My impression is that Germans mostly is very tolerant to foreigners with different skin color. But those few that aren't, are people to stay away from. Far right is _very_ far right in Germany.

If that is the case, my advice to EyeAm, is: run far away and don't look back. It's plenty of fish on either side of the pond ;)

Guten tag aus Norwegen :)

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Mon 12/03/18 06:38 AM

What is important to You?


Intelligence is the most important to me. But of course mutual attraction has to be in place first. And at least some common interests, like sword knitting and plastic bottle juggling.

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Fri 11/30/18 08:09 AM
I didn't read all the replies, but I have to say you Americans are way too hung up on colors.


Are you dating her parents or her?

If she is dating you for the right reasons, then forget those two old racists.

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Fri 11/30/18 08:00 AM
Only 50 miles, but it went very well and we ended up being married. Due to different issues we decided to break it up seven years later. She remarried, but we are still good friends ten years later.

Today, with grown up kids, I don't have any ties holding me back. Relocating to US is an option that is likely.

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Fri 11/30/18 07:45 AM
Long distance relations is hard. I think it's difficult even when it's the next city. Trust is of course important in every relations, but I guess it's more of an issue when not living near each other.

Being Norwegian and currently living here I don't expect to engage in a long distance relationship. Even though I would relocate. But friendship shouldn't be impossible?

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Fri 11/30/18 07:34 AM
Easier said than done. But the obvious answer is no.

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Wed 11/28/18 07:42 AM
Edited by EirikViking on Wed 11/28/18 07:49 AM

Chasing after you?

Women chasing men came up in another thread, the opinion was that when women chase men they run the other way.

Innately, men are the hunters and women are the nurturers. I've heard some men say they adhere to this and others say it's 2018, time for women to do the chasing.

So what are your true thoughts on this. If a woman were to pursue you, how would you really feel about that? Would you run the other way or would you feel flattered and take a risk going against what feels natural?




It depends what we are talking about. One nights are not my thing. But a woman taking initiative in romance is no wrong, I guess. But it can be a bit cringe if it's not mutual. A woman you have no interest in who misunderstand friendship for love can create difficulties between us. Often it doesn't end well...

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Mon 11/26/18 12:00 PM



NO I would not date a dude... ill

If _only_ love matters, then either age, sex, color or whatever matters. But in real life love isn't that simple. As far as I've been told :)


And THAT is my point (which I brought out about)..


I personally don't think different sexes is comparable. That's stretching it too far. But I see your point. I'm not sure you did get my point, though. Maybe it was lost in translation somewhere (I'm not English)


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Mon 11/26/18 11:28 AM
Edited by EirikViking on Mon 11/26/18 11:30 AM

Here, I have an idea on how to get a handle on illegal immigrants in any country that is part of the United Nations.

A Variable Fine

Here's how it could work...

Anytime a nation (any nation) has to catch and deport illegal immigrants, the immigrants parent nation is fined.
They are fined for all the costs related to removing that individual from their country. In addition, there is a fine assessed for each offense.


Not a bad idea.

We Europeans do it a bit different, though. We pay them to go back. Isn't that clever?? Spending even more money on unjustified "asylum seekers" and "refugees". Giving them even more reasons to 'nock on our doors! They loose nothing. Either they're granted asylum or they get a pile of money. How much? About $5k each. But some really clever ones will rise that to about $12k! I don't know the price of a camel, but I guess you get a few for $12k..

Shall we cry or laugh?

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Mon 11/26/18 10:45 AM

But, how do you get someone to even consider *starting* a long distance chat, to see if there is something there to build on?
I have no ties here (other than I'd have to sell my house), no love for the area, and would *readily relocate..
But no one wants to even chat if they are more than an hours drive away...


How long is a string? To me distance really doesn't matter that much. But I don't think I could get in love with someone I've never met in real life. And I don't think a long distance relationship is sustainable over long distances for long time. But what is long time?

I'm not sure... Starting with friendship and then take it as it comes, I guess..

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Mon 11/26/18 10:31 AM
Edited by EirikViking on Mon 11/26/18 10:34 AM


Why so skeptic about age? Either you click or you don’t.

But if only love matters, I can’t see why age should stop anyone?



ErikViking...
Do you feel the same about race...?
Or gender?
Would you date a man?

I mean..taken to it's logical end...if *all* that matters is ~luv~..then it could be a same sex person...or someone of a different race...right?



NO I would not date a dude... ill



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Mon 11/26/18 10:06 AM

Most Really young women are not interested. In Older men.

Ages 18 - 30

My opinion!



What about Anna Nicole Smith and that 90 year old millionaire? That must have been true love??

Or Hugh Hefner's girls? True love for sure!

:D

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Mon 11/26/18 09:56 AM
Edited by EirikViking on Mon 11/26/18 10:16 AM

most of my responses are from young women ,when does age become a problem :smile:


Me too, but every time I paid their plane tickets to come visiting me they didn't show up. When I tried to call them on the phone, they never answered.

Can it be something I said :(

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Mon 11/26/18 09:52 AM
Can long distance friendship work? If yes, then so can long distance relationships do too.

Is relationship hard? Yes, if you really love someone, then relationship is hard. But if you really love someone, then it can work over distances too.

Been there, done that. But I think moving together in near future has to be an option for it to work over time.

I have adult kids and can move everywhere for love. Gladly to US if so happen..

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Mon 11/26/18 09:38 AM
Edited by EirikViking on Mon 11/26/18 09:40 AM
Why so skeptic about age? Either you click or you don’t. There are a lot of beautiful women (or men for you girls) out there, both younger and older. The age is just a number.

But from my experience there are some factors that come in play dating older/younger. Family responsibilities can be very different, as some already has pointed out. Finances can also be a factor. Interests and experience can be different. Health and physics can also be different (if we talk about old people like me ;) Prejudices from friends and family can be a (big) problem too. Way too many that has a need to show their opinion about dating old/young.

But if only love matters, I can’t see why age should stop anyone?

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Sun 11/25/18 12:04 PM

I guess it would be possible to live anywhere, including the USA, and not be a fluent native language speaker, If one worked in industries that were primarily manual labor and not customer service or office work. Because hispanic is now as large as the Black population, we do have forms that are both in AMerican English and Spanish, so language would also not be a barrier to receiving assistance if citizenship documents and other forms met with the criteria.


We also have forms in other languages. In fact a lot of other languages, two Norwegian written languages, Sami (spoken by Norwegian natives), English, Farsi (Iran), Arabic, Somali and Turkish. Sometimes even others. Norway is too small a country to have self sufficient societies of other languages and culture. I believe that is more realistic in USA, especially in the border states to Mexico.

I guess there's no problem not speaking Norwegian as long as you have a job. But when language is becoming the main obstacle for work, then it's a problem. Still, you can speak all three Scandinavian languages and have no trouble get a job. Even English is widely accepted in many situations.

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Sun 11/25/18 11:35 AM

and in order to really know the challenges faced in America one would have to experience it. Right?
Denmark has a total population of 6 million with a extremely small amount of black residents ..extremely small
They don't have the same crime rate affiliated with one ethnic group that we do so they can't possible relate. How could they?.,how can you relate to something you don't live?

Their problem seems to be Muslim folks .. from what I read


In Scandinavia we are not allowed to speak about races or color of the skin. No matter race, skin or religion, we love each other so much that we got other problems…

https://youtu.be/NtlqszlsyCk

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Sun 11/25/18 11:29 AM


If you are a white guy of European descent...you have NO idea what other races have gone through.


Wow, did you just do what you accused others of?