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Topic: Pre approved Cheating
briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Fri 03/14/08 05:33 PM
Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it.

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Fri 03/14/08 05:34 PM
Brilliant...Just Brilliant

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Fri 03/14/08 05:37 PM
Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it. Sick

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 03/14/08 05:37 PM
I don't think it's called cheating then. cheating implies dishonesty.

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Fri 03/14/08 05:38 PM
Well I think I would just rather stay single.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 03/14/08 05:38 PM
there are open marriages but it's not for everyone. it's not cheating if the other approves

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Fri 03/14/08 05:39 PM
I have a co-worker who actually has that kind of a marriage..and i've told her to her face..thats sick...why on earth would you marry someone if you think you will..or want to..cheat on them..HELLO!!!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 03/14/08 05:39 PM
and clearly, you are speaking for yourself. I won't marry someone I would cheat on. If I get to the point where I am not happy, I leave. Not everyone cheats, or "thinks about it a billion times". Only someone who is not happy with what they have.

Lozer Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 198	Fri 03/14/08 05:40 PM
Yea.. that's not cheating. That's an o p e n - r e l a t i o n s h i p. I see nothing wrong with it though, as long as both are aware of it. xD

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 03/14/08 05:40 PM
I have a co-worker who actually has that kind of a marriage..and i've told her to her face..thats sick...why on earth would you marry someone if you think you will..or want to..cheat on them..HELLO!!! to each their own. It works for some people. Many people separate sex and love and don't necessarily need them both in one package.

FAK Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 7817	Fri 03/14/08 05:40 PM
my ex thought our marriage was like that..open at least....fu(k that in my book... cheating...open.....2 different things man either way they contradict marriage or the concept of

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 03/14/08 05:40 PM
It's called SWINGING...

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Fri 03/14/08 05:41 PM
I have a co-worker who actually has that kind of a marriage..and i've told her to her face..thats sick...why on earth would you marry someone if you think you will..or want to..cheat on them..HELLO!!! Everything is not for everybody. if it works for them, then its all good

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Fri 03/14/08 05:41 PM
Why not have open Marrages? Why get married in the first place?

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 03/14/08 05:42 PM
Why not have open Marrages? Why get married in the first place? To own a woman, obviously! Where ya ben, Jist?

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 03/14/08 05:42 PM
Why not have open Marrages? Why get married in the first place? because not everyone marries for sex.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 03/14/08 05:43 PM
i know some swingers and they view it as adding toys to spice it up. it has nothing to do with love....just the thrill. I see nothing wrong with it if everyone is in agreement and the rules they set down are followed

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Fri 03/14/08 05:43 PM
I've known people that have been involved in an "open" relationship like that before. In both cases the relationship has ended in divorce.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Fri 03/14/08 05:43 PM
Why not have open Marrages? Why get married in the first place?

rtaylor74 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 1188	Fri 03/14/08 05:43 PM
I'm feelin Jistme's point. If that's the case, then marriage seems like an awful waste of time and energy. The whole point of getting married is to enter into a monogamous committed relationship legally (and spiritually binding). So if that's not the intent, I guess I see no logical reason to do it. 'Open marriage' is an oxymoron. Kinda like 'government organization'