OK. I'm gong to do something I shouldn't do. This URL is for a porno site. I stumbled across it quite by accident. Honest! It is very bazaar. Even people who aren't offended by normal naughty pictures may have trouble with it. Do not open it if you are unsure

www.ilovegranny.com

Somebody had sent me an email with a very cute, but naughty picture. I wanted to share it, but Mingle won't let you post naughty stuff, so I went to the website where it came from to post a url. It was something I never thought I'ld see.

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Ima not lookin' I can just imagine - I hope they smack him down

def my favorite

my surgery scar is not from plastic - I have never had it & doubt I would unless it was a treatment of some kind for somethn else

my surgery scar is on my belly for an emergency C-section that I had 17 yrs ago for my son. I nearly lost him and there was not time to do a "nice neat SMALL" incision

I was slashed - literally - from hip to hip and it is a lot of work to maintain ANY kind of muscle tone there- it took ages to heal and it looks horrible - my figure was always a perfect hour glass - it still is - with a little bit of "life event" added - I would take another scar as big and as wide to save my son if I had to

hopefully that will never be an issue - I used to hope someday to have plastic to see if it can be repaired at all -I don;t worry as much about it now

same thing with my x wife and our son. the scar was beautiful

ur sweet - it defintely gives me that "lived in" look

Any body who is a real man is going to cherish that kind of scar as a badge of life. All the others are just boys

possibly

it's hard for me still tho

If the wrapping is unattractive, no one will open the gift. A good example is a friend of mine. He was involved in an explosion. His face is covered in burn scars and he has only one ear. His face scares children when he goes out and women won't give him the time of day. They don't care what's inside.

This is an extreme example, but it drives the point home. Attractive people simply have more options when it comes to dating. Young people are more attractive than old people. I don't care how good Diane Keaton looks, she's just not as sexy as Megan Fox.

yes, your example is extreme and unfortunate

I think it depends on what you consider sexy or attractive. I have dated numerous younger men who were very attractive - but only a very few of them had a sexuality mature enough, or a personality mature enough to please me

I think your attitude will be a road block for you, and except in the extreme I could not disagree with you more - honestly u are the kind of man I avoid. I have been fairly attractive all my life - to men anyway (I think I am plain). I DO NOT like men who want to be wiht me because of how I look- it's a HUGE turn off and a real issue for most very attractive girls & women because you don't see me (us) as a person but as a body with a good rack - all kidding aside...ummm...no thanks

Niether one of you are wrong. I am in the early steps of a new relationship with somebody who has exactly the same issue. I couldn't care less. Make no mistake, looks matter, but where there is a total package that overwhelms the particulars, the "flaws" disappear from view, and eventually become beloved.

I don't know who this is, but he is a male, most definitely.

But that's no reason why he couldn't be a role model for 60+ females.

yes there has to be something that creates that attraction, but haven't you ever found yourself attracted to someone who isn't "beautiful" by traditional standards? I have - my last BF actually - well my last long term was very cute but he a good example of the fact that good looks can wear very thin if there's nothing on the inside to back them up, but right after him I saw a guy briefly who was cute to me, but a lot of other gals prolly wouldn't say that about him because his cuteness was not just what he looked like - or cute by say...a hollywood standard

IDK artlo - I think the total chemistry includes the total package - a guy (in my case) might not be as attractive as the guy next to him, but a heck of a lot sexier, ya, then I'm in

Ah, you have no argument, so you attack me personally.

My attitude serves me well enough. I am currently involved with a very attractive woman 29 years younger than myself. In fact, our new baby is now 7 weeks old.

ROFL! That's Cher and you've made my point better than I ever could.

why be so defensive? I hope it works out for you in the long term. my stepmpther is about my age also so I know those things can work, usually they do not, that is the exception and fortunately for you there are younger women who find a man who has some age on him attractive - where would you be otherwise?

however you do not in turn find a woman with some age attractive - it is a matter of personal preference so you can't (as u did) make a general statement that all older women (or men) are not as attractive because of their age - beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder

I did not attack you personally and do not appreciate the accusation only your POV I disagreed with. and I still think it is a roadblock - an opinion I am entitled to/end

I agree. Attractive gets you in the door. If you are lucky enough to be attractive, and you take care of that, and then still have the personality and attitude to be likable, you will go a long way.

Some people can slide by on looks alone, but looks don't last.

what point ? that's so ridiculous

it's one bad picture of cher - I could find you hundreds that are lovely

and you KNOW that

the only thing it proves is how short sighted and shallow men can be sometimes

If make up can create this huge difference, then I must say I am the most beautiful woman on this site.

And definitely so if you consider my age (less than 3 years shy of sixty.)