with his attitude I hope he will never have to face the law - because his opinion simply will not matter

that's what I don't get about this...it really is NOT a matter of opinion...in a legal sense anyway

or in a psychological sense. only someone with mental problems would want to have sex with someone who has said NO

Yeah, no kidding.



You had better pray harder I don't have to sit on a jury! You see I want facts. And if the facts point to her being attacked for no reason I would prefer to see the book thrown at him. But if she led him on and suddenly pulled a 180 on him and there were other factors involved which "blur" the issue I would prefer a punishment far more lenient than the max. You see I despise people who use the law like a weapon. I despise people who get their rocks off hurting others. I also do not like stupid people who vapidly put themselves before the wolf (OH NO, ANOTHER ANIMAL REFERENCE ). I prefer to see balance in a punitive measure. A victim that set themselves up to be a victim should be punished for reckless endangerment of themselves!

Now about your comment, joining the hen party? If I do nothing wrong I don't have to worry about facing the law. DO I?

First of all when the cloths are off and hormones kick in Higher Brain function goes into a weird focused state. That would be instinct. Fear is similar. Once engaged it is hard to over ride. Law and Biology are two totally different worlds. Humans make up rules. Genetics are programming. I would bet money if I were able to instigate a panic in you you would run until your heart stopped. What could scare someone that bad? Plenty of things presented properly will scare anyone including me. I personally would be running like hell to see a large wall of water coming at me and anyone in my way is going to be getting out of my way! Heck, if you watched a bear just murder a friend of yours right in front of you and there was no way to protect yourself I would bet you would just RUN in terror! Argue with me that humans are not instinctual creatures! I DARE YOU!

Now you are right in that "someone with mental problems would want to have sex with someone who has said NO." But dare I say you are aiming this statement directly at me. Again I know what 'no' means and likewise you paint me as something that you cannot nor have any proof of. You are making accusations sight unseen based on what I right as YOU perceive it. Not as it is written. I do not use "Double speak." I am right to the point. Likewise becasue I disagree with a particular point a rather vindictive person here is trying to make with poor debate skills I am accused of being a "POTENTIAL" rapist... Shall I spell out the sexual and cultural deviations that foster rape in themselves?

Lets see:
BDSM
Occultism
fetish <I love this one becasue some people out there are some SICK FUCQUES!
Domination
cosplay (depending on WHAT you are trying to imitate!)
religious denial
victimized sexually (not necessarily meaning rape. More like cultural emasculation! Not like any of the Clique` Set here would understand the concept.)
drug habits pertaining to sex and sexual congress
autoerotic asphyxiation
fucqued up parents
the media


And I prefer to leave the real sick stuff alone since it does not pertain to this argument.

So how do you wish to paint me now?

You hope I will never have to face the law...

Et tu Brutus? Got to drive the knife in my back as well? What do you really mean by that? you hope I get busted for anything just so I can be out of the picture? Come on... You are projecting your venomous desires with this statement as well! You hope... Please. I hope one day some of you will wake the hell up and realize what azzhats you all made your selves as.

Man, kill the messenger why don't you? Just draw your damn sword and plunge it through my heart!

You know the system rewards bad behavior don't you? So does that make ME the evil person? It isn't MY system or rules that allow this. I did not make the world like it is. I am trying to make sense of it all too but there are things about it that confuse me like why the heck is it that a person can be stupid, do something stupid, suffer for it, and the consequences not be their fault?


Last I knew I was not on Backwards World!

You hope I never have to face the law...

INDEED!

get help

I second that!

Get a grip, get a clue, get real!

I already GOT help. You know what I found out? STUPID PEOPLE PISS ME OFF!

I don't agree with you three and you have the brass to get pissed off little old ME who does not agree with you?

TOUGH! Welcome to the real world! Don't like it?



Here is a quarter to call someone who gives a damn.

You know I think I may have to learn to speak Troll. English does not seem to work here. So how did the last three comments prior to this one work towards doing something positive here? Not a thing. All this topic has descended into is a hen party with three hens trying to pick on the rooster. This is not a debate. It is a witch hunt!

You know it is bad being alone even among others. But to condemn a person to isolation sight unseen without a trial and without proof of any wrong doing on that person's part is worst than draconian. If anything I have now seen how dark and perverse people can be. I suppose the three of you would be happy if you shoved my azz into an Oubliette! No trial, no evidence, no victims to speak out against me. Just toss the guy who doesn't conform to YOUR WORLDLY VIEWS into a hole and forget him.

WELL, SUCK IT DOWN! I CLEARLY DON'T WANT TO DATE YOU SO GET OVER YOURSELVES! A vapid blond with a good heart is FAR better than an intellectual blond with an attitude problem. You will offer tolerance towards Islam but when MY ideals don't conform to YOUR WORLDLY VIEW I am a bastard to be tossed in a hole. You cannot even see past the fact I just see things the way a wolf would but then again you don't live in a world where women are property. LUCKY YOU!

Singmesweet, this is why I asked you about your level of education, you more than likely know NOTHING of other cultures. You may pretend you do but there is more to them than reading a text book in a library! I am a man trapped between a lot of cultures. Why don't the three of you delicate flowers of Mingle read a Qur'an and see what rights you have in their world. Why not see what even uttering the word RAPE will get you in that world! Want to discuss due process here now too?

You know I thought I left people like you behind in High School! At least there are others who disagree with me with a lot more grace than YOU! About half of them are women and I at least respect them for speaking their mind with an intellectual sense rather than a cult of YOUR belief! At times THOSE folks like Msharmony have given me food for though to at least give me a perspective I can respect whether or not I agree with her! All you have given me is the reverse of Misogyny aimed right at me for not seeing things YOUR way!

So all you want to do is bash me instead of accepting my advice to come together to work toward PREVENTION!

This means the only bad person here is YOU! YOU AND ONLY YOU, well, not counting the other two hens in this pecking party! I laid down the olive branch more than once. More than twice. And you stomped on it and kicked it aside every single time.

YOU NEED HELP MORE THAN ME! Actually the three of you do! You are bullies. You are just as socially retarded as I am evidently. And instead of trying to accept a suggestion to work together you spit on me. If I could and not get in trouble I would post a picture of a little boy flipping you the finger! You call me a bad person? After what you have told me? Curse me to isolation will you?

I think the worst sickness is a sick person who will not admit they are sick! I know I am not banging on all 8 cylinders but DAMN if you are not probably the meanest most self righteous person I ever met!

What stuns me more is how the moderators have not killed this topic yet either. I keep suggesting we make something good of this and what do you do with your hen party? Drag this conversation straight down the same dark path you want it to go.

Again, just Pathetic! Sad, and you really are beneath me as a person. I can't talk to you. You talk AT me. Proof one more time men and women really do suffer terrible communication problems.

I am not a criminal. I am not a rapist. I do not go around victimizing people. I actually try to help where I can. I even tried to hang a dress on this pig of a topic but you took the dress from the pig and wore it yourself!

I am so glad people like you are not in charge. This world would REALLY be more messed up than it is!

GOOD DAY!

YOU ARE NOW OFFICIALLY DISMISSED!

This thread will be locked as it seems to have
raised everyone's ire to the point of obfuscating
the debatability of the Topic.

soufie
Site Moderator