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Mon 04/13/15 05:19 AM
Absolutely NOT..
Everyone's life & lifestyle & the style they want or want to keep.. it is their choice.

In response to your question to me. Date / marry, who you want. In the style you want. When we date or marry, one way or another, we take on a persons life & his people & maybe their financial responsibilities or even debt and taxes. * don't ask me about that.. grumble *

Sure attraction & a man being nice, respectful etc..is great. Love & lust can be great, wonderful, exciting.
But LIFE & REALITY always interferes.
So we have to make tough choices.

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Mon 04/13/15 04:53 AM


Yes,something else women have to consider. If a guy is paying alimony & child support & has a lot of debt.
If a woman marries a guy with these financial issues, she then becomes last on his list ( in many ways) & in many cases becomes legally responsible for his debt.

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Mon 04/13/15 04:37 AM

Is there money involved?


rofl I married my ' best friend"...
Both the friendship & the money worked well, for 15+ years. :wink:

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Mon 04/13/15 04:25 AM
Wow.. everyone is different & at a different place in life.

Just as some men are thought of & accursed of ' thinking only with their penis' ( wanting young & attractive) Some women are accused of thinking in terms of money & property.

Women- the bearers of children- should be thinking about a man's financial status if she ever wants a family. And she has the right to choose financial security for herself : children or future children. And to live a lifestyle she is accustomed or desires.

Men- have the right to seek women they are attracted too,for whatever reason.

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Mon 04/13/15 03:52 AM



People around here run into the grocery store in pjs all the time. So what? They are covered at least. Does this really hurt anyone's life? I have class but I do it. I don't dress to impress people. I wear what I want. I will dress proper for an interview, funeral, church, etc. Who the hell needs to impress someone while picking up milk? Don't like it then don't look. Seems silly to me.

The 1st time I saw someone wear pjs in the store...my thought was "damn she looks comfy"

If I got offended it would be because of a tshirt that is vulgar or offensive (rascist, etc) or showing way too much. Guess what? I can look away ohwell


I don't feel ' offended' by seeing someone in public, in pajamas.
* Offend- to irritate, annoy or anger, cause resentful displeasure in,or wounded feelings*
But ' first impressions ', imo do matter. No matter, the circumstances, or even if it is unfair.

The ONLY time I was 'offended' by what someone wore, was as you said a " vulgar or offensive T-shirt"
I seen a man with a T-shirt implying that - sex with children is the best sex- .... I actually felt violent towards him. And I warned the cashier, in this small shop, that she may have to call the police * I was serious! ... yikes! *
I told him he was " the scum of the Earth & was chasing all the neighborhood customers away". And I called the owner later & never went back to the shop.


Couldn't have said it better myself. It has nothing to do with being offended, its just first impressions & how people view others at first glance. If you don't care how you come across then so be it but i think getting dressed and being presentable is just a general rule before leaving the house imo.


:thumbsup: We naturally access our surroundings & people around us.
Instincts I assume.

Like me & the perv T-shirt guy .... Well.... I have no casualties to report... :tongue: . But, I needed GREAT restraint, that day. Because legally, I would of been in the wrong. Because of freedom of speech * even though, his shirt was refering to a a major felony * mad:

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Mon 04/13/15 03:24 AM

People around here run into the grocery store in pjs all the time. So what? They are covered at least. Does this really hurt anyone's life? I have class but I do it. I don't dress to impress people. I wear what I want. I will dress proper for an interview, funeral, church, etc. Who the hell needs to impress someone while picking up milk? Don't like it then don't look. Seems silly to me.

The 1st time I saw someone wear pjs in the store...my thought was "damn she looks comfy"

If I got offended it would be because of a tshirt that is vulgar or offensive (rascist, etc) or showing way too much. Guess what? I can look away ohwell


I don't feel ' offended' by seeing someone in public, in pajamas.
* Offend- to irritate, annoy or anger, cause resentful displeasure in,or wounded feelings*
But ' first impressions ', imo do matter. No matter, the circumstances, or even if it is unfair.

The ONLY time I was 'offended' by what someone wore, was as you said a " vulgar or offensive T-shirt"
I seen a man with a T-shirt implying that - sex with children is the best sex- .... I actually felt violent towards him. And I warned the cashier, in this small shop, that she may have to call the police * I was serious! ... yikes! *
I told him he was " the scum of the Earth & was chasing all the neighborhood customers away". And I called the owner later & never went back to the shop.

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Mon 04/13/15 01:57 AM



Well you can pretty much throw any statistics out the window as far as what puts two people in the mood. But that's where I lose out on being one of the participants in statistics as, I'm the only one here and I'm always in the mood, so lots it's going to waste.


If you think about it approx 8 times a day.. Your an average American male. So your probably in the right place. bigsmile


*Some are confusing ' sex drive' with 'the need to breed' anyway. I give up. Everyone just go about your business* slaphead


Do animals with mating seasons have a sex drive? huh Or is it the 'need to breed'?


Some animals do, display a sex drive.

A dolphin. Which displays Bisexual or Pansexual behavior ( I don't think science knows yet)

A female porcupine will masturbate (jumping on a stick), immediately prior to mating. And the male waits until she is ready.

Some male birds that were once thought to mate for life, actually cheat, but always return to their female with the nest & hatchlings.

A male pigeon is driven to be with & return to his female & will even dance & touch her, each time they are reunioned. The same way they both do before mating .

Female monkies that are subordinate will sneak away from the dominant male, have sex with an subordinate male, and then return to the dominant male. The dominate male, wants all the females,for himself. Many monkies are promiscuous, and they suffer from sexually transmitted diseases.

Herding animals that are in ' Rut' , the males will kill each other if necessary.
Because their ' drive & need to breed' are simultaneous.

* Humans animals really aren't as different as we like to think. But we can CHOOSE & CONTROL our behavior, and use logic & rationally- which is REALLY what separates us *

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Sun 04/12/15 05:24 PM

Constantly learning from my mistakes... don't want to share a specific example.

But, I am a firm believer that we will continue to be giving similar situations until we learn the lesson.


" ... until we learn the lesson " biggrin

Too often, people don't, they say "why me?", & blame someone else & fail to see their own pattern.

It is not easy, to see or admit our pattens of dysfunction, it wasn't for me. I didn't want to believe, I was attracting the same type of man, over & over & over again.
When I changed myself, my world changed with it. And for the better.

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Sun 04/12/15 05:13 PM
There are LOTS of Protestant Churches in Kentucky .
I suggest ' Church Hoping '. bigsmile

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Sun 04/12/15 04:51 PM



How come i cant get into it it keeps saying permission denied???



what im finding it to be strange
is how did she even find that
forum
when its not even listed
in the post areas

and yes i remember
seeing it listed
many moons ago


Maybe still to be found on Google, although it would be weird if it's been a while, it shouldn't get indexed anymore, but yeah..

I checked Google as soon as the thread went up. There is no listing.

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Sun 04/12/15 04:44 PM
Aw.. you profile did say ' Native American ' living in Laos.


Now it says, ' White' in New Mexico & Catholic. what

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Sun 04/12/15 04:38 PM
Emu

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Sun 04/12/15 04:22 PM
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Sun 04/12/15 03:49 PM

It doesn't matter if I would or he would stay friends, what matters is after getting into a new relationship it wouldn't be respectful to the current boyfriend.


:thumbsup: Good point.
A man would never want his woman's ex in her life. Just like a woman wouldn't want her man's ex in his life.

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Sun 04/12/15 03:42 PM
Conch

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Sun 04/12/15 03:09 PM
Alpaca

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Sun 04/12/15 01:38 PM
Are you jumping in too quickly?
You said 5 girls. Have you dated girls that you were NOT in love with?
Are you falling for each one?

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Sun 04/12/15 01:21 PM
Follow your instincts ,not your wants & desires.

If something feels wrong, then it is wrong for YOU.

If something seems to be too good to be true, it probably is.

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Sun 04/12/15 01:13 PM
Welcome & good luck to you..

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Sun 04/12/15 10:46 AM

hmmmm I dunno man I kinda like chicks in goofy head gear :wink:


Because WE have a sense of humor & make the comic connection. :banana: