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Topic: Why does a relationship have to be going someplace?
TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Fri 10/26/12 11:02 AM
Oh screw it. Let's watch something funny. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0PUrNwvvBk

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Sat 10/27/12 07:26 AM
I'm suggesting that it may be something you are attaching the most importance to... That's yours and it's legit IMO. I just wonder what you and your sportcoat will do when you'll no longer be able to fully satisfy the tini-boppers. Comment? I'll remember the good ol days when I could. I'll fondly look back on fun filled life with many happy memories.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 10/27/12 10:51 AM
there are too many types of love to mention love of a close friend love of a child love of Gods creatures love of a lover love of a platonic partner ,,,,ID say, love does not have to involve sex at all, but it can involve sex if one so chooses but , as I grow older, I try not to waste my time with these whys whats important isnt the why, thats beyond the point and may never be fully explained,,,whats important is the who if we are with someone WHO wants more than we can give, wants to give less than we want, or has a different timeline for their life why is not as important so much as is admitting the truth so we can MOVE on to find a better match for what we are looking for, and to let the other person do the same

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 10/27/12 11:03 AM
Sense my divorce I've been involved with a number of women. At some point they all asked the same question. "Where is this going?" I thought things were fine just as they were. I had my space, she had hers. We saw each other when we wanted and if it was inconvenient, we didn't. I was happy and she seemed happy too. Why does it have to be going someplace? What's to be gained by getting married that a couple doesn't already have? I agree. Why does it have to be going someplace? Living together... if you really enjoy each other's company, might be an option. The rest is financial considerations, but you have to be real careful there.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 10/27/12 11:04 AM
Sense my divorce I've been involved with a number of women. At some point they all asked the same question. "Where is this going?" I thought things were fine just as they were. I had my space, she had hers. We saw each other when we wanted and if it was inconvenient, we didn't. I was happy and she seemed happy too. Why does it have to be going someplace? What's to be gained by getting married that a couple doesn't already have? I agree. Why does it have to be going someplace? Living together... if you really enjoy each other's company, might be an option. The rest is financial considerations, but you have to be real careful there. it doesnt have to be going anywhere if both parties agree to it

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 10/27/12 11:45 AM
Sense my divorce I've been involved with a number of women. At some point they all asked the same question. "Where is this going?" I thought things were fine just as they were. I had my space, she had hers. We saw each other when we wanted and if it was inconvenient, we didn't. I was happy and she seemed happy too. Why does it have to be going someplace? What's to be gained by getting married that a couple doesn't already have? I agree. Why does it have to be going someplace? Living together... if you really enjoy each other's company, might be an option. The rest is financial considerations, but you have to be real careful there. it doesnt have to be going anywhere if both parties agree to it Right. Most people are looking for companionship.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 10/27/12 05:29 PM
msharmony it doesnt have to be going anywhere if both parties agree to it But, at some point SHE starts wanting more.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 10/27/12 05:52 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 10/27/12 05:52 PM
msharmony it doesnt have to be going anywhere if both parties agree to it But, at some point SHE starts wanting more. And that surprises you? Perhaps you are not enough. Let me have a talk with her... She may be asking for something she will regret later.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 10/27/12 06:29 PM
You know, I don't understand it either. I'm a jerk! But, they just eat it up. The harder I push them away, the harder they fight to get close.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 10/27/12 06:37 PM
You know, I don't understand it either. I'm a jerk! But, they just eat it up. The harder I push them away, the harder they fight to get close. They are stupid then. You don't want a stupid woman anyway.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sat 10/27/12 06:54 PM
this question is relationship pig latin for "do you like me or do you like me like me?"

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 10/27/12 07:11 PM
They are stupid then. You don't want a stupid woman anyway. On the contrary, I prefer stupid women.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 10/27/12 07:34 PM
They are stupid then. You don't want a stupid woman anyway. On the contrary, I prefer stupid women. That is probably a good idea.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 10/27/12 07:54 PM
That is probably a good idea. It works for me.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 10/27/12 08:24 PM Edited by Jeanniebean on Sat 10/27/12 08:25 PM
That is probably a good idea. It works for me. Really? It works for you? (Apparently not since you are asking the questions you are asking.) If every woman you encounter wants more from the relationship, then you have to realize that you are just not enough for them. Perhaps they should go get "more" from someone else.

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Sat 10/27/12 08:46 PM
They are stupid then. You don't want a stupid woman anyway. On the contrary, I prefer stupid women. ohoh Skippy don't make me say the obvious..................

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sat 10/27/12 08:46 PM
are you trying to define love now? this thread will never die if you try to do that. No. I have already defined love as a happy, healthy, sexual relationship. I'm asking you to clarify your definition. Not all happy, healthy, sexual relationships are love. But, I think it's safe to say all love relationships are happy, healthy, and sexual. It's like not all people are women, but all women are people. Yep, thats a pretty good definition, and then you just add the extra things in that make your relationship work, it may be commitment, trust, friendship, or all of them, everyone is different and everyone needs something that someone else may not. Now toyour first question, I guess you just have to find someone who wants what you do, but for some reason, after awhile, most people want more. More time, more attention, more of you.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 10/27/12 09:50 PM
msharmony it doesnt have to be going anywhere if both parties agree to it But, at some point SHE starts wanting more. if one wants more than the other,, than they want different things and do better going their seperate ways and finding someone else who wants the same,,

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sat 10/27/12 09:58 PM
msharmony it doesnt have to be going anywhere if both parties agree to it But, at some point SHE starts wanting more. When doesn't a woman want more?

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 10/27/12 10:58 PM
Yep, that's what I've been saying. Women are selfish and greedy.