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well i am 24 yrs old guy, mba educated, belongs to cultural family
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Are you having any luck yet? You are in a bit of an out-of-the-way location. I've recieved emails from men in Africa who is also looking for marriage.....I've already been married, and will never walk down that path ever again in this life! But GOOD LUCK to the OP Just when I was about to pop the question. Great, thanks a lot find. You heart breaker. love ya! AWWW mg. You said teh same thing to me a week ago. You Cheap FLOOZY!! |
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Are you having any luck yet? You are in a bit of an out-of-the-way location. |
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Are you having any luck yet? You are in a bit of an out-of-the-way location. I've recieved emails from men in Africa who is also looking for marriage.....I've already been married, and will never walk down that path ever again in this life! But GOOD LUCK to the OP Just when I was about to pop the question. Great, thanks a lot find. You heart breaker. love ya! AWWW mg. You said teh same thing to me a week ago. You Cheap FLOOZY!! The other women mean nothing to me, your the only one. |
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Iam ready to marry u real if u are searching for real like me.talk to me
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Marriage should not be the first step, why not try to make friends so that you can love and be loved. I'll like to be your friend. Can we?
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Marriage should not be the first step, why not try to make friends so that you can love and be loved. I'll like to be your friend. Can we? |
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Are you having any luck yet? You are in a bit of an out-of-the-way location. I've recieved emails from men in Africa who is also looking for marriage..... |
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Marriage should not be the first step, why not try to make friends so that you can love and be loved. I'll like to be your friend. Can we? That is a very logical approach. |
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Hi Nicelady
Here's what I think. If there are women who still have a problem with you after 9 pages of you being very polite and telling they have a problem period. If they can't see the sincerity in your words by now they have a problem with sincerity themselves and probably carry that attitude with them when talking to whomever. I would imagine that if we look at their history they are argumentative toward people and defensive in their dealings with others. They have probably been called on the carpet before for being outspoken and derogatory. I'm sure there are some that can deal with that type of personality but you my dear have shown your self to stand above the norm (if that is the norm) and shine.You will have a long and happy marriage before they have the first day of true inner peace with another. I'm looking forward to hearing how this all turns out as I'm sure many are. The approach of being totally straight forward and honest combined with positive attitude will no doubt be one of the characters your husband will adore about you. I also want to point out that you have been anything but desperate here as you have share both the long term and short term style of a truly mature woman. This is not just about the quick fix for you but a process that involves the whole getting to know period right up through the wedding and beyond. What guy would not treasure such incite if looking for marriage themselves. You have done mingle a great service with this thread. |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Thu 08/11/11 07:38 PM
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Hi Nicelady Here's what I think. If there are women who still have a problem with you after 9 pages of you being very polite and telling they have a problem period. If they can't see the sincerity in your words by now they have a problem with sincerity themselves and probably carry that attitude with them when talking to whomever. I would imagine that if we look at their history they are argumentative toward people and defensive in their dealings with others. They have probably been called on the carpet before for being outspoken and derogatory. I'm sure there are some that can deal with that type of personality but you my dear have shown your self to stand above the norm (if that is the norm) and shine.You will have a long and happy marriage before they have the first day of true inner peace with another. I'm looking forward to hearing how this all turns out as I'm sure many are. The approach of being totally straight forward and honest combined with positive attitude will no doubt be one of the characters your husband will adore about you. I also want to point out that you have been anything but desperate here as you have share both the long term and short term style of a truly mature woman. This is not just about the quick fix for you but a process that involves the whole getting to know period right up through the wedding and beyond. What guy would not treasure such incite if looking for marriage themselves. You have done mingle a great service with this thread. MG, just curious, why did you only bring up women in your post? Surely you've seen that it isn't all women who suggested other approaches. Even the last person the OP responded to was a man. |
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I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years. Egads! What are you so desperate? |
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The previous post goes to show it's definitely not just women who are wondering about this kind of approach.
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I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years. Egads! What are you so desperate? If you read the entire thread I doubt you will see (at least I didn't) any desperation but more a straight to the point gal saying what she wants. |
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The previous post goes to show it's definitely not just women who are wondering about this kind of approach. Just wondering, why are you so against her approach? She's just being honest and upfront. |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Fri 08/12/11 06:21 AM
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Hey, if her approach works, great. I just have to wonder about it, because it's all she posts about. If it was working, we probably wouldn't hear about it so much.
That being said, I do hope things work out well for the OP. She knows what she wants and is very persistent about getting it! |
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I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years. Egads! What are you so desperate? If you read the entire thread I doubt you will see (at least I didn't) any desperation but more a straight to the point gal saying what she wants. Yes but based on her other thread she wants an "American". Sorry if I have distrust for someone online not from America looking to marry an American. |
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Hey, if her approach works, great. I just have to wonder about it, because it's all she posts about. If it was working, we probably wouldn't hear about it so much. That being said, I do hope things work out well for the OP. She knows what she wants and is very persistent about getting it! finding a life partner takes time. she mentioned she has gotten several messages. when people have a specific goal in mind they tend to focus on it. with all the threads started by men and women looking for an intimate encounter, the one looking for a committed relationship is the one that gets labeled desperate. she has her eyes on the prize, why not encourage her, or even steer like minded men her way. other people (not you sing) seem to want to c*ckblock this nice lady |
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Hey, if her approach works, great. I just have to wonder about it, because it's all she posts about. If it was working, we probably wouldn't hear about it so much. That being said, I do hope things work out well for the OP. She knows what she wants and is very persistent about getting it! Maybe you should look at the other threads Nicelady does post on before making comments like this. This is not all she posts about. I really don't get why you are treating her this way. She started a thread on cancer treatments and other topics. What's up girl? |
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The previous post goes to show it's definitely not just women who are wondering about this kind of approach. Just wondering, why are you so against her approach? She's just being honest and upfront. |
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