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don't worry as much as just momiter .... your weight fluxuation is a good indication of your health and your health is the most important thing in your life. so I watch its changes regularly |
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Funny I've lost 15 lbs since I got rid of the ex, he musta been doing it wrong  I better stick with the gym 
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I know I need to lose weight....I'm 5'11" and 210lbs and have always been around 185lbs. I'm going on a diet for myself and no one else. The better I feel the better I live. I see some remarkable and inspiring stories here and you all should be proud 
I think you are correct. If you don't feel good about youself; then certainly drop the weight. When I can look in the mirror and feel good about myself then I truly will be happy but until then need to improve. |
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Some women lose weight for themselves, not for men. I lost 125 pounds due to the cancer diet and then I gained 30 pounds back. I have just started dieting about 2 months ago and I have lost 25 pounds again and I still am not finished. I am changing my lifestyle and I am feeling better about me. I don't have a boyfriend and I actually don't want one. My focus right now is on me and getting my health back and not worrying about men. So I say, IF you woman want to diet and live a healthy lifestyle...MORE POWER TO YOU!!!! I too am focusing on me and getting back to the "me" I know I am. I lost my confidence due to a draining unhealthy relationship and ended it before it completely wiped me out. I am not blaming anyone else but myself for losing focus but I am not going to beat myself up over it either. Life lesson learned and go on hopefully not to repeat again. I am going for an all around healthy lifestyle in food and love!!! Unsure...I love your attitude and strength 
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 Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on. 
Yes obviously I am insecure,  and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for.
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HA! With my ex I gained over a 100 pounds due to trucking and no excerize. I became ill due to the extra weight. He was happy with it, as no other man would look at me or comment to me. Now that I am single I lost 30 of it and hope to lose more. I feel a whole lot better. I walk 3 to 5 miles a day, I swim 3 times a week, I feel great!
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Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on.
Yes obviously I am insecure, and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for.
I am sorry that men have made you lose your confidence. They truly can be cruel as I have gone through the same thing with guys. They look at the models on TV or Mags and expect us to look like that. You are a beautiful lady and don't let any man tell you otherwise. As far as your body; take care of it for yourself to feel better about yourself and of course for your health. I exercise to feel better about myself and yes I watch what I eat but the occasional indulgence is good for the soul. Walk with your head held high and don't let any man ever make you feel bad about yourself as they simply are't worth it. |
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I have gained a lot of weight the last 17 mo. but because I had a bad knee and couldn't do much including barely walk or stand. After 2 surgerys (and a new knee) I am on my way to being healthy again.. I will be back in the gym asap and that helps me tremendously.. Besides that I have a new Harley in the garage waiting to be ridden..
Thats my big incentive!!
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I have gained a lot of weight the last 17 mo. but because I had a bad knee and couldn't do much including barely walk or stand. After 2 surgerys (and a new knee) I am on my way to being healthy again.. I will be back in the gym asap and that helps me tremendously.. Besides that I have a new Harley in the garage waiting to be ridden.. Thats my big incentive!!
I understand where you are coming from. Took me 4 years to recoup from my accident and I am doing well. Good luck to you in getting yourself back in shape. |
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i Hear so many times Ladys say i can't eat that its to fattening or i need to lose some weight don't you think? and i talking about some ladys that were even really thin worrying about that now me myself i love women that has something to hug i bet alot of guys would say the same thing you ladys worry way to much about weight but curious why??????? i mean in my books most look just great .i think ladys worry way to much:)so stop the worrying and know that us guys like you for you 
Not many guys think like you Cheer_up...is why alot become anorexic or obese...we all have to take care of our bodies no matter what size or weight and also not because of a guy. |
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Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on.
Yes obviously I am insecure, and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for.
I am sorry that men have made you lose your confidence. They truly can be cruel as I have gone through the same thing with guys. They look at the models on TV or Mags and expect us to look like that. You are a beautiful lady and don't let any man tell you otherwise. As far as your body; take care of it for yourself to feel better about yourself and of course for your health. I exercise to feel better about myself and yes I watch what I eat but the occasional indulgence is good for the soul. Walk with your head held high and don't let any man ever make you feel bad about yourself as they simply are't worth it. LOL I am not insecure about most things, its only looks, I know that I am loved for who I am, Its just that men often reject for the outside rather than the inside, hmmm sorry, maybe just the drop kicks I picked, my ex told me I wasnt pretty anymore and it seems to stick hard.
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Funny I've lost 15 lbs since I got rid of the ex, he musta been doing it wrong I better stick with the gym
hi there:)
haha cheer! U starting sexercise classes? I'll sign up & be sure to show up in fishnet stockings for you...  
Josie, be pickier girl..that's just mean for a man to say! You are lovely and don't let anyone let you think otherwise! Most of the guys I know are like cheer & think women that care for themselves are hot. They also know the girls that are 10s in the looks dept are generally crazy dramatic beeotches not worth investing time in!!! |
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Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on.
Yes obviously I am insecure, and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for.
I am sorry that men have made you lose your confidence. They truly can be cruel as I have gone through the same thing with guys. They look at the models on TV or Mags and expect us to look like that. You are a beautiful lady and don't let any man tell you otherwise. As far as your body; take care of it for yourself to feel better about yourself and of course for your health. I exercise to feel better about myself and yes I watch what I eat but the occasional indulgence is good for the soul. Walk with your head held high and don't let any man ever make you feel bad about yourself as they simply are't worth it. LOL I am not insecure about most things, its only looks, I know that I am loved for who I am, Its just that men often reject for the outside rather than the inside, hmmm sorry, maybe just the drop kicks I picked, my ex told me I wasnt pretty anymore and it seems to stick hard.
Men tell me that all the time that I am not as pretty as the girls they used to date. They expect models not real women. I don't give a crap if they don't think I am pretty; they are not worth my efforts anyways. |
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Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on.
Yes obviously I am insecure, and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for.
I am sorry that men have made you lose your confidence. They truly can be cruel as I have gone through the same thing with guys. They look at the models on TV or Mags and expect us to look like that. You are a beautiful lady and don't let any man tell you otherwise. As far as your body; take care of it for yourself to feel better about yourself and of course for your health. I exercise to feel better about myself and yes I watch what I eat but the occasional indulgence is good for the soul. Walk with your head held high and don't let any man ever make you feel bad about yourself as they simply are't worth it. LOL I am not insecure about most things, its only looks, I know that I am loved for who I am, Its just that men often reject for the outside rather than the inside, hmmm sorry, maybe just the drop kicks I picked, my ex told me I wasnt pretty anymore and it seems to stick hard.
Men tell me that all the time that I am not as pretty as the girls they used to date. They expect models not real women. I don't give a crap if they don't think I am pretty; they are not worth my efforts anyways. ...same here navy...I don't give a crap either... |
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Edited by
josie68
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Sun 12/12/10 03:18 PM
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Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on.
Yes obviously I am insecure, and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for.
I am sorry that men have made you lose your confidence. They truly can be cruel as I have gone through the same thing with guys. They look at the models on TV or Mags and expect us to look like that. You are a beautiful lady and don't let any man tell you otherwise. As far as your body; take care of it for yourself to feel better about yourself and of course for your health. I exercise to feel better about myself and yes I watch what I eat but the occasional indulgence is good for the soul. Walk with your head held high and don't let any man ever make you feel bad about yourself as they simply are't worth it. LOL I am not insecure about most things, its only looks, I know that I am loved for who I am, Its just that men often reject for the outside rather than the inside, hmmm sorry, maybe just the drop kicks I picked, my ex told me I wasnt pretty anymore and it seems to stick hard.
Men tell me that all the time that I am not as pretty as the girls they used to date. They expect models not real women. I don't give a crap if they don't think I am pretty; they are not worth my efforts anyways. ...same here navy...I don't give a crap either...
Well i wish i didnt care, but then I would be lying, because i jolly well do.  dumb I know
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Hmmmm Honestly, yes I dont like how I look and I definatley do not show my body, I wouldn't even have a body photo on here except I was asked to put it on.
Yes obviously I am insecure, and know it, I know that people like me for who I am inside but the outside gives me more trouble.
No I cannot relax and eat what I want, although I do eat what i like , just not lots of it. I have had two husbands play up on me and yes sadly that has left me short of confidence in the looks department. I dont even know who I do it for.
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I have gained a lot of weight the last 17 mo. but because I had a bad knee and couldn't do much including barely walk or stand. After 2 surgerys (and a new knee) I am on my way to being healthy again.. I will be back in the gym asap and that helps me tremendously.. Besides that I have a new Harley in the garage waiting to be ridden.. Thats my big incentive!!
I understand where you are coming from. Took me 4 years to recoup from my accident and I am doing well. Good luck to you in getting yourself back in shape. My daughter was in the Navy over 12 yrs.. She was gaining a lot of weight and finally had to get out because of it.. Come to find out she had a tumor on her pituitary gland that was causing her body to make tons more cortisol than usual.. After she had surgery to remove it her weight dropped a lot... |
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HA! With my ex I gained over a 100 pounds due to trucking and no excerize. I became ill due to the extra weight. He was happy with it, as no other man would look at me or comment to me. Now that I am single I lost 30 of it and hope to lose more. I feel a whole lot better. I walk 3 to 5 miles a day, I swim 3 times a week, I feel great! |
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Men tell me that all the time that I am not as pretty as the girls they used to date. They expect models not real women. I don't give a crap if they don't think I am pretty; they are not worth my efforts anyways. Men don't do that!   
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I have gained a lot of weight the last 17 mo. but because I had a bad knee and couldn't do much including barely walk or stand. After 2 surgerys (and a new knee) I am on my way to being healthy again.. I will be back in the gym asap and that helps me tremendously.. Besides that I have a new Harley in the garage waiting to be ridden.. Thats my big incentive!!
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