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accepting people who are different from you and don't hurt anyone is going to lead to rape and murder? Wow. Who knew?  acceptance is just a matter of agreement in thoughts,
or to look over how you feel to an issue to show your ok with it. With any CHANGE comes new problems, the murder I seen in that was living in that enviroment of OPEN THOUGHT and OPEN VALUES, after years of it happening. We now have two women raising their adopted boy, (or girl) or two men raising their Girl(or boy)? THAT has come about by CHANGE, personally I don't feel that a child grown in that family CAN look at the older values as THEIR WAY to live,,,because THEY were NOT raised in it, to even KNOW IT? WE as a society KEEP trying to find SOMETHING ELSE....AS what WE ARE,,,because WE WANT to be DIFFERENT! Not so much as its ANYTHING they really have a true LOVE for or ABOUT,,,,but just to put THEM in their own little spotlight for VIEWING... THEN,,,when someone speaks NEGITIVE to them of THEIR choices in living,,,THEY WANT to wonder WHY? WHEN THEY only want to BE KNOWN as THAT DIFFERENT PERSON anyway! So THEY not others,,,THEY live to BRING THE EYES and minds INTO THEIR LIVES,,,,its a fight in ones mind to always have if YOU don't like who you FEEL YOU ARE. And anyone can live act do whatever they want to...BUT HEY,,,DON'T ASK OPINION and YOU will NEVER get one from me? And OMG,,life will always keep going forward, but we have to LEARN from the wrongs and to try and show others what problems WE have seen and witnessed...life You will live yours as you seem fit and I mine. But to LOOK at a total change in the old style of family value, is to lose the growing and learning EYES and MINDS of OUR future children to grow in a culture WE AS A SOCIETY have NOT WITNESSED YET??? So WE won't know until THEY ALL GROW and live and plan families...KIND-OF like lab rats except their children THAT ARE BEING PUT INTO THAT EXPERIMENT.???? So change will ALWAYS come with its own problems...and in 15 years you will know,,,I don't know if I'll still be here.. But debates about life and change,,,,it GOOD....ALWAYS..
I think a child raised with love is a lucky child no matter what sex(es) their parents happen to be; or if they have only one parent. Not everyone raised by a traditional Ward and June turns out perfectly. As far as the "old values" - I think this is why we are having trouble really understanding each other sometimes- I think if the old fashioned values were meaningful to me, I would feel the same way that you do. But they are not; and this is where the misunderstanding comes in, I think. I am scratching my head thinking, what's the big deal?; while you see something you value deeply slipping away. It's all a matter of perspective, I think. |
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I'd call this "Friends with Benefits."
Would not want to raise chilgren in this type of situation. |
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Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it. so why get married then???? |
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Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it. so why get married then???? why not...just because people might be swingers doesn't mean they don't love each other. are you telling me no one here has used toys or movies or taken pictures or anything? |
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accepting people who are different from you and don't hurt anyone is going to lead to rape and murder?
you have GOT to be kidding |
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I got tired of explaining the same concept to 75 people who obviously did not read the whole thread and thought it would be original to say "why get married?"
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I got tired of explaining the same concept to 75 people who obviously did not read the whole thread and thought it would be original to say "why get married?" i'm just as tired of explaining that cheating isn't the same as open relationships. opinions are great...judement isn't. just because people don't understand something...don't judge. either try to understand or let it be |
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I got tired of explaining the same concept to 75 people who obviously did not read the whole thread and thought it would be original to say "why get married?" ((((hiker)))) I feel your pain. You fought the good fight. 
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I got tired of explaining the same concept to 75 people who obviously did not read the whole thread and thought it would be original to say "why get married?" i'm just as tired of explaining that cheating isn't the same as open relationships. opinions are great...judement isn't. just because people don't understand something...don't judge. either try to understand or let it be i judge all the time...when a person's actions are harmful to others. an open relationship doesn't by definition fit that scenario... |
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I got tired of explaining the same concept to 75 people who obviously did not read the whole thread and thought it would be original to say "why get married?" i'm just as tired of explaining that cheating isn't the same as open relationships. opinions are great...judement isn't. just because people don't understand something...don't judge. either try to understand or let it be i judge all the time...when a person's actions are harmful to others. an open relationship doesn't by definition fit that scenario... harmful or illegal yes...but you are right...if no one is being hurt or breaking the laws...then it becomes a matter of opinion. there is no right or wrong to opinion |
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still waiting for someone to admit to using toys, movies, pictures or somewhere exciting
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Edited by
UplandHunter
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Sun 03/16/08 07:27 PM
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Rose I told you my video for your pics
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Rose I told you my video for your pics at least you admit to your kinks 
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Because I dont share my ToyS
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Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it. Good luck on that on buddy. If you have a chance to think about this one, just how much stupid is involved here???? 
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ok??? why is asking a question for intelligent debate stupid???
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Because I dont share my ToyS
not with your partner???? you don't use them together? |
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Why not have open Marrages? People are going to cheat, or think about it a billion times. Just let the other person know before you do it. Have a cheat contract. Before you cheat, you let the other partner sign off on it.  I could go for that
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I got tired of explaining the same concept to 75 people who obviously did not read the whole thread and thought it would be original to say "why get married?" ((((hiker)))) I feel your pain. You fought the good fight.
((((((((((((((montana!!!!!!!!)))))))))))))) just where the hell have you been, young lady? |
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