Is it Right or Wrong for a Girl to Slap a Guy . There May be Many Reasons as Such .
Give your Opinions ??

The only reason for anyone to put their hands on another is in self defense.

Agree 100%
except maybe during sex if they both enjoy such things, and not too strong

What about Touches ??
There are "Good Touches" and there are "Bad Touches" .
If its a "Bad Touch" I'm sure ,She will/ must Reciprocate !

Stopping harassment can very often be considered self defence, in my opinion. If it is real harassment and not an involuntary touch. This is a bit tricky in my opinion because it's not always obvious if a gesture is voluntary or not and if it's part of the flirting game or if it's going to far. In doubt, better keep our hands in our pocket. I touch ladies only if invited in writing, countersigned, and with guarantee of immunity

This. 100%

I wish, a certain monster could read this

I wish that you can come to forgiving and stop bad mouthing your ex.
Verbal abuse isn't pretty, and rude when the other person isn't present to tell her side of the story. To be honest, I find it upsetting to read how you refer to your ex all the time.
But most of all, this constant lashing out is holding you back. Meaning you give your power away to a situation that no longer exists.

I never intended to upset you or anyone. And I appreciate your opinion. But on the other hand, it is part of my healing process. Even if it sounds strange. Hopefully, it won't take long and she will be history in all regards.

A girl can slap a guy when a guy can slap a girl, which is NEVER in general. Unless of course, it's in self defense. There are also exceptions such as intimacy, some people like weird things, and slapping each other in a consensual intimate manner is ok if both are into that sort of thing.

no it's not right full stop

17. I let the "C" word fly. GF at the time threw a right cross and knocked me over my own car. I still have fond feelings.

Not a good idea. Have you seen all the "Pu_ _ y passes denied" videos out there? Tons of videos of usually drunk, obnoxious, crazy videos of women hitting men thinking they will get away with it. WRONG ASSUMPTION.

At any time.
So beware and vigilant.
No one expects the Slapnish Inquisition.

Other than that, are you looking for pointers? Like how to set up the situation for some personal benefit?


Depends on the culture.
Depends on the situation.
Depends on the relationship.
Context matters.
Sometimes right and wrong don't matter in the face of "necessary."

But usually if it's an instance of one person using physical violence for their own (emotional) gratification against another without consent, it falls in the "wrong" category.

Correct

Thanks for sending me down a rabbit hole!

"Slap" can be a different context than "Hit" or "Punch".
Slap usually identifies as insult intended. Either being insulted (reaction) or giving insult (fragile). Some guys can be pretty fragile and many guys do not respect their women.

Slapping can also happen as a reflex to the unexpected (surprised).
It can also be a form of emotional release or a way to gain undivided attention.

I'm in the category where bf/gf, husband/wife, friendship relationships have mutual respect. Slapping by one party or the other is never okay. You just don't hurt the ones you love.

A love tap is not a slap. I feel slapping is the same disrespectful action as spitting in someone's face. Its intent is to remove dignity and show loss of respect for another human being. To me, there's no justification.

A slap sounds so..girly..and like it solves some problem.
Cattle prod time.
Make your point immediately.
The lifetime brand is a bonus.

A slap?

Seems like rather vanilla foreplay.

I once threw a drink over a man who was being lecherous and revolting to me at a bar, there was a group of 6 of them, but he was the ringleader. I did not think twice, he deserved it. In hindsight, I should have talked to the bouncer, who came after I threw the drink and took my side.