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Edited by
peggy122
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well.
Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? |
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Actually... that's true!!!
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? I would play the odds...and try to seduce her over time. 
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Actually... that's true!!!
Ok . So vichus says No thanks 
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? I'd prefer someone just be clear & say that to me & then all questions & "what ifs" are no longer an issue. Maybe I'm too honest sometimes but I appreciate the same level of honesty. I think many may feel the same. I doubt anyone would reject the online friendship even if they wanted more, because there is no harm in that kind of friendship since it's not the same as a real life personal friendship..Just my opinion |
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? I would play the odds...and try to seduce her over time.
Somehow I suspect a lot of guys would do that . Men love a challenge. But I wonder how the other women feel about their boundaries being challenged . Hmmmmmmm.... 
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? If the woman lives too far away for me to date, then what difference does it make? |
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? I'd prefer someone just be clear & say that to me & then all questions & "what ifs" are no longer an issue. Maybe I'm too honest sometimes but I appreciate the same level of honesty. I think many may feel the same. I doubt anyone would reject the online friendship even if they wanted more, because there is no harm in that kind of friendship since it's not the same as a real life personal friendship..Just my opinion Clearly you are not into the game-playing that is so characteristic of 21st century dating. That's refreshing 
That's 2 guys saying "thanks" to the friendship e-mail... |
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? If the woman lives too far away for me to date, then what difference does it make? Sometimes people move for the people they love David. It is not always the case of the "impossible dream" And apart from that, whether romantic interactions are online or offline, there is a very real entity called ego , that causes people to deny opportunities for connecting with a person for fear of rejection. |
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fwb
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Thu 04/21/16 07:21 AM
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? [/quote this one of the area's women do not understand, a man can not have girl friends and have a romantic relationship with another its a problem for his romantic interest and for himself..sometimes a guy will settle for friendship while hoping to get lucky later.......one at a time while dating has a lot less complications for both.....a lot of people seem to have the illusion that they can have more then one love interest at a time, well over my long life i have witnessed a lot people get bit in the ace over this....if she or he is ''the one'' its best to give all your romantic love to them....and if you are having problems do you best to see you part.... |
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I don't assume anything when I'm messaged, I treat them as friendships.
unless the messenger doesn't interact on the forums, then I've been known to ignore the messages altogether!   sometimes I message people just to let them know they're appreciated on here.
So I'm in the THANKS camp! Peggy! 
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I think friendship is something that is built over time , a lady wanting to be friends is more saying to be acquaintances for convenience Friendship not a defined role it is a blessing
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Edited by
Robxbox73
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Thu 04/21/16 09:29 AM
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I just had a nasty roaw, with a gal from Arizona. She sent a friend's request. I sent her a note thanking her for the intrest. Her profile said looking for a relationship that will lead to marriage. I asked if she had read my profile. She said it doesn't matter. My profile states online friends only. I told her that I only accept friend requests from people on the forums. Well she let me have it. I said thanks for your time and I blocked her.
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Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone?
Yes. Would you want her to still email you?
No. Sometimes people move for the people they love David. It is not always the case of the "impossible dream"
So you're saying men SHOULD ignore when a woman says "just friends" and keep trying harder and harder to make it more, as long as the guy feels they "love" the girl. Maybe move across country as a grand gesture, making sure she knows it's purely for her, and keep trying, keep pushing that "impossible dream." So you're saying you want guys like "David" to do that to you. Cool. I never thought online could really work! I'm so excited for you! If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in (a) profile
Then she's either not that smart, or she's addicted to romance novels possibly due to abject loneliness, desperation, and/or a lot of emotional problems stemming from fear. and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way
then she believes she is entitled to the relationships she wants for her convenience and for her own selfish emotional reasons believing she has control over relationships, which means she's either not that smart, addicted to romance novels, and/or spoiled and princess like. |
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? I would play the odds...and try to seduce her over time.
Somehow I suspect a lot of guys would do that . Men love a challenge. But I wonder how the other women feel about their boundaries being challenged . Hmmmmmmm.... I think sometimes we kid ourselves into knowing what type of person we can fall in love with... It may be more random than that. Unexpected romance is delightful when it happens. |
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Edited by
BHawkins
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Thu 04/21/16 09:27 AM
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This question is for the men mainly. But ofcourse the "womens " are welcome to weigh in as well. Guys.... If a woman online is attracted to your spirit and energy in your profile , and she is interested in you as a friend BUT NOT in a romantic or sexual way, ... Would you prefer it if she shoves her friendship intentions where the sun don't shine and leave you the hell alone? OR... Would you want her to still email you? I would play the odds...and try to seduce her over time.
Somehow I suspect a lot of guys would do that . Men love a challenge. But I wonder how the other women feel about their boundaries being challenged . Hmmmmmmm....
From what I've witnessed & heard , most choose convenience over a challenge. Sadly its the reason an average girl with half naked pics & a trashy personality will always feel popular over the beautiful, classy girl with self respect. I think it's messed up but it's an obvious truth |
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Edited. This is a reminder to never discuss
other members in a negative way. soufie Site Moderator |
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* Friends are great in this dynamic world called earth. 
* Sharing thoughts and life styes is interesting fun. * Friends are important "To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world". * A friendship could become a physical relationship or grow into a great close friend. *Both are enriching* ** Sometimes being "nice" is a life well lived. 
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Edited by
peggy122
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Thu 04/21/16 10:52 AM
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fwb .... And since many women will not be opting for that type of relationship,Beach, I will record your answer as a "No thanks "
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