I want to pamper her and spoil her to win her

a gold MasterCard normally goes a long way.... give it to her for a day !!

And try wearing a shirt on your first date.

Thank the Goddess that's total nonsense or life would be hopeless for us Dutch:
Few of us have a credit card. We have bank cards.

And besides that, gold cards are passe. Platinum cards are the new gold standard.

already then ... give her the Platinum card ..... women love to shop ...

You are better off just being yourself

Maybe think about buying her a little car.

maybe a quickie to Disney Land !!!!

Book her a ticket to space, an Amex card, a Lamborghini for her and a Porsche for her mom. I bet she'll come back from space just to keep you ticking (shirt or no shirt )

Being myself has never gotten me anywhere except the friend zone.

You could offer to take her shopping for a gift in Bond Street, or Harrods, London.

Do none off the things suggested here. Women only love a man if they can respect him. To get this you have to respect yourself and set clear boundaries. Tell her no once in a while and see how she responds. Be assertive and take charge. The last thing you want is to become a doormat to some spoiled princess. She will loose respect if you do and will move on. And remember, she is only worth of being treated like a queen if in return she treats you like a king.

I believe I have a Platinum card for the Dutch AAA. I would've preferred a discount from the annual fee as at least that is of advantage to me hihi.

Depends what it is... Crystal shop?!! YESSSS! But you cannot pay in shops with a credit card, no matter what alleged metal it is. You need a bankcard. Or cash.
So a man could hypothetically give me his Platinum card, still would be of no use.

Apart from crystals or oracle/Tarot cards I don't love shopping at all. It's something that at times has to be done. But I do not enjoy it.

What to do to gain a woman's interest...
Know what she likes and is into. Whether simple gestures at home or a nice outing.
And clearly NO man here knows that stuff as they all come up with expensive things and money which don't interest me in the slightest.

In London taking me to Harrod's or a gift in Bond street... BORING!!
Take me to the Tower of London instead! A Tour of London bridge to see the inside/underside, see it go open etc.
Sight-seeing by using The Tube to go from place to place!! Me LOVES the Tube!
The Royal Observatory, Greenwich. I want to stand on the Prime Meridian of the world.

If a man knew that I'd love stuff like that and take me there, excellent! It could very well melt my heart to know & feel that a man is tuned into me and gets me. As that's what it's all about.
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Space?
A lamborghini... Really?

You have got to think like a woman, not like a man. Man would love these things and it would flatter their egos. Women look for other stuff in life, although there will be some exceptions.
On top of that, you gotta know what the woman of your interest likes.

Yes...like useless things - Louis Vuitton bags
What does the platinum aaa get you? Very punny!

What it gets me? Good questions, hihi. I think you can get more discount on outings and holidays etc. But I don't need that at all. I'd rather get discount on annual fee.

Hand bags... Don't care for that. I bought one for my birthday, was a pressie really. First new one in some 20yrs believe it or not. And only because the one I was using was totally worn out.

Seriously, you men seem to be clueless concerning what a woman wants!

And before you mention it, I don't care for shoes either.

Read my mind!!