All kinds of em out there.....The ones that dress "up" are a little harder to spot right away though...It usually takes a good beating or two before you really begin to see past the Gucci loafers... .

However, I always dress better with a woman's help.

A sweet (and no doubt true) thing to say Joe! We love to dress our men!

And we want our women to be proud of who they are with as we are proud to be with them!

Exactly darlin.... I am always happy to dress for my guy....I like to please the one I love!!

He is a lucky guy!

I don't wanna step on anyones blue suede shoes or nothin

My confidence level is identical whether I'm wearing a tux or ripped jeans. If someone feels their attire commands respect, well good on them!

I'd be happy to challenge anyone on dress code theories... me, in casual jeans & T.... them, snappily dressed.
You Name it, asking for directions... asking for the time... striking up random conversations with strangers... asking a nice lady out for coffee.
I guarantee the person who judges me on my clothes, isn't worth getting to know anyways lol

A good point John!...Some people dress to impress as a way to disguise their insecurities and failures too...It's one of the least expensive and easiest ways to "look" successful when you are not...Some of the wealthiest people I know would not even consider flaunting their wealth...In fact, they tell me as families they make a concerted effort to be judged on actions rather than material things....All except for Madonna...she is such a materialistic biotch!

Cool by me....though I laugh as I disagree.

When I dress to the nines, got my hair looking good....and feeling groovy....I am unstoppable.

Everyone got an opinion....

I like hanging out with slobs in their sweat pants, sneakers and t -shirts....they make me look like even better. Same concept as hanging out with the ugliest person in a bar....they make "average " look "awesome ".

For you kids who think less is more............you keep on believing it.

Laughter is good, so I'm happy to provide you that, but the above sounds very superficial to me....Yep, opinions are like azzholes, thank goodness!....

question:

if you look your 'best' at all times

doesn't your 'best' look , just become your average look?

things that make you go hmmmmmmm,,,,,

I have to agree with Krupa on this. I think some people are misunderstanding what "dressing well" means. It doesn't mean expensive clothes or even formal clothes. It means wearing clothes that fit--that fit YOU--that emphasize the best parts of your body and camouflage the less perfect parts--and that are appropriate for what you are doing. Anyone who has ever watched What Not to Wear will know that I'm echoing their opinions.

I'm constantly horrified by the number of people who wear clothes that are way too big for them, shirttails hanging down, visible stains showing, men with their pants falling off their butts (UGGGGGHHH), sweat stains showing under armpits, women who don't look like they've even combed their hair all week.

I'm no raving beauty by any means, but I've figured out which colors and styles look best on me, and it definitely gives me more confidence. And yes, I do feel different if I go out in dress pants, a V-neck blouse, and real shoes as opposed to sweatshirt, jeans, and sneakers. And I would NEVER go out in public in pajama bottoms as I've seen some people do.

As for men wanting their women to be proud to be seen with them, I only wish that were true of most men. Time and again I've seen sensibly dressed woman with a man who looks like he literally just fell out of bed.

To me, dressing well in the sense I mean implies that you do have some clue about how other people perceive you, and that you have enough consideration of other people to care. If you think you and everything you do are golden and/or everyone else is a devil-worshipping pig, then I guess it wouldn't matter.

msharmony


I suppose it does. But, it doesn't mean I ever look average.

Bravalady


People that dress poorly just look lazy.

I know when I put some effort into my outfits my confidence shoots up. It feels good.

No people who dress to good look like they dont want to get dirty. That goes hand and hand with lazy

just show up in your birthday suit and a big old smile

that looks good to me

This makes sense. So, what would you call it if you looked better than best? LOL

Well, I agree that the whole point of being highly organized is it affords one the opportunity to be lazy. That's why I'm organized. So I don't have to waste time looking for things. That's also why I prefer living in a small space.

If anything does get on my clothes, I usually try to clean it up ASAP, or change into something clean. I can't imagine going through the day with a stain on my shirt.

But, the real reason I dress up is because I like doing it. I like passing by a mirror and checking myself out. I like it when an attractive young lady smiles at me. It makes me feel good inside when a teenage girl at the fast food restaurant blushes and laughs nervously. When it's obvious she wants me. When she chases me. When she's stumbling over herself to please me. When she looks up at me like a little puppy, hungry for affection.

God, I love it!

AWESOME!

lol, semantically , I dont think its possible