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Topic: do you worry to much about your weight?be honest
Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 12/23/10 08:38 PM
As to the OP...nup...I don't give a rat's razoo about what I weigh... I eat well, I play hard, and I get busy in it, rather than a sideline watcher...(of life).

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 12/26/10 07:38 PM
Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. Yes obviously I am insecure, and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble. No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for. well them guys must of been idiots from what i see you look very beautiful and i know you have a awesome personality from what i see in the threads and from just chatting as a friend no 1 should ever put a person down its so sad when jerks do that well thanks for your message and i tell you don't need to feel insecure your a hottie and i bet all on here aggree that you are so keep your spirits strong and always hold your head up high i am here too if you ever need a friend to chat with hugsssssssss:))))) Thanks Cheer Up, your a Fair dinkum Bloke, Love ya And i think all the girls here feel the same. Aussie chicka!...heya from the rather sodden Queenslander! Seems you guys are in for wild weather too... In Canada its really cold here lolllll -28 cheers

Nitsua1984 Joined Sat 09/05/09 Posts: 734	Sun 12/26/10 07:39 PM
As to the OP...nup...I don't give a rat's razoo about what I weigh... I eat well, I play hard, and I get busy in it, rather than a sideline watcher...(of life). I got excited till I saw the last two words.

mixtee Joined Thu 12/09/10 Posts: 15	Mon 12/27/10 01:05 PM
That is so true especially in those developed countries. Thin women complain about eating too much fat as if it was the devil itself. In Africa we like being fat, not excessively of course. The problem is we attract what we try to avoid, and this is a channel of insatisfaction that affects physically and emotionally

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Mon 12/27/10 06:39 PM
That is so true especially in those developed countries. Thin women complain about eating too much fat as if it was the devil itself. In Africa we like being fat, not excessively of course. The problem is we attract what we try to avoid, and this is a channel of insatisfaction that affects physically and emotionally well i not sure never been there yet i been to Cuba thou and some that are thin think they are heavy:))))) i bet Africa is hot there most of the time? and beautiful beaches? my brothers both been to Jamaca and said its beautiful beaches there and really hot weather:) awesome food:)

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Tue 12/28/10 04:09 AM
Yes i do especially before i got pregnant but then after i had my baby and saw myself again i couldn't believe i was so hard on myself. I still don't look like what i want to but i accept me now since i don't look like im lugging around a big pumpkin in my shirt anymore =)

geektothetenth Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 880	Tue 12/28/10 10:29 AM
No, I don't worry about it at all. If I feel like I'm gaining too much....like right now...I work out, eat less and just lose it. If I feel lazy, I just let myself get a little more chubby. Either way, I don't worry about it, I either do something about it, or don't. Fat cells don't go away, they can grow and shrink. Once they get to a certain size they divide. So if you let yourself go too far, you have many more fat cells and it's harder to lose weight.

venusenvy Joined Sat 07/31/10 Posts: 2984	Tue 12/28/10 11:51 AM
Honestly? Ive never been on a diet in my life. I dont believe in all that crap! In fact I think its dangerous. I raised 4 girls all turned out to be completely different and each is beautiful. I was very careful not to let them develop any negative body issues. And each is healthy and well adjusted that way.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 01/02/11 08:15 PM
Yes i do especially before i got pregnant but then after i had my baby and saw myself again i couldn't believe i was so hard on myself. I still don't look like what i want to but i accept me now since i don't look like im lugging around a big pumpkin in my shirt anymore =) Well CONGRATS!to you Both on your baby:)))) and i hope your guy treats you always the same before and after and accept you the same :))) a new life is a amazing thing too BIG HUGSSSSSS N ^5s to you 2 Have a AWESOME NEW YEARS!

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Sun 01/02/11 08:23 PM
Honestly? Ive never been on a diet in my life. I dont believe in all that crap! In fact I think its dangerous. I raised 4 girls all turned out to be completely different and each is beautiful. I was very careful not to let them develop any negative body issues. And each is healthy and well adjusted that way. Well you sound like a decent Loving Mom hope your New years is the Best for you and your Family Thanks for your in put:) your right but i can see a diet only if a health issues sometimes can help if done right:)

joseph74 Joined Mon 01/10/11 Posts: 8	Mon 01/10/11 02:46 PM Edited by joseph74 on Mon 01/10/11 02:48 PM
as a man i really don't worry too much about my weight but you know what i hate? when a woman asks you "does this outfit make my a s s look big?" just makes me want to say "no honey of course not....eating 7 times a day makes your a s s look big" or "no sweety your a s s does not look big IT IS BIG!!"

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 01/10/11 03:15 PM
No, I don't worry about it but it is something I am concerned about because of health reasons. Last year I lost 30 pounds and it helped me a lot. I am at much less risk for other health issues now. I still have more to lose but I work on it slowly. Rapid weight loss can also cause health problems so I want to avoid any extremes.

Loy822 Joined Mon 07/26/10 Posts: 7174	Mon 01/10/11 03:26 PM
I should, but I don't. If I gain a lb or 2 then I increase my exercise. Can't afford new clothes LOL.

singlentri_ing Joined Sat 10/23/10 Posts: 222	Mon 01/10/11 08:49 PM
I'll admit it, I'm one of those girls that worry about their weight. More now than ever. I worry about my weight for a couple of reasons. In the past 2 years, I've lost 100+ lbs. I've worked very hard at losing the weight and keeping it off. I live in fear of gaining that weight back. When I was heavier, I didn't have confidence in myself. Now, I'm not saying I'm 100% confident, but I have more confidence now than I did. Another reason I worry about my weight is because it has to do with my performance. I lost the weight by competing in triathlons (life long goal). It is something I thoroughly enjoy and if I gain weight, it doesn't reflect well on my performance in my races.

singlentri_ing Joined Sat 10/23/10 Posts: 222	Mon 01/10/11 08:49 PM
I'll admit it, I'm one of those girls that worry about their weight. More now than ever. I worry about my weight for a couple of reasons. In the past 2 years, I've lost 100+ lbs. I've worked very hard at losing the weight and keeping it off. I live in fear of gaining that weight back. When I was heavier, I didn't have confidence in myself. Now, I'm not saying I'm 100% confident, but I have more confidence now than I did. Another reason I worry about my weight is because it has to do with my performance. I lost the weight by competing in triathlons (life long goal). It is something I thoroughly enjoy and if I gain weight, it doesn't reflect well on my performance in my races.

Loy822 Joined Mon 07/26/10 Posts: 7174	Tue 01/11/11 05:35 AM
I'll admit it, I'm one of those girls that worry about their weight. More now than ever. I worry about my weight for a couple of reasons. In the past 2 years, I've lost 100+ lbs. I've worked very hard at losing the weight and keeping it off. I live in fear of gaining that weight back. When I was heavier, I didn't have confidence in myself. Now, I'm not saying I'm 100% confident, but I have more confidence now than I did. Another reason I worry about my weight is because it has to do with my performance. I lost the weight by competing in triathlons (life long goal). It is something I thoroughly enjoy and if I gain weight, it doesn't reflect well on my performance in my races. That's amazing! Congratulations! I deeply admire people who can compete like that - I am not one of them.

Holly4459 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 34785	Tue 01/11/11 06:37 AM Edited by Holly4459 on Tue 01/11/11 06:38 AM
Well it's after the holidays - soooo.... I think there's likely a great deal of people worried about their weight...

hunter5169 Joined Fri 01/07/11 Posts: 138	Tue 01/11/11 08:42 AM
why yes I do worry about it when I cant see my beltbuckel,socks,my wadders fit to tight. right now need to drop off about twenty pounds to get back to where I feel right. dang holidays.

Cheer_up Joined Tue 11/02/10 Posts: 3269	Wed 01/12/11 10:39 PM
Well it's after the holidays - soooo.... I think there's likely a great deal of people worried about their weight... you shouldnt be if you look around no a days theres big and small or tall or fat and skinny as long as your healthy and feel good don't worry to much hugsssss my friend:) people should accept people for themselfs:) i do:))))))) i love people for the inner beauty:) first cause no 1 is perfect in this world:)

jdlover6963 Joined Fri 04/18/08 Posts: 12	Fri 01/14/11 05:15 PM
I do, I'm sure everyone does at times. But I know that all I have to do is have a bit of self control. Once I put my mind to it it wasn't that hard. I've lost 30 lbs since October. I don't want to be a stick by any means but I'd like to feel completely comfortable with myself.