know matter how pissed u get just keep your cool
when your kids are around

always wear a condom, even if they make it a point to say, "Don't worry
about that I am on the pill." I love my son, don't get me wrong, but if
the person you are sleeping with is going to try to get pregnant despite
your wishes, you probably shouldn't be with them anyways.

im better off now that its over

I learned to watch better for signs of cheating. I feel I was over
trusting and I should have caught it much sooner. I knew I had not put a
hicky on her neck that one day but let it pass as she did bruise easy
and other out in your face signs. Also make sure the woman knows who she
is ahead of time. My ex announced she was bi sexual to me about a year
before she had her lesbian affair whom she left me for. She keeps saying
how much she loves me and how she wished I could have been happy sharing
her with her new lover. She said she had these feelings before we got
married so why did she not speak her mind back then and save me the
hurt/pain.

wait...

did you just say your ex wants to have a threesome with you and another
girl?

how old are you?

NOT TO GIVE MY HEART SO QUICKLY,LEARN 2 GIVE IT 2 THOSE WHO DESERVE IT
I HAVENT GOT TIME 4 THE PAIN

I am 34. No she does not want a 3some she wanted me to knowingly allow
her to stay with her girlfriend some night and then be my wife on other
nights as she saw fit. Hell no will I live like that. Her girlfriend is
a true man hater due to being molested as a child. There was never a
chance of a 3some with her. I did tell the ex when she told me she was
bi I would try a 3some if we found a willing stranger as I guess it is
something all men want to atleast try once.

I guess she was molested by a man? That is weird because alot of men
molested by men become gay, shoot alot of women molested by men become
strippers. I wonder if she was actually molested by a woman?

I learned alot of things from my first marriage, lets see if they hate
there mother then they will hate you to, if they are accusing you of
sleeping with every man in the world then they are sleeping around,
never trust friends that much they will sleep with your husband, they
will not change no matter how many times that they tell you they will,
how can a man call you a BiT$* and say that they love you. When you
leave this monster take half of the money and half of your stuff if not
he will take it and leave you with nothing at all. Know that you will
never get a dime of childsupport from this so called good daddy.
Oh yes and you will begin to hate sex because sleeping with a nasty mean
monster will turn you against it forever.
Here are just a few things that I have learned and there are more.

The ex's girlfriend was molested by her uncle. Her girlfriend can not
even watch a porno with a man in it as the ex loves pornos and rented a
couple from them one night. My ex still wants me to be her best friend
like any good husband should be and tells me way more than I want to
know and ask questions like how to please her girlfriend better orally
which I refuse to answer. I guess it could be worse.

I learned a new hustle....How to produce music....and when u leave make
sure u have ur house key...

i learned how to blame everyone else for my problems and when you leave,
be fair and take what's only yours.(lol)

lol that's funny...i took mine with me when i left in case i forgot
something cause i knew when i left them locks were changed ASAP.

that i give my heart to entirely and to freely I often give when i get
nothing in return and hurt myself in the process or set myself up to be
hurt

I learned that you can love someone even though they have faults. I
also learned that I like challenging relationships!

yeah but steve that's what you're supposed to do in a relationship so
you're fine it's just too bad that you are'nt finding the people who
also want to give all of there selves because i don't think a good
relationship can happen unless you do.....pain is a part of love or i
should say the process to finding love

that she is a con!!!

Communication is the KEY to a successful relationship, and I ought know,
I actually teach couples therapy.

that it is ok to let your guard down to let someone love you. that was
the first love. the second love taught me what i truly value in a
relationship and its trust and communication. i think with each
relationship you end up learning more about yourself rather than them.
i have a better idea of what it is i want out of a relationship.

i learned 2 b more carefull who i give my heart 2 and he also left me
with a problem im not sure i can let anyone in i have tried but i
always get scared and disappear in fear that it will never last. my x
husband and i grew up together till i was 16 then we started dating
then about ayr later he proposes and a yr after that we get married
and move to cali then we move back and he leaves me 4 a 200lb blond
bitch so i have big problems trustin guys