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Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER?
Easy? Hard? Normal? |
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*looking around wildly* Whew! Saw that topic and thought she'd violated the restraining order.
But, yeah. (except for that ^^^ one) I'm usually friends with them. That seldom changes 'til their new fellas get to feeling insecure about it. |
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I am friends with all of my exs (except the last one)
I think it took some time to heal hurt feelings from the break up but yes it can be done. |
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ex husband got married last year to the new wife
after the dust settled with divorce he and I actually get along pretty good but then again we have two kids and twenty years in common |
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no relation at all...so neither good nor bad
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there is no such thing as an ex lover for me...
. some habits are hard to break.. Mmmm.ohhhhh..yesss. please... . as she moans in the middle of the night for me.... .. WHAT.. JUST BEING HONEST..LOL |
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Friends with all my Exs .. Mature enough to respect each other and I often turn to them for advices for matters of the heart .. Some boundaries you don't cross anymore .
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Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER? Easy? Hard? Normal? Nope. No way. No how....Impossible. Wait? Maybe?.... |
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Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER? Easy? Hard? Normal? I only have one EX that I have no relationship with either way...The rest of my Ex's are great men and I value their friendship. Actually had dinner a couple of weeks ago with him and his wife that I set up |
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Depends on why and how we broke up.
For some, absolutely. Especially the ones where we both behaved well, and just realized we were incompatible some how. For others, no way in hell, or even with divine intervention. She was SO viciously destructive of me, I never want to hear from her again. |
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For some folks, absolutely!!!
My ex? Absolutely not! All feelings and respect were thoroughly annihilated during the course of the relationship. |
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My ex husband, (the only one) It would take all the gold in FT. Knox for me to talk to him. Not that I do not like him or anything like that. It is just that I would have to go back to that fear and inadequacy that he brings into my life.
As for ex boyfriends, They have moved on and so have I. So no need to keep in touch or associate with them. |
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Well....ever since I slept with my ex-wife's best friend......eh....it's been rocky.
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I TRIED to be friends with him, but he just kept reminding me of why I turned him into an "EX" in the first place So it's a NO for me |
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I think that depends on why you broke up in the first place. There are good and bad break ups.
For me.. we're friends and always will be. |
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I still communicate with both my exes. It was a problem with my last girlfriend but she didn't understand that my ex was helping me through tough times (sorta because she owes me) but we rarely see each other. She lives about a mile away from me
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Edited by
needsum12luv
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Sat 04/11/15 08:22 PM
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Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER? Easy? Hard? Normal? Nope. No way. No how....Impossible. Wait? Maybe?.... no, wait a minute, I'm confused, no......you're confused, yeah that's it. |
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Can you be friend of your EX-LOVER? Easy? Hard? Normal? Well, I reckon my view is this: if we couldn't be friends when we was having sex with each other, why we gonna worry about being friends when we ain't? |
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For me it depends on the ex. My first ex yes we are close like brother/ sister nothing more. He is married and his wife has no problems. We enjoy family occasionns. We are like this s because we choose to be mates for the sake of our daughter.
The ex husband well different all together. He doesn't want to be friends. That's OK his choice. |
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Edited by
dust4fun
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Sat 04/11/15 09:34 PM
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