I have had a few dates and funny enough I pay for my food and he watched me eat...
One other date.. I asked if he wanted to play pool and then he wait for me to pay for the game..
Oh my gosh... Gross me out. Bleh!!
Opinion anyone?

Who asked out whom?
I think the asker should pay.

Wowzer
I cant imagine someone sitting there watching me eat, I’d feel like a monkey in a Zoo.

I hope you didnt give away the cookie after having to pay!

You need to find better prospective dates!! You seem to have found the losers.

yes I am in

Since I am a gentleman I always paid for both. I never expected or asked the lady to pay for anything. I just feel honored the lady would want to be with me. How could I expect her to pay when I feel like that?

I'm with you..

The topic was should men eat together?

I don't care if you eat together.

I was assuming language meant lost in translation, could be wrong

I think she meant should men eat together with the girl instead of watching them eat.

Men: Meaning more than one.

Were you dating two men at same time.

Question is a bit vague

Winner winner chicken dinner

Be more cautious on choosing your venue for that first date. When I meet a woman for the first time, a first date if we can call it that, I would meet for a coffee only and I would offer to pay. That way, meeting someone for the first time, breaking the ice so to speak, need only be for a short while so you can both decide after that first meeting if there is to be a second date. In these times of equality I believe the guy should still pay, probably because I am old school.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

They are definitely losers. I just wonder if they called you after the date. Maybe try talking to them more before going out.

Different cultures I imagine have different rituals in dating. I don't know how it is in Austria... Guess if the date was in Austria, you'd be the one that would know whether that is normal or not.

As far as asking him if he wanted to play pool and waiting for you to pay... I agree with soufie, you asked, you pay!

Can I have a chicken?

Time to upgrade to better class of men.

look, Im not making excuses for the guys you went out with but a lot of your sister feminists have made it clear that they prefer to pay for their meals and activities on dates so they dont feel 'obligated'

And some women subscribes to the that theory and the some men are foolish enough to accept it.

Some of guys believes in the old fashioned some call it archaic that we believe that when on a date with a woman you(the man) pay for the date and excepts nothing in return, its that old courting thing.


Just because some azzhole pays and expects something in return doesnt mean all guys are like that.