Topic: Why Are Women Afraid to Send the First Letter | |
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i think because of culture and it will sound that.that lady can be prostitute Are you freaking Kidding me !!!! I am one that does send emails to men all the time Guess what I even send them to women... I am not nor have I ever been a prostitute.!!!!! I have always been that if I see something someone posts something I like I send an email.. If I see a profile that is wonderfully written I send an email.. I guess each to their own ^^^ I can vouch for this about Sitka, it's quite refreshing actually I see nothing wrong with it, and I simply don't assume anything more about a kind message from a Woman on here. |
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I agree culture plays a big part but I also think nerves do to.
Is the much difference between face to face and internet? Yes and no but the feelings are still the same. |
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Well I would say for myself. Fear would play a big role. I am not someone who would go on sites like this and it is difficult sometime so start a confirmation when you are not even sure how to start it.
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well ya might wanna be sure how to spell it first
autocorrect |
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first of all I would suggest taking some good pics of yourself
writing a fairly positive profile and then just start doing it.. more you do it better you get at it |
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hahaha... funny but true
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I sent the first inquiry, once. Paid off big time :-) I am guessing that fear plays a small part, more I think tis the way things have always been. You chase us and chase us. Til we finally catch you :-) |
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i guess, its a lack of confidence to send a letter first. specially those shy type kind of women and also fear of rejection.
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i think because of culture and it will sound that.that lady can be prostitute Are you freaking Kidding me !!!! I am one that does send emails to men all the time Guess what I even send them to women... I am not nor have I ever been a prostitute.!!!!! I have always been that if I see something someone posts something I like I send an email.. If I see a profile that is wonderfully written I send an email.. I guess each to their own ^^^ I can vouch for this about Sitka, it's quite refreshing actually I see nothing wrong with it, and I simply don't assume anything more about a kind message from a Woman on here. I guess I did kind of fly off the handle a bit on this response.. Kind of pist me off... I guess it comes down to different cultures on what is accepted protocol. I personally think if you are shy then the internet would be awonderful place to work on it and build that confidence. |
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