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to join you for a cup of coffee at the conclusion of a nice evening?
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I don't like coffee.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Wed 09/14/11 06:32 AM
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to join you for a cup of coffee at the conclusion of a nice evening? well it has to be a nice evening to start with - and that late in the day it would more apt to be tea or a beer/glass of wine - if he drinks AND it has to be a situation where their is mutual attraction I love coffee but not after 5 or 6 pm |
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I won't say never, but almost never on a first date. I don't want someone to know where I live initially until I have been out with them at least once and then they would have to know how to make it, cause I don't drink coffee.
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways.
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways.  too funny Ruth.
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways. 
I cannot be the only one getting all funny in the pantz about this 
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uh huh uh huh I have actually been the fortunate witness to such....yay 
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage.
once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. |
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage. once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. do you think your criteria are different for online dating? I think I'd be less apt to let an online date know where I live -some haven't even known my last name (it was for a 1 drink or dinner date)....but if someone knows me IRL chances are they may know where I live anyway |
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage. once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. do you think your criteria are different for online dating? I think I'd be less apt to let an online date know where I live -some haven't even known my last name (it was for a 1 drink or dinner date)....but if someone knows me IRL chances are they may know where I live anyway No, not really. For me, as a single mom. Noone needs to know where I live just because we are 'dating'. IT has to be more than that. But thats just me. |
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage. once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. do you think your criteria are different for online dating? I think I'd be less apt to let an online date know where I live -some haven't even known my last name (it was for a 1 drink or dinner date)....but if someone knows me IRL chances are they may know where I live anyway No, not really. For me, as a single mom. Noone needs to know where I live just because we are 'dating'. IT has to be more than that. But thats just me. right I don't introduce anyone to family either unless there is a reason to...as far as when someone comes over....that just depends on who it is - how it's going - how I feel & if I trust them - I don;t really know anyone around here so really haven't had to confront that issue |
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There isn't a set time frame for me to invite someone over. It will just depend on when I'm comfortable to do so.
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways.
I cannot be the only one getting all funny in the pantz about this
Nope. |
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways. |
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uh huh uh huh I have actually been the fortunate witness to such....yay
You mean you witnessed Ruth in particular or just some random strangers? And when you say witness...was there videorecording involved? And how much/how many times have you "witnessed"? Inquiring minds want to know all these things!
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Wed 09/14/11 10:12 AM
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I don't like coffee. The coffee is metaphorical. Choose any other drink. Or something else altogether. Do you invite them over for conversation? To watch a movie? Something else? Something visual or tactile or oral?
What are your expectations?
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uh huh uh huh I have actually been the fortunate witness to such....yay
You mean you witnessed Ruth in particular or just some random strangers? And when you say witness...was there videorecording involved? And how much/how many times have you "witnessed"? Inquiring minds want to know all these things!
no no, apologies I should have been more clear - not Ruth (as I doubt she ever did anything like that anyway) No I am just referring to accidental sightings late in the evening on my way to my own car - back in the day - I have not idea who the people were and really did not pay much attention...just got in my car & went home |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Wed 09/14/11 10:14 AM
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I won't say never, but almost never on a first date. I don't want someone to know where I live initially until I have been out with them at least once and then they would have to know how to make it, cause I don't drink coffee.
Well this seems very reasonable. And I love the new main pic by the way! 
Well how do you go about inviting them up?
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