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| Topic: Are there any 50+men who are truthfully interested in women | |
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I just turned 50. I am in great shape and full of energy, sexual and otherwise. My ex on the other hand started menopause and lost all interest. The reason I am seeking a younger gal has nothing to do with mid-life crisis, it's because I feel my energy level is on par with someone 10-15 years younger. I would date someone my age, but I would need to feel they were not "impaired" by menopause. Menopause is a natural aging process....as with other processes it comes to an end....sooner for some, longer for others.. If you left your wife because she was going through menopause...that doesn't say much for you.....Maybe the menopause was just an excuse. Just my opinin of course. If more men wuld be understanding of mother natue, there would be less stress in a marriage. That young woman you are seeking will also go thru this process in time..what then? Another younger woman? How long can you keep this up? You will also age, maybe have High Blood Pressure, and some other things that will slow you down and maybe even have E.D...How are you going to feel when that younger woman starts looking for a younger more active man? I have been "impaired" as you so eloquently put it, and it's now over....so I do know what I'm talking about. Now take it as a MAN and don't put her down just because she's going through menopause. maybe, just maybe the lack of understanding and compassion towards her "impairment" was the turn off that caused her to not be interested in sex with you..maybe was not the "impairment" at all. Worked as an out for ya though.. |
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OUCH, think I will stay OUT of this conversation.   
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OUCH, think I will stay OUT of this conversation.
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OUCH, think I will stay OUT of this conversation.
Yep!
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OUCH, think I will stay OUT of this conversation.
Yep!
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Edited by
SkyHook5652
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Sun 09/06/09 06:35 PM
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I have found that 50+ men are not interested in women their age. As Sage said, that is a bit of a generalization.
If a guy is only interested in "the only thing men are interested in", then it would stand to reason that he would be more interested in younger women. But I would have to also assume that he was inexperinced with older women in that area. In other words, more interested in the superficial "look and feel" than in the broader, more creative/sensual/esthetice/emotional factors that only older women can bring to the table (or bed, as the case may be.  )
But for me, I think I would have a hard time building a relationship with someone much younger. I mean, for us (the 50+'ers), the question "where were you when Kennedy was shot" has meaning as a topic of discussion. But how do you discuss that with someone whose parents had not even met when Kennedy was shot? So for me, although I am just as interested in "the only thing guys are interested in" as any other guy of any age, that's only a fraction of the time I would expect to spend with a mate. And although "the more the better" would definitely be a factor, still, the majority of the time I would expect to spend exploring/enjoying common interests together. And in my experience, as the age difference widens, so does the difference in the quality and quantity of common interests. Just my opinion. 
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"where were you when Kennedy was shot" I was three..so I was probably running around the back yard in my underwear... 
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I like women over 80--with lots of money and a bad heart!! I jump out of the closet and yell BOO!
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"where were you when Kennedy was shot" I was three..so I was probably running around the back yard in my underwear...
Just kidding of course 
You do realize though that you qualify as "a younger woman" here? 
------------------ This thread makes me think of something... I wonder if there is male equivalent for the colloquial term "cougar". "Dirty old man" maybe? What does that say about "double standards"? ------------------ Just ruminating.
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"where were you when Kennedy was shot" I was three..so I was probably running around the back yard in my underwear...
Just kidding of course
You do realize though that you qualify as "a younger woman" here?
------------------ This thread makes me think of something... I wonder if there is male equivalent for the colloquial term "cougar". "Dirty old man" maybe? What does that say about "double standards"? ------------------ Just ruminating.
I'll be 49 in a few weeks....that makes me on the older side of the youngsters...  I don't like those terms. I don't like the term
dirty old man, cougar, or milf... it generalizes everyone. |
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Well I am. A man who is not has a problem with his age. Which means he has no confidence. Now me I have enough for me without a doubt. But would love to meet a lady my age for a permanent relationship
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I don't like those terms. I don't like the term dirty old man, cougar, or milf... it generalizes everyone. Well I would agree that all of them can have derogatory connotations in certain circumstances. And that none of them would be appropriate in “polite company”. But I just see them as labels that, in the proper context, have meaning to those who use them and that those meanings are not necessarily always derogatory. I personally have seen and/or used all three in circumstances where the connotations were more akin to admiration and affinity than anything derogatory.
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Hi Steve missed you and your good sence around here.
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I just turned 50. I am in great shape and full of energy, sexual and otherwise. My ex on the other hand started menopause and lost all interest. The reason I am seeking a younger gal has nothing to do with mid-life crisis, it's because I feel my energy level is on par with someone 10-15 years younger. I would date someone my age, but I would need to feel they were not "impaired" by menopause. Isn't it funny when someone drops a bomb like that and then they see the mob coming with a rope and they're G O N E ! ? 
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I'm 52 and it doesn't matter what age a woman is as long as they keep an open mind. Now if Menopause has taken away the "URGE" just don't shut the door on new ideas. Black Cohosh, maybe HRT therapy, and definetly think about getting a Vibrator. And use it.
Don't just throw out all ideas and split. Steve |
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Ask Musichic, about "good" supplements, she has had amazing results.
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Edited by
Doxieluver
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Fri 09/11/09 07:18 AM
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I hope so because at age 51 that's what i'm looking for. I get creeped out when guys under 45 try to match with me. I going out on a first date tonight with a guy my age that I met on another site so hopefully the age thing will not be an issue. I like talking with someone that grew up in the late 60's early 70's like I did. Have a nice day!
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mmmmmmmm male menopause
I can't wait to get a motorcycle I couldn't imagine dating a girl younger than 40 or so. They never shut up and would drive me crazy |
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Seems the site is full of "generalizations", tonite. Wonder why people pass judgements before meeting people? Just doesn't make sense to me. That's because basically people are insecure and find it easier to poke fun at others, rather than to take each person on their own merits. I prefer to treat others the way I would like to be treated. I know it sounds cliche but it works and whats not broken, doesn't need fixing. Personally I prefer a mature, strong woman because I will always know exactly where I stand with her. Can't say enough about honesty and not insulting my intelligence, as I would strive to never insult yours. I need a woman more my age so I don't get lost while talking lol You are so "right on" !! |
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I just turned 50. I am in great shape and full of energy, sexual and otherwise. My ex on the other hand started menopause and lost all interest. The reason I am seeking a younger gal has nothing to do with mid-life crisis, it's because I feel my energy level is on par with someone 10-15 years younger. I would date someone my age, but I would need to feel they were not "impaired" by menopause. Menopause is a natural aging process....as with other processes it comes to an end....sooner for some, longer for others.. If you left your wife because she was going through menopause...that doesn't say much for you.....Maybe the menopause was just an excuse. Just my opinin of course. If more men wuld be understanding of mother natue, there would be less stress in a marriage. That young woman you are seeking will also go thru this process in time..what then? Another younger woman? How long can you keep this up? You will also age, maybe have High Blood Pressure, and some other things that will slow you down and maybe even have E.D...How are you going to feel when that younger woman starts looking for a younger more active man? I have been "impaired" as you so eloquently put it, and it's now over....so I do know what I'm talking about. Now take it as a MAN and don't put her down just because she's going through menopause. maybe, just maybe the lack of understanding and compassion towards her "impairment" was the turn off that caused her to not be interested in sex with you..maybe was not the "impairment" at all. Worked as an out for ya though.. I have been told, that for alot of women, their husbands had become very complacent. They didn't do the special things for their ladies anymore, and the men always found fault with them but then expected the ladies to be interested in the bedroom. Believe me, not all women who are going thru menopause lose interest. Could be, you believing yourself to be so much more special than her is what made her lose interest. Enjoy trying to find the right woman, who has your energy, without your impairments. |
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