How can you tell if they are sincere or not. I personally don't believe whatever they say about the how older women attract to them

I think some man prefer older women. You just have to take a risk and hope they are actually sincere.

Best of luck to you

im attracted to older women and just plain women in general and im telling the truth

Thanks for the beautiful wish. Unfortunately I am not good at detecting who is glibly or sincere. I think I 'd better just take the tradition way if I choose to date a guy.
Good luck on your dating journey though!

Not me.. I only like to date 39 year old divorced slender Asians that are around 5'6" who lives in Canada...

Welcome to mingle....

Lmfao.... Well as for me yup I prefer much older. They do not want love... And a whole lot less into the head games

I can't speak for the rest of them but not me. Hell no. Been there before, not doing it again

I like older women they are more mature and well experienced

They r mature and give 100% pleasure and satisfaction while having SEX

Guys don't really want to date.
"Date" is a social construct meant to limit behavior as to mitigate the consequences of what men want.

Guys want to be around desirable women. Guys want to have sex with desirable women.
Desirable meaning physically, emotionally, socially, and mentally attractive to them. A natural and socialized set of conditions that represent the easiest, most comfortable, and convenient means a man can perpetually be around a woman, and get to have sex with her.

"Society" set conditions for that.
Traditionally speaking it was marriage. Through negotiation with parents, having to focus on something other than the pleasure and wonders of being around a woman to come up with a dowry, rigid codes of interpersonal behavior.

Men didn't really like those conditions.
In comes the industrial revolution and people flooding to cities where family's and small communities cannot control the individual as much through social pressure, forced marriages.

This leads to the creation of dating.
Where before it was "in order to be around and have sex with a woman, you have to marry her, or no women for you," as the spectrum, it then became "you must date, follow the dictates of dating, or no women for you."

So men dated.

Marriage has fallen even more out of favor. With more people in their prime mating years forgoing marriage to be single.

Men do not want to date.

Now instead of the spectrum being "marriage, or no women for you," or, "date in public and act appropriate, or no women for you," it's "hangout, just be around each other, have sex if you want to, or no women for you."

Now the burden is more on the individual woman than it is on social constructs and social rules enforced by society (as opposed to government or the individual alone).

Men do not want to date women who are older than them.
Men do not want to date.

Men want to be around women to elicit the mating chemical highs, and have sex with women in order to release the stress those mating chemical and hormonal highs create.
Just as always.
For some men, "older women" represent the easiest, most comfortable, most potential for long term satisfaction compared to alternatives, than other women.

Men want women. Men separate women into labeled categories depending on potential fulfillment, effort, compatibility. Older, younger, hotter, butterface, supermodel, 10, Ohio 6, girl next door, take home to mom, freak in the sheets, nice girl, bad girl, slut, virgin, church lady. Whatever.


By how well they listen to what you say, pick up on what you aren't saying, and respect and validate what you do, especially things you might not even realize or recognize you're saying, aren't saying, or doing.
The more focused, cognizant, and observant on what you do and who you are, than what you can do, or are doing, for them.

A related danger is if you are the type of person who thinks "I know who I am, and what I want!" then the less likely you are going to be able to spot actual sincerity on their part, as it's not going to validate who you think you know yourself to be, or what you think you want.


That's the irony of online forums.
You shouldn't really trust anything where all you have is what they say.

I am currently associating with a woman that is 10 years older than me.
Not sure if anything significant is there yet, or ever will be but her age hasn't been an issue with me yet?

My range is 10 years younger or older. A decade is close enough that we still have many things in common. I must tell you there are certain aspects that are not optimal but so far those have been insignificant to our friendship.

Depends.. there are different stages older woman. it has to be narrowed down

Bingo parlor lady
Retirement age lady
Where are my friggin teeth old lady
rest home old lady

And the prize of the "older Lady" pack

blue / gray hair and pearls around the neck old lady. Shrunken to under 4 feet and wearing therapeutic black shoes

Those are the most dangerous. Approximately 15 years ago I was in a casino and on my way to the cage to cash in after after a good run at Blackjack. A blue hair came flying through on her electric scooter thingy and ran me down. Didn't even stop. She saw someone had gotten up from a slot machine she liked and she was not to be denied her place at that machine.

Yes...the most feared ones.

yup..... elder ladies or just like old wine....

Men want to sex and women want to love.... lol classical

Young old doesn't really matter as long as they just want to fall in love..
I'm so tired of women that just want sex I truly want somebody.. that wants to love me with all their heart..

Yup..

Oh, I don't know. From what I've seen, it's certainly true that men tend to SAY they want sex, and women tend to SAY they want love, but in the event, they both want both, they just go at it differently.

Funny how some people think they can get love by having sex, and some think they can get sex by feigning love.

By the way, OP, when it comes to younger guys who say they want older women, they are as varied as any other group. Some of them really do, some just think they do, some actually know what they need to for it to work, and lots more only think they know.

And there's rarely any way to guess in advance. Meet with the ones who you think you like, watch for how they treat everyone and everything else around you, and you will likely see through the fakers fairly quickly.

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Well if a guy asks about her pension plan or savings account then she should probably be skeptical.