Amen to that!

never mind...................

I think this attitude about women in general stinks regardless of who it comes from so it is not a personal attack but an opinion as stated.

To state that only some young tight breasted nymphet is the only woman who is capable of enjoying robust sex or being enjoyable to the male population on a host of levels as a whole is the absolute in idiotacy and predjudice just because all he professes to want are more or less acquising disposable teeny bopper/hoochie types he can kick to the curb. The fact that he can get a younger woman, even get her pregnant doesn't mean he can keep her when she matures way from him. Or that she wants to keep him once she has attained the temporary possibly much less satisfying pleasure than he thinks because she moans "oh baby" until he puts the money on the table, the tats on her ***, liquor in the well you get the idea. But hey they say you can make an old fool believe just about anything if you wrap a little kitty cat around it.

Who said I wanted to keep her? Some people like classic cars and others want a new one every few years. When it comes to women, I'm the latter.

But, you avoided my question. Why would a man want to be with a mature woman when he could have a young one? What can an older woman do that a youthful woman cannot?

You see, my life is, for the most part, complete. The only thing I cannot do for myself is sex. And if sex is the only reason to have a woman in my life I want the most attractive woman I can get to wrap her legs around me.

Edit:

And I didn't say anything about an older woman's ability to enjoy sex. That is something you added.

If I may offer a really VALID question here...


What are the home lives and lifestyles like of the Record Execs and MTV Execs who shove all the anti social behavior as entertainment down our collective throats?

Are not most of these folks akin to the mentality of Caligula and Nero? Or should I say Nero and Tiberius? Really I would like to think of them as a cumulation of all three.


And with that...

a true moment of wacky insanity...


I am your new god now!!!

Bring me your VIRGINS!!!

Live in the senior citizens complex with you.
Demonstrate metal and emotional maturity.
If the woman has kept the same job for long enough time, then the ability to earn a better wage.
See life from the perspective of someone your age.
Enjoy the same songs from your youth that you enjoy.

Is that enough? Now can we get back to the main topic?

OK, Andy. Remember that you asked for them.

I think this concept missed the mark a bit when it sees that dislikeing SOME behaviors of SOME men is MALE Bashing any more than it is FEMALE Bashing.

Useing or abuseing and casting someone aside because they are not the ideal of new and different is offensive regardless of who does it to either gender.

Just as is useing some one just because they are older, less confident, mistakenly overvalue or confuse their value as a person because they have or lack money, or are lonely.

I personally feel that elevateing or demoteing someone on gender alone is pretty crass.

I have never wanted to be put on a pedistal nor make someone I care about carry me around on one. Or be up on one themselves.

I would much rather grow and develope and yes maybe intertwine with a mate because I believe that makes us both stronger.

And contrary to what a few might believe repeated intimacy with a mate does not have to get old, or boreing, or predictable but it can with deep knowledge of your mate's likes and dislikes become much more on target and pleasurable and even exciteing. It is much easier to please and be pleased by someone you know, trust, and like because you do have all that mind/ body recall.

First of all Dodo, I think this is an outstanding topic. Good job posting it!

Second, if you follow my posts, you'll see I'm never the one taking things off topic. I say something and others quote me and take something I said off topic.

Third, Why would I want to share a room with someone so old their mind is gone? Or, why would she?
Women are drama queens no mater how old they get. When they get mad, they stay mad and they carry a grudge for years. Not to mention PMS and all the other forms of acceptable female insanity.
I make all the money I need. I don't want hers and I'm not giving her any of mine.
No two people see life the same way. I value a youthful perspective on things.
Chicks in their 20s love 80s rock and I enjoy a lot of modern music as well.

Now, to get back on topic.

Women are bitter because society as a whole doesn't value them as highly as we do men. So, they stamp their little feet and make demands. Even though society may have valid reasons for it's lack of equality.

I, on the other hand, am only interested in women with the ability to support themselves both emotionally and financially. A woman that doesn't need a man in her life for anything other than sex. In other words, modern woman.

WTF? Where are you finding these "modern women" who are emotionally stable. I am being suckered into dating a friend's g/f friends- blonde Russian women- the sex will probably be good, but I fear it will also come along with a whole lot of crazy.

What it seems like to me based on this thread, some older men are bitter because women aren't living up to their standards of what they believe women should act like. So they put down women and act as if they aren't valued as much.

I can't speak for others, but I just don't go for men like that.

The only women that think this are the women that know ME!!!!!

I don't take issue with your view of older women, modern women or women in general. That's your opinion and you are entitled to it.

What concerns me is your treatment of younger women in your relationships with them. You may feel that it is no big deal, but the reality is that you are hurting them and in a very big way. Young girls, especially those who are missing daddy in their lives, view sex as love. They crave the approval and attention from men and will see sexual advances as that approval and attention. Many see it the same as love. I know at my age, I still equate the two. It's probably biological.

So, for you to hit on them, sleep with them and then toss them aside as mere playthings is just plain cruel. And, selfish. I don't expect you to agree with me. But, I'm hoping that this message at least gets into part of your brain and makes you think twice one day before hurting someone again.

I agree somehow the words always get twisted even when its clear how we feel.

Morally bankrupt<<----<<<This, boys and girls....is a clear example of the fundamental dysfunction that Venker speaks of in her excerpt that Dodo has most doggedly gone to the effort of not only finding, but in his charitable wisdom, thought to post here for the 'morally bankrupt', who clearly are waging their own personal vendetta on ageing by trying to re-capture their misspent youth.

Armed with a pocketful of Viagra, ‘the morally bankrupt’ are drawn to the innocence of female youth, where they systematically set about filling the sweet minds of said youth on the perils of allowing the clumsy, testosterone charged boys their own age to use and abuse their sweet innocence, whilst outwardly projecting a mix of knowledgeable fatherly figure, and what they naively mistake as being the ‘ultimate cool’. Thus, the die is cast for the ensuing adoration by the innocent for the object of their adoration, only to discover that as they mature, and he begins to tire of her whining and nagging, that it is not her welfare that this ‘wow of a man’ had at heart at all, but the desire to be adored and worshipped as some kind of demi-god, which results in innocence being replaced by resentment. And that, boys & girls is the fundamentals of what is wrong with the small minority of men that Venker has cleverly lassoed as her ‘cash cow’. I draw your attention to the following quote:-



To which society does he refer to? De Little boys Club somewhere in De-Nile? Could it possibly be that society that refuses to take responsibility for their act of annihilating the innocence of female youth? And then he goes on to say the following....



So there you have it...the morally bankrupt definition of ‘modern woman’. Yes boys & girls...according to him, modern woman was born that way. She wasn’t exposed to any predatory or backward thinking Archie Bunker type of man...no. She was pulled straight from the womb onto the slab of life with her modern womanly ways already implanted. Just add the morally bankrupt pricks and voila!!...instant ‘modern woman’

It's not a War on Men...it's a travesty that somebodys daughter somewhere has or will become prey for the 'morally bankrupt'

K, that was exceptionally well stated. Bravo.

Are you saying that it is acceptable for a woman to make an anti-male sexually-prejudiced comment if the woman is just trying to be amusing, that male-bashing is acceptable if done in the name of comedy?

I don't know what society that you are referring to. It isn't the one that I live in.

You are 100% correct. I expect a woman to take care of herself emotionally, mentally, physically and financially. Honer her word, pay her own way and not complain about the life she's chosen for herself. This is the way I live my life and I won't accept less from a woman.

I don't take issue with your view of older women, modern women or women in general. That's your opinion and you are entitled to it.

What concerns me is your treatment of younger women in your relationships with them. You may feel that it is no big deal, but the reality is that you are hurting them and in a very big way. Young girls, especially those who are missing daddy in their lives, view sex as love. They crave the approval and attention from men and will see sexual advances as that approval and attention. Many see it the same as love. I know at my age, I still equate the two. It's probably biological.

So, for you to hit on them, sleep with them and then toss them aside as mere playthings is just plain cruel. And, selfish. I don't expect you to agree with me. But, I'm hoping that this message at least gets into part of your brain and makes you think twice one day before hurting someone again.


Firstly, I'm not responsible for any other person's emotions.

Secondly, I don't "hit on" young women. I simply start a conversation, joke around a little and THEY SEDUCE ME.

I don't lie to them. I don't lead them on. I make it clear from the start all we're doing is having sex. I tell them I'm not exclusive with them and they are aware of my reputation for promiscuity.