Does colour matters when it comes to love?

It does if it does.

Seriously.

Many people ask questions in the general nature of whether or not this or that SHOULD affect whether someone loves another or not.

I have concluded after careful consideration that too much of the time, the reason the person asks, or calls for people to "overlook" or "overcome" some limitation that they may have in their likes and dislikes, is that they want to FORCE someone else or REQUIRE them to give love which they do not actually feel.

Do you really want to take away another person's right to feel whatever they do or don't feel?

So to me, this is no different than asking if Astrology matters in love. My answer to that as well is, that if it matters TO YOU, then it matters. If it doesn't, then it doesn't. Whether or not it SHOULD matter, isn't up to others to dictate.

everything matters when it comes to love.

Colour, age, male or female, and distance should not matter when it comes to love. We all have that special person that when we meet it just feels right, You feel complete. I know that if you were into guys, I would have a serious relationship with you.

Doug

For me, color doesn't matter.

(kc0003)if you truly love someone I don't think anything matters except if the person in question doesn't not have affection for, but in that case you can as well make her develop it because love is something grows

(kc0003)if you truly love someone I don't think anything matters except if the person in question doesn't not have affection for, but in that case you can as well make her develop it because love is something that grows

(kc0003)if you truly love someone I don't think anything matters except if the person in question doesn't not have affection for, but in that case you can as well make her develop it because love is something that grows

yeah sure when you truly say I am in love with this person you know

(Rizajune) that's true dear

Color matters to people.
It takes people for love to "grow."


Love only grows if a person lets it.

And you can theoretically change a persons mind to make color not be a limiting condition, working against their love growing for someone.

But, the amount of time, effort, and energy that would take makes it extremely inefficient and generally pointless in terms of dating and mating.

Especially since there are no guarantees that after their mind is changed, making color irrelevant, that they'll actually grow to love the person that changed their mind.
You can't "make her develop" love.
Unless you are talking about Stockholm syndrome or something.

Better to just use that time, effort, and energy towards finding someone to whom color doesn't matter, or a specific color is desired or preferable, rather than try to change their mind, and then try to get them to grow love.

I'll drink to this

For some it matters greatly for others doesn't matter at all.

Just like for some distance matters, for some not at all.

Just like religion matters for some, for some not at all.

Everyone has a preference in what they want in life, doesn't really matter what others think, It matters between the two people that are attracted.

Not if you are Captain Kirk.

No **** stirring has ever happened here..

See...
...this is red --->
This is pink --->
And this is violet --->

Altho, i could be colorblind...

We are talking about colour here I don't think colour can make me hate someone that I love because before you fall in love with someone you most have been seeing he or her so I don't think colour count when it comes to love

So if you do not think colour matters
... then why do you ask if it does?

ah so you mean RACE?
is THAT the question - does RACE matter?

(come on get to the point that itches... this is confusing as hell)

I have seen an instance on another site where a black/afro-american/african (make your pick) woman from France is looking for a white boy between 28 and 38.
Confuded, I asked her "why?".
Said she had "expectations" since she was looking for something "real"



That woman is racist as hell - because what she is saying in fact is that black dudes cannot fulfill her expectations, that they are not real.




In Essence:
Color might not matter to you.
But to other people it is one of the most important things.
But is it still love then... or is it business?



Lemme tell you one thing here.
Love is about You and Her. [Him... It]
Your Mind and Soul first, and then your Body and your wallet.
If someone out there treats you in a different way, looks at your skin before checking out the Guy inside that skin, send that person back to where she came from.

Keep it simple, keep it real.

Well we are being told that race/sex/gender/color are now "what you feel" not what you actually are!

So why is that question even relevant?