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Thu 04/13/17 11:34 AM
Edited by matrueyear on Thu 04/13/17 12:30 PM

:wink:

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Thu 04/13/17 11:27 AM
Edited by matrueyear on Thu 04/13/17 12:25 PM

somewhere in the middle is what I want and have.

I was married to a physician who made 3 times what I did. I was after the children, career, best friend, cats, and dogs. I was a priority before the fish and the rabbit.

I don't want a stage 5 clinger who has no life of her own, either.

I want and have a woman who is beautiful, smart, independent, successful, and has the priorities in her life in order (including me).

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Thu 04/13/17 11:19 AM


She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?


Hum? I think some are missing the point. Me personally, I would go with the one that didn't make much money. And not because of how she is built. But because of the times spent with me. Because, When you get right down to it, I don't go with a woman because she is a high wage earner. I go with her because I like being with her. And she likes being with me. And that's what counts. At least to me.

Well thought and said

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Tue 04/11/17 07:48 PM
Edited by matrueyear on Tue 04/11/17 08:23 PM
She is high income earner, and busies all the time with her profession. Whenever you are with her, you might feel being neglected .

The other woman is that all her time belongs to you. She is there whenever you need her, but rarely makes much money.
If both of women physically are contributed the seem built( like Angelina) and at the same chronological age, which one you would prefer to date?

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Tue 04/11/17 07:34 PM
As long as not on the street.

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Tue 04/11/17 07:29 PM


Age is not a problem, all that matters is love.
..sure sure you said that now but once the gold Visa card and platinum card .. are all maxed out..
Well I can only assume.. you will be maxed out as well...lol

Or he will be the one maxed out... even he is 10 years older than you. I have been there before.

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Tue 04/11/17 02:27 PM

Have seen the older woman younger guy thing and more often not it is;
Older woman has property, money, and or access to to perks the younger guy wants.

She will trade sex for companionship and his ability to fix up or do heavy chores or provided even minimal free aid attendant care or chauffeuring.

Wants help keeping tabs on kids or pets.

Big "F" you to abandoning spouse or adult children.

More face saving than admitting to friends/family they need the financial help or gifts he provides



Thanks for sharing your observations!

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Tue 04/11/17 06:54 AM


If they do, that is preference. Too many these days want to label or tell or who you are attracted to

It's individual.

I like your word of " individual ", straight to the point.



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Tue 04/11/17 05:11 AM
Happiness!

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Tue 04/11/17 05:09 AM

why do ladies,guys,men and women cheat in their relationship is because they lack the spirit of insincerity whice is the firs spirit we are to possess as humans to live a responsible life.

Nah..... why bother to know why? Cheaters always have their own reasons. All you need to know is how to motivate yourself to a better person.

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Tue 04/11/17 04:52 AM

Hmm.. personally I date people for who they are not for their marriage or relationship status... I'm confident in who I am so I don't believe they're going to go running off to get back together with their EX..nope.. separated divorced it really doesn't matter if they want somebody else. Nothing's going to stop them...
I know lots of people who are divorced and still heartsick over there ex-partner.... all a divorce is is a legal document for the state or County to recognize that you are no longer legally and financially together...

It's just paperwork.... a person needs to be separated or divorced in their heads... now if I don't feel that they are over the other person in their mind...then.. yes I'm not going to keep keep .. dating them... but personally I don't judge people on their path.. or there past

Very well stated! It shows the self-confidence and wisdom within!

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Tue 04/11/17 04:44 AM

Not me.. I only like to date 39 year old divorced slender Asians that are around 5'6" who lives in Canada...

Welcome to mingle....

Thanks! :)

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Tue 04/11/17 04:41 AM

If they do, that is preference. Too many these days want to label or tell or who you are attracted to

It's individual.

I like your word of " individual ", short and at the point.


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Tue 04/11/17 04:16 AM
Is love real? If it is, I choose love indeed!
I am so dying to find love and fall in.

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Tue 04/11/17 04:15 AM
Is love real? If it is, I choose love indeed!
I am so dying to find love and fall in.

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Mon 04/10/17 06:49 AM



..... Hell no. Been there before, not doing it again asleep asleep asleep

The same!


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Yeah , the older ones ...tears

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Mon 04/10/17 06:06 AM

..... Hell no. Been there before, not doing it again asleep asleep asleep

The same!

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Sun 04/09/17 07:24 PM



Lmfao.... Well as for me yup I prefer much older. They do not want love... And a whole lot less into the head games


whoa what shocked
NotPay4Play, older women DO NOT WANT LOVE? From your vast experience, just what do these older women you are referring to want? what



... was that it? shocked scared
Seems getting there , or maybe not ...





When statements such as the one given earlier are made. It brings to mind questions of their own virility.

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Sun 04/09/17 03:25 PM
Men want to sex and women want to love.... lol classical

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Sat 04/08/17 09:17 PM

I think some man prefer older women. You just have to take a risk and hope they are actually sincere.

Best of luck to you

Thanks for the beautiful wish. Unfortunately I am not good at detecting who is glibly or sincere. I think I 'd better just take the tradition way if I choose to date a guy.
Good luck on your dating journey though!