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Topic: Looking for a husband
Niceladyrealy Joined Sun 05/29/11 Posts: 279	Fri 08/05/11 11:55 AM Edited by Niceladyrealy on Fri 08/05/11 12:36 PM
Its not a scam and not a joke. Im realy lookingfor a husband,since ive never been maried. Since this is a single date site i find it suitable to place my add here. Im only interested in dating guys that are willing to settl down get maried and raise a familie.im not planing to mary just any guy imeet,i will obviously spend some time withim firsto c if we are compatble for marriage.there are certain things i would want in a husband confidencemotiol maturity,mental stability,consistancy,compation,support,unconditlove.. If im lucky iwillbemaried2 mr wonderfull next year.

Niceladyrealy Joined Sun 05/29/11 Posts: 279	Fri 08/05/11 12:20 PM
really ,is this true, is this a joke, na this isn't craigslist scam ,or is it, the jury still out on this one. its not ajoke. Im serious im 39 never been maried and have no children. Im looking for a lifetime partner that would consider having kids with me. I have lots of loveto give and am seeking unconditionalove.iwill support my partner and never betray him.

Niceladyrealy Joined Sun 05/29/11 Posts: 279	Fri 08/05/11 02:36 PM
I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years. Most of what I've seen you post here is about wanting a husband. Why not try to get to know people first, then see what happens? yes.thats the plan to meet people and geto know them. However i prefer spending my time to meet men that are interestd in mariage and children. Idont wanto date guys that only want a one night fling and somen are athe stage where there not ready for mariage and chldrn.idont want a guy who likes the idea of oneday getting married and having a lifetime partner to love and support him. And some guys my age simply dont want more kids. Im being who i am straightforward and honest only wanting to atrackthose whom have the same goals that ido,and one ofthem is mariage and have kids ofmy own with a loving supportive husband.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Fri 08/05/11 03:06 PM
I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years. Most of what I've seen you post here is about wanting a husband. Why not try to get to know people first, then see what happens? yes.thats the plan to meet people and geto know them. However i prefer spending my time to meet men that are interestd in mariage and children. Idont wanto date guys that only want a one night fling and somen are athe stage where there not ready for mariage and chldrn.idont want a guy who likes the idea of oneday getting married and having a lifetime partner to love and support him. And some guys my age simply dont want more kids. Im being who i am straightforward and honest only wanting to atrackthose whom have the same goals that ido,and one ofthem is mariage and have kids ofmy own with a loving supportive husband. Good for you! Stick to it!

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Fri 08/05/11 05:47 PM
I live in south africand am willing to relocate anywhere inthe world. Im looking for a kind gentle smart compasionate loving supportive husband that might consider to have children with me within the next four years. Most of what I've seen you post here is about wanting a husband. Why not try to get to know people first, then see what happens? yes.thats the plan to meet people and geto know them. However i prefer spending my time to meet men that are interestd in mariage and children. Idont wanto date guys that only want a one night fling and somen are athe stage where there not ready for mariage and chldrn.idont want a guy who likes the idea of oneday getting married and having a lifetime partner to love and support him. And some guys my age simply dont want more kids. Im being who i am straightforward and honest only wanting to atrackthose whom have the same goals that ido,and one ofthem is mariage and have kids ofmy own with a loving supportive husband. Amen Nice, count me in, I'm a fan of your search. I think what you are doing is setting an example of openness and integrity. We have excepted the Americanized game of dating as being real and it isn't (in my book). It's riddled with maybes and mythical promises. I do, doesn't even mean "I do" any more. The search for something better after the commitment is still in the back of minds when it should be "leave and cleave" to the promise of forever. Your being very straight up and I am very proud of you.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Fri 08/05/11 07:14 PM
I'm still wondering what/who mg thinks makes good husband material. He keeps mentioning it, but has been very vague. Look at the thread on real brave men and you will start to see some of them. My gosh I think it's great when people are this honest. You want to get to know someone? There you go. These guys aren't getting all fixed up to go hide behind a glass in a dark bar, they are telling you the deepest secrets to them right up front so there are no surprises.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 08/05/11 07:22 PM
I've already had one - long time not the best expereince except for my kids - that was pretty awesome time so I really do not understand the OPs obsession with this - it's overrated, the whole husband thing, OP doubt very much they are worth the trouble and probably avoid having another but I am open to other types of commitments

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Fri 08/05/11 07:30 PM
I've already had one - long time not the best expereince except for my kids - that was pretty awesome time so I really do not understand the OPs obsession with this - it's overrated, the whole husband thing, OP doubt very much they are worth the trouble and probably avoid having another but I am open to other types of commitments I don't see her as being obsessed, she's straight up about who she is and what she wants, just like you are being. If more people were this way it would make life a lot more pleasant.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 08/05/11 07:34 PM
I've already had one - long time not the best expereince except for my kids - that was pretty awesome time so I really do not understand the OPs obsession with this - it's overrated, the whole husband thing, OP doubt very much they are worth the trouble and probably avoid having another but I am open to other types of commitments I don't see her as being obsessed, she's straight up about who she is and what she wants, just like you are being. If more people were this way it would make life a lot more pleasant. one person's obsession is another's trivial pursuit to advertise in a public forum to the extent that she has not only lacks taste and discretion, it IS obssesive-like in my book I wish to discuss it no further as this my opinion that shall not change, thank you

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Fri 08/05/11 07:43 PM
I've already had one - long time not the best expereince except for my kids - that was pretty awesome time so I really do not understand the OPs obsession with this - it's overrated, the whole husband thing, OP doubt very much they are worth the trouble and probably avoid having another but I am open to other types of commitments I don't see her as being obsessed, she's straight up about who she is and what she wants, just like you are being. If more people were this way it would make life a lot more pleasant. one person's obsession is another's trivial pursuit to advertise in a public forum to the extent that she has not only lacks taste and discretion, it IS obssesive-like in my book I wish to discuss it no further as this my opinion that shall not change, thank you Off to your room young lady and don't come out till you change that attitude. lol

Niceladyrealy Joined Sun 05/29/11 Posts: 279	Sat 08/06/11 06:30 AM
I've already had one - long time not the best expereince except for my kids - that was pretty awesome time so I really do not understand the OPs obsession with this - it's overrated, the whole husband thing, OP doubt very much they are worth the trouble and probably avoid having another but I am open to other types of commitments I don't see her as being obsessed, she's straight up about who she is and what she wants, just like you are being. If more people were this way it would make life a lot more pleasant. one person's obsession is another's trivial pursuit to advertise in a public forum to the extent that she has not only lacks taste and discretion, it IS obssesive-like in my book I wish to discuss it no further as this my opinion that shall not change, thank you

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 08/06/11 07:00 AM
I've already had one - long time not the best expereince except for my kids - that was pretty awesome time so I really do not understand the OPs obsession with this - it's overrated, the whole husband thing, OP doubt very much they are worth the trouble and probably avoid having another but I am open to other types of commitments It does seem like an obsession. And there is something a bit.. off about it.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 08/06/11 07:09 AM
I'm still wondering what/who mg thinks makes good husband material. He keeps mentioning it, but has been very vague. Look at the thread on real brave men and you will start to see some of them. My gosh I think it's great when people are this honest. You want to get to know someone? There you go. These guys aren't getting all fixed up to go hide behind a glass in a dark bar, they are telling you the deepest secrets to them right up front so there are no surprises. I don't see a thread called "real brave men." I see another thread with "brave men" as part of the subject, but it seems to be some bitterness going on in there. I asked you what you thought made good husband material, though, as you kept bringing it up. You still haven't said what you thought.

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 08/06/11 07:15 AM
I have been following this with some interest. I agree with mg...the op is being as honest and forthright as she can be. She's not placing an ad for illicit sex..or to become a 'cougar'. She is not from America, so her outlook is different than ours. She is aware of what she wants, she has waited for it to happen and is willing to put herself out there to make it happen. It's refreshing. She's not jaded like we have become. I say "Good Luck" !!

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Sat 08/06/11 07:17 AM
It does seem like an obsession. And there is something a bit.. off about it. when people don't conform to the "norm" they get criticized. when they conform they get lost in the shuffle. everyone has a different style and comfort zone. she has not found comfort in the zone she is in, so she is looking elsewhere. others as well have not found what they want where they are at, so they are utilizing the internet to reach other places. some are comfortable not posting, others post, some troll, some perv. in all this we all have to be open to what others have to offer. that's cool that you think she should be careful, but if you read what she posts, you might find that she is sure of what she wants, has broadened her search, and is screening those who comment. she isn't so obsessed as to jump on the first cat who want to marry her. just because she is taking an approach that you wouldn't doesn't mean you should be negative towards her

esebulldog Joined Wed 08/05/09 Posts: 22342	Sat 08/06/11 07:20 AM
I don't see a thread called "real brave men." I see another thread with "brave men" as part of the subject, but it seems to be some bitterness going on in there. I asked you what you thought made good husband material, though, as you kept bringing it up. You still haven't said what you thought. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/308044

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 08/06/11 07:21 AM
It does seem like an obsession. And there is something a bit.. off about it. when people don't conform to the "norm" they get criticized. when they conform they get lost in the shuffle. everyone has a different style and comfort zone. she has not found comfort in the zone she is in, so she is looking elsewhere. others as well have not found what they want where they are at, so they are utilizing the internet to reach other places. some are comfortable not posting, others post, some troll, some perv. in all this we all have to be open to what others have to offer. that's cool that you think she should be careful, but if you read what she posts, you might find that she is sure of what she wants, has broadened her search, and is screening those who comment. she isn't so obsessed as to jump on the first cat who want to marry her. just because she is taking an approach that you wouldn't doesn't mean you should be negative towards her Bravo! Well said

exxman Joined Tue 08/02/11 Posts: 468	Sat 08/06/11 07:26 AM
It does seem like an obsession. And there is something a bit.. off about it. when people don't conform to the "norm" they get criticized. when they conform they get lost in the shuffle. everyone has a different style and comfort zone. she has not found comfort in the zone she is in, so she is looking elsewhere. others as well have not found what they want where they are at, so they are utilizing the internet to reach other places. some are comfortable not posting, others post, some troll, some perv. in all this we all have to be open to what others have to offer. that's cool that you think she should be careful, but if you read what she posts, you might find that she is sure of what she wants, has broadened her search, and is screening those who comment. she isn't so obsessed as to jump on the first cat who want to marry her. just because she is taking an approach that you wouldn't doesn't mean you should be negative towards her ^^ Bump. It is nice to see a woman at least be up front and know where she is and what she wants in life. Sometimes it seems like people do not know themselves well enough to even understand what type of relationship they are ready for. Best wishes in your search and while your eyes are open, don't forget to follow your heart.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 08/06/11 07:33 AM
It does seem like an obsession. And there is something a bit.. off about it. when people don't conform to the "norm" they get criticized. when they conform they get lost in the shuffle. everyone has a different style and comfort zone. she has not found comfort in the zone she is in, so she is looking elsewhere. others as well have not found what they want where they are at, so they are utilizing the internet to reach other places. some are comfortable not posting, others post, some troll, some perv. in all this we all have to be open to what others have to offer. that's cool that you think she should be careful, but if you read what she posts, you might find that she is sure of what she wants, has broadened her search, and is screening those who comment. she isn't so obsessed as to jump on the first cat who want to marry her. just because she is taking an approach that you wouldn't doesn't mean you should be negative towards her ^^ Bump. It is nice to see a woman at least be up front and know where she is and what she wants in life. Sometimes it seems like people do not know themselves well enough to even understand what type of relationship they are ready for. Best wishes in your search and while your eyes are open, don't forget to follow your heart. Does a woman have to state that she's searching for a husband in order to seem as though she knows what she wants?

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Sat 08/06/11 07:37 AM
It does seem like an obsession. And there is something a bit.. off about it. when people don't conform to the "norm" they get criticized. when they conform they get lost in the shuffle. everyone has a different style and comfort zone. she has not found comfort in the zone she is in, so she is looking elsewhere. others as well have not found what they want where they are at, so they are utilizing the internet to reach other places. some are comfortable not posting, others post, some troll, some perv. in all this we all have to be open to what others have to offer. that's cool that you think she should be careful, but if you read what she posts, you might find that she is sure of what she wants, has broadened her search, and is screening those who comment. she isn't so obsessed as to jump on the first cat who want to marry her. just because she is taking an approach that you wouldn't doesn't mean you should be negative towards her ^^ Bump. It is nice to see a woman at least be up front and know where she is and what she wants in life. Sometimes it seems like people do not know themselves well enough to even understand what type of relationship they are ready for. Best wishes in your search and while your eyes are open, don't forget to follow your heart. Does a woman have to state that she's searching for a husband in order to seem as though she knows what she wants? Is it better to hem and haw? Just because we might not do it...doesn't make it wrong. She wants a husband. Not a boyfriend. Not a girlfriend. A husband.