After many years and many, ah, experiences, I realized that I always felt more comfortable with blonds. Why, I asked myself? The only thing I could come up with was that dark-haired men seemed dangerous to me. This is totally subconscious, understand. And I certainly have had relationships with dark-haired men. In fact my husband was brown-haired. But the ones that make my head turn always seem to be blond.

Of course now that doesn't matter any more, because they either have no hair at all or it's grey.

It also turns out that anyone with my ex-husband's name is an automatic turnoff, sorry Jims of the world.

Strong woman (mentally) who can take care of herself, brains and personality.

ya I can't deal with anyone who even remotely resembles my ex husband either now or as a young man - no matter what he is like on the inside, if he bears any resemblence- that's an automatic NO

More serious types. Girls that are younger and kind of flingy ( not that age has anything to do with though I do like older woman) kind of opposite my type. Good to be friends with but I prefer less games and less likelehood I am a stepping stone to her date the next weekend.

Albino Oregon sex monkeys.

Ohhhhhh....man! There is this one that just .....mmmmmmmmmm

Nice

respectful

intelligent - prefer VERY there

handsome

loyal

man enough to bump his buds and stick up for me - not afraid to let it be known how he feels

yanno a M-A-N

I like to surprise myself and other people. So over time I have had
a very wide variety in the types of women I have found attractive.

Intelligence and Kindness are the key elements.
Tend to get along well with athletic types particularly athletic nerds.

But I like women in general. They really appeal to me
and I have found myself attracted easily and sincerely
to quite a few over the years.

I would hate to be the person inside a package.

"Honey, this came in the mail today."

"who is it from?"

"Some emigration office in Kuala Lumpur."

"Drat. The mailman always mixes up "Victoria
Street" with "Victoria's Secrets". He shifts
his weight on the divan. "We could use the box
to keep my old model railway stuff in it. But
the person inside it is not important. Take him
to the person donor clinic."

"To the where, honey?"

"To the person disassembly plant, you know,
the person junk yard, where they strip him
for parts and sell those for transplants.
You know, blood, liver, kidneys, brain,
scalp hair, nose warts, bone marrow."

"K, honey. You are so smart...I don't know
what I would do without you."

Is the disassembly plant anywhere near
the assembly plant??

I've never had a "type". First blonde I ever seriously dated happened a couple years ago. I've dated all body types. Even went out a couple times with an Atheist (which was quite interesting).

I do find myself attracted to one commonality though. All these women made me laugh but moreover they "got" my weird sense of humor. That turns me on. I'm talking rock hard turned on, but that is for another section and all. Keeping it real and PG, I find that when I am truly understood for who I am, then I am attracted to the woman who gets me. Also....as a side note....I like to be abused, and....wait....gosh darn it....THAT too is for another thread. (Slaps head). I digress......let's just stick with women who make me laugh and get me. That'll do

if loving you is wrong,i don't want to be right

I guess there is a difference but only slightly with type and preference. I tend to find certain people more attractive than others. It doesn't make me feel bad if I like more than the other. I think everyone has their likes and dislikes. Mine haven't really changed. But my options are still open.

Dude...don't you remember? Goof is the one you can't have.

I am attracted to men who are unafraid of a commitment to one woman first of all, honest, communicates well, funny, hard working,and likes to do family things. I do have a preference though, and that is I love the way Asian men look, but I'm not holding my breath for one. There are very few Asian, black women relationships, it's not that popular. I like a man who has a nice body, he doesn't have to be Mr. Universe but nice enough. Sorry, I know I'm a big girl myself, but I don't like big guys. What attracts me to a guy when I first see him is his smile.

I want a girl with a short skirt and a looooooooooooong jacket...

someone who can be a good parent is a mandate, as I have children

someone older than thirty is also a mandate, as my eldest is 19 himself and needs to view this person as a father figure


someone mature, responsible, considerate, and God fearing are also mandates, as I believe children learn alot through example of their elders,,,,


other than that, preferences are taller than 5foot10, height/weight proportionate, broad shoulders, healthy skin and healthy smile

,, just preferences, not mandates,,,

I don't have a specific type. I'm attracted to the obvious and how sincere those qualities are in a person, how well we mesh together, etc.

If she can make me laugh.....she has covered alot of ground...
If she can make me think too........WOW!!
Beyond that everything else is just gravy.
But I'd be lyin if I said there didn't have to be a physical attraction first.
Its just the way we are all built.

I use to look for intelligence, wit, looks, a good sense of humor, compassion, political involvement and good grooming. Now I find it easier if I just settle for breathing and a pulse!

Must eat chips layered in a sandwich.
AND not eat all the M&Ms.