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Topic: TAKE US OUT IN STYLE
IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Mon 04/13/15 05:05 AM Edited by IamwhoIam1 on Mon 04/13/15 05:53 AM
If a woman wants to be taken out on a date in style, does that make her shallow and high maintenance? How or where would you take her out (or would like to go) on your first date? Be specific please.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Mon 04/13/15 05:08 AM
only if that's the only option all the time

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Mon 04/13/15 05:12 AM
If she wants it all the time..everytime.. My opinion. .yes..it makes her shallow and high maintenance

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/13/15 05:13 AM
my first date after divorce was final met on dating site ( not this one) I was sooooooo excited to be a girl again and not just a mom curled my hair, bought new outfit, did my make up felt like a teenager in bathroom listening to music and getting ready when I went downstairs to meet him he showed up in a rusty old truck with garbage on floor and an overflowing ashtray a dirty shirt and jeans, old ball cap took me to the bowling alley for a beer while I watched him shoot pool needless to say I was not happy and that was the only date

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Mon 04/13/15 05:15 AM
oooh trish not good for a FIRST date at all.

Biscuit85 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 142	Mon 04/13/15 05:18 AM
If she wants it all the time..everytime.. My opinion. .yes..it makes her shallow and high maintenance

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Mon 04/13/15 05:19 AM
Absolutely NOT.. Everyone's life & lifestyle & the style they want or want to keep.. it is their choice. In response to your question to me. Date / marry, who you want. In the style you want. When we date or marry, one way or another, we take on a persons life & his people & maybe their financial responsibilities or even debt and taxes. * don't ask me about that.. * Sure attraction & a man being nice, respectful etc..is great. Love & lust can be great, wonderful, exciting. But LIFE & REALITY always interferes. So we have to make tough choices.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 04/13/15 05:25 AM
If a woman wants to be taken out on a date in style, does that make her shallow and high maintenance? Well since this isn't specified to being just a first date, not at all. If she wants that, she should imply something to that nature. That she wants something not so casual.

Annierooroo Joined Mon 10/20/14 Posts: 12552	Mon 04/13/15 05:37 AM
If a woman wants to be taken out on a date in style, does that make her shallow and high maintenance? [/quote To your question no it does not make me shallow or high maintenance. One can not judge unless you have walked in my shoes. yes I want to go to a nice place to eat. Yes my standards have go up. The dump and me paying for it all don't cut it anymore. I refuse to lower my standards for any man again. IamwhoIam good on you. I'm right beside you.

Biscuit85 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 142	Mon 04/13/15 05:41 AM
"How would you take her out on your first date?" It all depends on the specific person, one people might prefer to have a meal while the other might prefer to just go for a stroll. That is what is great about dating, each person is different & likes different things. Its always best to do something you both have an interest in or enjoy.

TMommy Joined Fri 05/10/13 Posts: 9850	Mon 04/13/15 05:43 AM
"How would you take her out on your first date?" It all depends on the specific person, one people might prefer to have a meal while the other might prefer to just go for a stroll. That is what is great about dating, each person is different & likes different things. Its always best to do something you both have an interest in or enjoy. agree I think the problem occurs when you both have these often unspoken expectations.. it's nice if you plan it together and are on same wavelength

Biscuit85 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 142	Mon 04/13/15 05:45 AM
"How would you take her out on your first date?" It all depends on the specific person, one people might prefer to have a meal while the other might prefer to just go for a stroll. That is what is great about dating, each person is different & likes different things. Its always best to do something you both have an interest in or enjoy. agree I think the problem occurs when you both have these often unspoken expectations.. it's nice if you plan it together and are on same wavelength Exactly! If you do something you both enjoy, then well... you have a connection & will both have a better time as a whole.

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 04/13/15 05:51 AM
After I had posted my initial thought on the original question, your follow up question. Since you're now asking about a first date, and said casualness has been said nill. I would be dressed nicely. The vehicle would be clean, even if it is just a P.O.S. car. Have reservations for a decent restaurant. Considering the area I live in, we'll have to drive to a bigger city. After dinner, things further can be discussed. If that's not good enough.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Mon 04/13/15 06:10 AM
After I had posted my initial thought on the original question, your follow up question. Since you're now asking about a first date, and said casualness has been said nill. I would be dressed nicely. The vehicle would be clean, even if it is just a P.O.S. car. Have reservations for a decent restaurant. Considering the area I live in, we'll have to drive to a bigger city. After dinner, things further can be discussed. If that's not good enough. Sounds good. What time should I be ready?

Biscuit85 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 142	Mon 04/13/15 06:13 AM
After I had posted my initial thought on the original question, your follow up question. Since you're now asking about a first date, and said casualness has been said nill. I would be dressed nicely. The vehicle would be clean, even if it is just a P.O.S. car. Have reservations for a decent restaurant. Considering the area I live in, we'll have to drive to a bigger city. After dinner, things further can be discussed. If that's not good enough. Sounds good. What time should I be ready? Just dont blame him if he takes you to McDonalds on your second date.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 04/13/15 06:17 AM
Hmm.. not sure! they usually take me out... and the better the evening they showed me... the better their evening will be..mmm .

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Mon 04/13/15 06:22 AM
If a woman wants to be taken out on a date in style, does that make her shallow and high maintenance? How or where would you take her out (or would like to go) on your first date? Be specific please. Haha..im flexible..it depends on the context of the first date... But as long as the place is nothing trashy, confusing, loud or offensive... Im good. Id be as excited if it were on a nature hike, just as i would be having dinner wearing formal.. Just as interested in going to a wet market., as i would be going to a museum... Its the company that's more important, than the location.. if he's decent, knows what he's doing, easy to get along with...then no worries... ......of course a trip to paris would be nice too..hehehe...

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Mon 04/13/15 06:26 AM
A trip to Paris? I wish.

Biscuit85 Joined Sun 03/22/15 Posts: 142	Mon 04/13/15 06:30 AM
If anyone is going to Paris & has a spare ticket, i'm always available

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Mon 04/13/15 06:30 AM
A trip to Paris? I wish. Well... You did say to take us out in style.. If he had reserved seats on the virgin galactic space satellite... My oh my... Take me with you!