Getting one started. Fear. As soon as I meet a guy..it is so imformation overload...crazy and non stop. I run! I would like to meet a guy that is not in a hurry. Smile with me, laugh with me and enjoy my company. Quit making it like a interview to invade my every personal space. Relationships evolve..they don't need to be decided on in thirty minutes over numerous question and answer games. When I meet you I have a pretty good idea..we all do...but then the invasion takes over and I am a private person and it freaks me out...just chill out! All this crap about the past is who we are..a little wounded, a bit shy..but when feeling comfortable..the nicest most compass ionate person you will ever meet...we just don't get that far...lol!