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I think it went out with the marrage lasting forever it is terribly to not even have that any more.. the happily ever after with marriage I mean... total bummer i don't believe at all that a man who does this is a loser nice guy... if anything it shows he has respect and morals... hell... i know what he means though but.. i want a man kick it with watching a game with a few buckets of beer... in my jeans and heels... wearing a ponytail and wing sauce on my face... with him being rowdy with the boys and scratching his twins... all while still opening my doors, picking me up and being a gentleman as well... that is me though.. im weird its all i ask for |
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It's just a drive thru as I keep saying. And, it's disgusting.
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so?
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Tue 12/23/08 12:22 PM
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What ever happened to courtship? Where did it go? To this who forgot what it means, Ha ha.... This was the process where the man expressed an interest in the pretty lady and sought her attentions by taking her to movies, walking her home from school/beach/dinner/shows, escorting her to the dance/parites, buying her dinner/lunch, etc., WITHOUT repeast WITHOUT seeking any sexual favors from her. Are men not interested in doing so anymore? Are women not interested in a man who will do such a thing? Ah, see, I thought it was most men who weren't interested in doing any of those things. i and many on here, will do these things, "if" someone will appreaciate it, but we have to change with the needs somewhat, so you'll have to ask your prospect if they will, lol. i however, will not ever take on a mate now. too much to do, and they'll grt in my way.......it's funny, when you don't want it, or are hooked up, they come out of the wood work.....what the f is that all about? are you telling us, you like married men? or men that don't want you? like i said, you like men that are an impossible challenge, and you'll stick around for the adventure or sex, not sure..... |
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What ever happened to courtship? Where did it go? To this who forgot what it means, Ha ha.... This was the process where the man expressed an interest in the pretty lady and sought her attentions by taking her to movies, walking her home from school/beach/dinner/shows, escorting her to the dance/parites, buying her dinner/lunch, etc., WITHOUT repeast WITHOUT seeking any sexual favors from her. Are men not interested in doing so anymore? Are women not interested in a man who will do such a thing? Ah, see, I thought it was most men who weren't interested in doing any of those things. i and many on here, will do these things, "if" someone will appreaciate it, but we have to change with the needs somewhat, so you'll have to ask your prospect if they will, lol. i however, will not ever take on a mate now. too much to do, and they'll grt in my way.......it's funny, when you don't want it, or are hooked up, they come out of the wood work.....what the f is that all about? are you telling us, you like married men? or men that don't want you? How do you decide if someone will appreciate it? Don't you have to try to see if they will? Or, do you just assume that certain people will or won't? |
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? |
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? |
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times are changing, and not for the better, it seems, and everyone expects......... and because of fear of getting hurt, or just plain selfishness, those values will only be coveted by those who have the stoutest of hearts, via, who wants to look like a sap, and a puzzywhip, for that's how the majority of women precieve it now, and the don't covet it, they take advantage, then see vulnerability, then crush it. i see it time and time again here. most, not all, even still, want bad boys, and it's getting worse, for that seems to be the trend growing at an exponential rate i guess you could say, it's stimulating, and always changing, for the badboy cares little, and the girl will follow....tuduloo, lol. |
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it's really sad. so many men pretend to be the "nice guy" just to end up in your pants... a real wolf-in-sheep's-clothing trick. It makes women suspicious of all the sincerely nice guys! It took me months to believe that my last ex was actually being nice and wasn't just seeking sexual favors. He's still a nice guy, he's just an incredibly busy nice guy, hence the "ex" factor. It makes it difficult to let him go. Once you find a good man, you hold on to him for dear life, even when you aren't necessarily compatible; agreed ladies?
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What ever happened to courtship? Where did it go? To this who forgot what it means, Ha ha.... This was the process where the man expressed an interest in the pretty lady and sought her attentions by taking her to movies, walking her home from school/beach/dinner/shows, escorting her to the dance/parites, buying her dinner/lunch, etc., WITHOUT repeast WITHOUT seeking any sexual favors from her. Are men not interested in doing so anymore? Are women not interested in a man who will do such a thing? Ah, see, I thought it was most men who weren't interested in doing any of those things. i and many on here, will do these things, "if" someone will appreaciate it, but we have to change with the needs somewhat, so you'll have to ask your prospect if they will, lol. i however, will not ever take on a mate now. too much to do, and they'll grt in my way.......it's funny, when you don't want it, or are hooked up, they come out of the wood work.....what the f is that all about? are you telling us, you like married men? or men that don't want you? How do you decide if someone will appreciate it? Don't you have to try to see if they will? Or, do you just assume that certain people will or won't? i just said, you gotta ask....... the right man will let you know, truthfully. you'll feel it in his trembling kiss. he'll worship the ground you walk on....until he's crushed again. lol. |
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? By who? |
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What ever happened to courtship? Where did it go? To this who forgot what it means, Ha ha.... This was the process where the man expressed an interest in the pretty lady and sought her attentions by taking her to movies, walking her home from school/beach/dinner/shows, escorting her to the dance/parites, buying her dinner/lunch, etc., WITHOUT repeast WITHOUT seeking any sexual favors from her. Are men not interested in doing so anymore? Are women not interested in a man who will do such a thing? Ah, see, I thought it was most men who weren't interested in doing any of those things. i and many on here, will do these things, "if" someone will appreaciate it, but we have to change with the needs somewhat, so you'll have to ask your prospect if they will, lol. i however, will not ever take on a mate now. too much to do, and they'll grt in my way.......it's funny, when you don't want it, or are hooked up, they come out of the wood work.....what the f is that all about? are you telling us, you like married men? or men that don't want you? How do you decide if someone will appreciate it? Don't you have to try to see if they will? Or, do you just assume that certain people will or won't? i just said, you gotta ask....... the right man will let you know, truthfully. you'll feel it in his trembling kiss. he'll worship the ground you walk on....until he's crushed again. lol. No, I'm not asking how to find out for myself. I'm asking how you decide who to do those things for and who not to. |
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times are changing, and not for the better, it seems, and everyone expects......... and because of fear of getting hurt, or just plain selfishness, those values will only be coveted by those who have the stoutest of hearts, via, who wants to look like a sap, and a puzzywhip, for that's how the majority of women precieve it now, and the don't covet it, they take advantage, then see vulnerability, then crush it. i see it time and time again here. most, not all, even still, want bad boys, and it's getting worse, for that seems to be the trend growing at an exponential rate i guess you could say, it's stimulating, and always changing, for the badboy cares little, and the girl will follow....tuduloo, lol. sure, strength is in the soul, and the giving side is only vulnerable, and will lead you to true wisdom, depending on what it is, but if we get sided, instead of reflective, we show that ego that reverts to show pain, and lash-out, not the strength of the chi,,(lifeforce) which is much stronger. |
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it's really sad. so many men pretend to be the "nice guy" just to end up in your pants... a real wolf-in-sheep's-clothing trick. It makes women suspicious of all the sincerely nice guys! It took me months to believe that my last ex was actually being nice and wasn't just seeking sexual favors. He's still a nice guy, he's just an incredibly busy nice guy, hence the "ex" factor. It makes it difficult to let him go. Once you find a good man, you hold on to him for dear life, even when you aren't necessarily compatible; agreed ladies? I can relate on this so much. I also must say that no matter how nice someone is, if you're not compatible its unfair to both parties to hang on. I have been there though, the wolves in sheep's clothing can be really sneaky too. They'll even be somewhat patient with ya until they get what they want... then they're gone. |
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? By who? |
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? By who? and what do you have to back this claim up... i believe you to be totally wrong about how you see society viewing a househubby |
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? I've said that so much lately. The women's lib movement killed marriages everywhere. I dont' think we should be in caveman days, but I would love for a man to open a door without shaking like a leaf... or using it as a ploy to get in ur pants... |
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some peoples say Women killed chilvary, is this true? if it is, how so? By who? and what do you have to back this claim up... i believe you to be totally wrong about how you see society viewing a househubby I also believe he's wrong. So, perhaps he has a different society he's talking about . |
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What ever happened to courtship? Where did it go? To this who forgot what it means, Ha ha.... This was the process where the man expressed an interest in the pretty lady and sought her attentions by taking her to movies, walking her home from school/beach/dinner/shows, escorting her to the dance/parites, buying her dinner/lunch, etc., WITHOUT repeast WITHOUT seeking any sexual favors from her. Are men not interested in doing so anymore? Are women not interested in a man who will do such a thing? Ah, see, I thought it was most men who weren't interested in doing any of those things. i and many on here, will do these things, "if" someone will appreaciate it, but we have to change with the needs somewhat, so you'll have to ask your prospect if they will, lol. i however, will not ever take on a mate now. too much to do, and they'll grt in my way.......it's funny, when you don't want it, or are hooked up, they come out of the wood work.....what the f is that all about? are you telling us, you like married men? or men that don't want you? How do you decide if someone will appreciate it? Don't you have to try to see if they will? Or, do you just assume that certain people will or won't? i just said, you gotta ask....... the right man will let you know, truthfully. you'll feel it in his trembling kiss. he'll worship the ground you walk on....until he's crushed again. lol. |
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