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Topic: Hmm, 10 turn offs in a relationship
Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sun 02/23/20 09:20 AM


Nose picking
Eating it
Buying excessive amounts of handbags
Failing to recognise who is boss



"Failing to recognise who is boss"
huh
Darlin', can you clarify that?

Because I am grown, earn my own living, pay my own bills, therefore, NO ONE is my "boss", except the one signing my paycheck.

My father, when I was a CHILD and lived in his house and was dependent on him for everything, yes, *he* got to tell me what to do./ be the boss of me..

Why wouldn't you want a relationship where you are equal partners, not one the "boss" over the other one?


Jus stirrin it up with my wicked stick rofl

Ladywind7's photo
Sun 02/23/20 09:26 AM

Nose picking
Eating it
Buying excessive amounts of handbags
Failing to recognise who is boss



Failing to recognize who is boss, lol.
What is up with men who need to control? Is it leadership inborn?

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚's photo
Sun 02/23/20 09:26 AM
Sob stories about how badly ex's treated them

Too much drama over silly things

Being overweight and thinking they are a super model (Except who you are)

Farting while they receive cunnilingus surprised

Long toenails

Hairy nipples

Etc etc.. The list goes on..tongue2

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sun 02/23/20 09:30 AM


Nose picking
Eating it
Buying excessive amounts of handbags
Failing to recognise who is boss



Failing to recognize who is boss, lol.
What is up with men who need to control? Is it leadership inborn?

I was too late to edit it but
Nose picking
Making me eat it

I_love_bluegrass's photo
Sun 02/23/20 09:34 AM


Nose picking
Eating it
Buying excessive amounts of handbags
Failing to recognise who is boss



Failing to recognize who is boss, lol.
What is up with men who need to control? Is it leadership inborn?


There are a LOT of guys out there who ascribe to that, have issues with wanting to control/ rule a woman, want her to be "submissive" to him.
Even if they joke about it..that makes me wonder if it is a latent belief they have...why else even mention it?
(it's like saying you don;t want a liar/ drunk/ drug user/ cheater...
NO ONE wants those...no point in saying that...whoa)

Rock's photo
Sun 02/23/20 09:37 AM
Fumunda... Any amount... Any where.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 02/23/20 10:17 AM

Fumunda... Any amount... Any where.


I had to Google that, haha.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 02/23/20 11:18 AM
Just one big turnoff...
1. Making a list of all someone else's faults.

Now, my own, I could work on.

msharmony's photo
Sun 02/23/20 11:30 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 02/23/20 11:30 AM
I would say I am mostly 'turned off' by those who can not learn(already know it all), those who do not keep themselves clean, those who are constant victims(every one else's fault), liars(by omission does not count with me, only intentional lies), those who think rudeness is a virtue of being 'honest', and those who are selfish and/or lazy.

Otherwise, I do not know that I can think of ten game changers. It is really about if the lists of 'turn ons' is long enough to overrule anything else.

Matt's photo
Sun 02/23/20 11:50 AM
I think you summed it up pretty good.

oldkid46's photo
Sun 02/23/20 12:13 PM
Inability or unwillingness to make a decision and then carry it out.
Insecurity
shopaholics
snoops
constantly babble but say nothing
can't read, write, or comprehend
poor hygiene
always complaining, especially the "poor me"
lazy - get by with the least amount of effort

Rosemary52's photo
Tue 02/25/20 07:40 AM
:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

no photo
Tue 03/10/20 07:13 PM
hi

no photo
Tue 03/10/20 07:13 PM
how are you

Poetrywriter's photo
Tue 03/10/20 07:26 PM
Edited by Poetrywriter on Tue 03/10/20 07:37 PM
Don't forget the ever popular....Not tonight, I have a headache.

monteegill's photo
Sat 03/14/20 01:31 AM
disloyalty
lie
bad friends company
selfishness
boredom
unwanted sex
spy on
over confidence
taken for granted
last.......... restrictions

no photo
Sat 03/14/20 04:57 AM
You forget trust issues. I think a relationship is based on trust and if it lacks trust it's doomed

ivegotthegirth's photo
Sat 03/14/20 09:59 AM
Just remembered a big one...............I can't stand a woman who chews a lot of tobacco but never buys her own. grumble

no photo
Sun 03/29/20 12:42 PM
Not agree with number 3. (Lazy)

Rock's photo
Sun 03/29/20 03:16 PM
Persistent dry cough
Mild fever


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