I don't know if this is the right place to go on about this but Mingle sent me a message a couple days ago saying that this man was interested in me. He lives maybe 35-40 miles north of me. His photo had him wide as he is tall and older than his years. But, hey! Life is short and maybe he's real funny and maybe he has a pony. So, I emailed him and once again NO WORD BACK! Now, he is going to have to BEG me to be his friend. Why, I....

If i was to say i wouldn't date a young woman, woman and men on this thing would say things like :oh thats a crock, we know better" Etc Etc Etc. Bla Bla Bla--- And they would be right---- Only thing is NO SEX!!! I'd have heart failure before we got in bed! The "NO SEX" would probably be fine with them---however when they found out i really didn't have all that money, There gone---

I know I am.

That's because basically people are insecure and find it easier to poke fun at others, rather than to take each person on their own merits. I prefer to treat others the way I would like to be treated. I know it sounds cliche but it works and whats not broken, doesn't need fixing.

Personally I prefer a mature, strong woman because I will always know exactly where I stand with her. Can't say enough about honesty and not insulting my intelligence, as I would strive to never insult yours. I need a woman more my age so I don't get lost while talking lol

Naaaa, I don't believe that. Maybe some are into the younger crowd but I don't think it's the majority.

All I ever remember was older women.

Hope they're good memories!

...and you're in California! I'll be right there!

I have found that a lot of younger men want older woman. I reply to their requests by asking if they have an uncle who is single.

Sure as long as it's not their EX! LOL

yep, seems the younger crowd has bought into the rumors about older women.
I have a 26 year old friend on here..I pass the youngsters on to her.

Has anyone ever replied back to you that they have an uncle?

You are so right, I have found that too!

I just turned 50. I am in great shape and full of energy, sexual and otherwise. My ex on the other hand started menopause and lost all interest. The reason I am seeking a younger gal has nothing to do with mid-life crisis, it's because I feel my energy level is on par with someone 10-15 years younger. I would date someone my age, but I would need to feel they were not "impaired" by menopause.

Menopause is a natural aging process....as with other processes it comes to an end....sooner for some, longer for others..
If you left your wife because she was going through menopause...that doesn't say much for you.....Maybe the menopause was just an excuse. Just my opinin of course. If more men wuld be understanding of mother natue, there would be less stress in a marriage. That young woman you are seeking will also go thru this process in time..what then? Another younger woman? How long can you keep this up? You will also age, maybe have High Blood Pressure, and some other things that will slow you down and maybe even have E.D...How are you going to feel when that younger woman starts looking for a younger more active man? I have been "impaired" as you so eloquently put it, and it's now over....so I do know what I'm talking about.

Facts are some women go the opposite of that. Not all women at this age are the same. Maybe you should read up on it.

OUCH, think I will stay OUT of this conversation.

wow, thats dedication... your getting strange honey, sorry your having a hard time...your impaired, I'm outta here.

I kind of like ladies with a little "imparement."


Did I say that, Lord. I will donate to that pygmy orphange in africa.

I have to agree with Vivian on this one. I was going to stay out of this but I can't keep quiet any longer, if your EX is looking to met someone that will treat her the way she should be treated there’s a few of us out here.
Now take it as a MAN and don't put her down just because she's going through menopause.

OK who are you and what did you do with Don?