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Topic: Why Are Women Afraid to Send the First Letter
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Wed 05/13/15 11:26 AM


i think because of culture and it will sound that.that lady can be prostitute


Are you freaking Kidding me !!!!:angry: grumble explode
I am one that does send emails to men all the time Guess what I even send them to women...

I am not nor have I ever been a prostitute.!!!!!


I have always been that if I see something someone posts something I like I send an email..

If I see a profile that is wonderfully written I send an email..

I guess each to their own



^^^ I can vouch for this about Sitka, it's quite refreshing actually flowerforyou

I see nothing wrong with it, and I simply don't assume anything more about a kind message from a Woman on here.

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 05/13/15 12:49 PM
I agree culture plays a big part but I also think nerves do to.
Is the much difference between face to face and internet? Yes and no but the feelings are still the same.

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Wed 05/13/15 02:50 PM
Well I would say for myself. Fear would play a big role. I am not someone who would go on sites like this and it is difficult sometime so start a confirmation when you are not even sure how to start it.

TMommy's photo
Wed 05/13/15 02:53 PM
well ya might wanna be sure how to spell it first bigsmile

autocorrect whoa

TMommy's photo
Wed 05/13/15 02:54 PM
first of all I would suggest taking some good pics of yourself
writing a fairly positive profile
and then just start doing it..

more you do it
better you get at it

simpltim's photo
Wed 05/13/15 08:46 PM
hahaha... funny but true

simpltim's photo
Wed 05/13/15 08:47 PM

I sent the first inquiry, once.
Paid off big time :-)

I am guessing that fear plays a small part, more
I think tis the way things have always been.

You chase us and chase us.
Til we finally catch you :-)

miles143's photo
Fri 05/15/15 02:21 AM
i guess, its a lack of confidence to send a letter first. specially those shy type kind of women and also fear of rejection.

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 05/15/15 10:51 AM



i think because of culture and it will sound that.that lady can be prostitute


Are you freaking Kidding me !!!!:angry: grumble explode
I am one that does send emails to men all the time Guess what I even send them to women...

I am not nor have I ever been a prostitute.!!!!!


I have always been that if I see something someone posts something I like I send an email..

If I see a profile that is wonderfully written I send an email..

I guess each to their own



^^^ I can vouch for this about Sitka, it's quite refreshing actually flowerforyou

I see nothing wrong with it, and I simply don't assume anything more about a kind message from a Woman on here.
Thank you so much John..
I guess I did kind of fly off the handle a bit on this response.. Kind of pist me off...
I guess it comes down to different cultures on what is accepted protocol.

I personally think if you are shy then the internet would be awonderful place to work on it and build that confidence.

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