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Topic: What do you think of Gay Marriage ?
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Thu 10/16/08 01:44 PM




Schools shouldn't be teaching it at all. Gay and gay marriage is a religious issue. Schools shouldn't get involved in religious issues.


how about when a toronto high school teacher was beaten to death, by toronto high school students for the sole reason his being a gay man?

how about when adolescents are questioning their own sexual identities and may have discovered that they are gay and/or lesbian and are depressed and/or agonizing?

isn't it the duty of the school to ensure that all students are treated equally, fairly, without contempt and to help instill in them a great sense of self-esteem, value and worth?



Yes, it's the duty of the school to make sure these kids are safe. However, it is not the duty of the school to tell my son or daughter that "gay marriage" is ok. What really matters is what these kids are being taught at home.


Schools aren't going to say it ok, but just that it exists... what about those children that have same sex parents that feel like they are different because they dont have a mom or a dad... why is it wrong to explain that someone parents are the same sex. Why inform children about what is out in the world? Instead to completely sheltering them. My son is exposed to a long of things within his comprehension. He goes to my BGLAS (bisexuals, gays, lesbians, and allies in social work) meetings, where he is around individual of different orientations. Social issues are discussed. Why can't children be given all the information?


Well...you only want your kid to have your point of view ?
If he's smart....he's figure out what you don't want him to know and resent you later.


From what it sounds like, she wants her child to be well informed. Not just know one point of view.

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Thu 10/16/08 01:45 PM
yes...me too....except that celibate part..ohwell


A close female friend of mine's mother told me, that if her daughter is still unmarried at 40... I have to marry her..noway laugh laugh

And I am starting to think a celibate partnership with a woman is looking pretty good.:wink:

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Thu 10/16/08 01:46 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Thu 10/16/08 01:48 PM
As a mother of four amazing kids, all I want for them in their romantic relationships, is to be respected,admired, and loved for the Who of them....irrespective of the gender of their partner.


I suspect if most people laid aside their prejudices, it is what they would want for their children too.

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Thu 10/16/08 01:47 PM

yes...me too....except that celibate part..ohwell


A close female friend of mine's mother told me, that if her daughter is still unmarried at 40... I have to marry her..noway laugh laugh

And I am starting to think a celibate partnership with a woman is looking pretty good.:wink:

laugh I have no problem being a non practicing lesbian

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Thu 10/16/08 01:51 PM
gay marriage is an abomination to god, although im no diffrent than the next sinner... i dont agree with it and i defo wouldnt recommend it but i would treat those kinds of people with the same humanly respect that i would anyone else.... but i wouldnt hang out with someone whos gay it just goese against what i believe, just like i wouldnt hang out with a drug addict, i dont agree with the lifestyle at all nor do i trust em....lol

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Thu 10/16/08 01:52 PM

gay marriage is an abomination to god, although im no diffrent than the next sinner... i dont agree with it and i defo wouldnt recommend it but i would treat those kinds of people with the same humanly respect that i would anyone else.... but i wouldnt hang out with someone whos gay it just goese against what i believe, just like i wouldnt hang out with a drug addict, i dont agree with the lifestyle at all nor do i trust em....lol


You wouldn't hang out with someone who is gay, just like you wouldn't hang out with a drug user? Wow.

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Thu 10/16/08 01:53 PM

gay marriage is an abomination to god, although im no diffrent than the next sinner... i dont agree with it and i defo wouldnt recommend it but i would treat those kinds of people with the same humanly respect that i would anyone else.... but i wouldnt hang out with someone whos gay it just goese against what i believe, just like i wouldnt hang out with a drug addict, i dont agree with the lifestyle at all nor do i trust em....lol


Are you a virgin?

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Thu 10/16/08 01:54 PM

gay marriage is an abomination to god, although im no diffrent than the next sinner... i dont agree with it and i defo wouldnt recommend it but i would treat those kinds of people with the same humanly respect that i would anyone else.... but i wouldnt hang out with someone whos gay it just goese against what i believe, just like i wouldnt hang out with a drug addict, i dont agree with the lifestyle at all nor do i trust em....lol


guess what dude, you could be sitting next to someone that is gay in church, you could be served at a restaurant by someone who is bi-sexual, you could be purchasing products by a 'gay' owned company.... get over it! They are people.... would you not hang out with someone that was asian because you don't agree with their family traditions?

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Thu 10/16/08 01:56 PM
whoa frustrated noway tongue2 rofl

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Thu 10/16/08 01:56 PM
Edited by papersmile on Thu 10/16/08 01:58 PM

gay marriage is an abomination to god, although im no diffrent than the next sinner... i dont agree with it and i defo wouldnt recommend it but i would treat those kinds of people with the same humanly respect that i would anyone else.... but i wouldnt hang out with someone whos gay it just goese against what i believe, just like i wouldnt hang out with a drug addict, i dont agree with the lifestyle at all nor do i trust em....lol


are you naked from the waist down?

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Thu 10/16/08 01:56 PM


gay marriage is an abomination to god, although im no diffrent than the next sinner... i dont agree with it and i defo wouldnt recommend it but i would treat those kinds of people with the same humanly respect that i would anyone else.... but i wouldnt hang out with someone whos gay it just goese against what i believe, just like i wouldnt hang out with a drug addict, i dont agree with the lifestyle at all nor do i trust em....lol


are you naked from the waist down?


What a gay picture, righ?

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Thu 10/16/08 01:57 PM
C'mon... give the homophobic kid a break... he still plays with red crayons for gawd's sake.:wink: devil

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Thu 10/16/08 01:57 PM
hey hey now! no personal attacks guys! keep it clean regardless of how much someone makes us upset!

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Thu 10/16/08 01:58 PM
My feeling is that marriage is both a religious and social institution that if it fits into the choices that two consenting adults want to promise to each other and the greater society it should be their bussiness and nobody elses.

Nobody made that choice for me when I picked my partner and I clearly do not see how I have that right to discriminate against anywone else wheather it be race, creed, nationality, mental ability, physical condition, or gender identification.

I believe thoughtful formal commitment to another is in the best interest of society in most relationships. It clearly defines the relationship; it's rights, responsibilities, and boundries. That it clearly honors, protects, and bonds families is my major reason to support it whole heartedly regardless if it "fits" my exact definition of the institution. I can think of nothing worse than telling someone who my child loves and loves them that I would not allow them the same privileges that I or their siblings enjoy. I don't believe in specific or second class definitions just because they don't exactly fit my own.

I think trying to put a gender identification on a term so that marriage means supposedly straight people and union means homosexual is trying to segregate and is definitely not ever going to be equal in anyones mind. I think reserving the marriage term for hetero sexual relationships is eleitest even if that isn't the intention. I also think there is a little bit of homophobia that straight married couples do not want to be associated in something that Gay people do. That few people strictly have a defined example of marriage makes all of this fuss interesting to me. Are we suddenly going to require all heterosexual couples to declare their sexual patterns as a subset of the definition of marriage. Will licenses say traditional, temporary, swinger ect.? I can remember a time when inter-racial couples were not thought to be capeable of the "traditional" definition of marriage and people have come to think differently. I see every day when people question wheather people with disabilities have a traditional marriage?

If Christian marriage is suppose to be the reflection of Christ's love in a partnership I don't remember it being specificlly defind by God or his appointed emmasaries as being gender specific; one man one woman. It is not addressed in the commandments or any words attributed to Christ to my knowlege but then I can not retain the entirity of the Bible as we know it. I will add I don't see the King James version interpretation as the absolute facts. Given that era's definition of marriage I am surprised the term survives at all today.

As far as what will be taught in schools I hate to break it too you but homosexual relationships have been being taught in schools for as long as recorded history. Just because something is taught in school does not mean it is fact or believed. Teaching your child your beliefs will always be the parents job. Teachers teach the common mores of society and their own views and nothing more or nothing less.

Churches or clergy can not be forced to perform marriages they do not endorse. Churches are private communities of voluntary memberships structured under the greater community of the faith. Some faiths preclude certain practices but they have not been forced to endorse marriages that do not support their definition of faith. Example; If I am divorced I can not marry in the Catholic Church without permition of the Pope not the State and I can't sue anyone for that. Makeing something a constituional right does not make it a practice of faith. When you are married by a minister you are not married in the eyes of the state unless you get a license.

It will be interesting to see how the election here in California turns out. There is a great deal of out of state money being spent to push forward view points that I don't necessarily believe are Californian's view points. There are a lot of people here who are not registered voters who still influence the electorate if not the judiciary.

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Thu 10/16/08 02:03 PM

gay marriage is an abomination to god, although im no diffrent than the next sinner... i dont agree with it and i defo wouldnt recommend it but i would treat those kinds of people with the same humanly respect that i would anyone else.... but i wouldnt hang out with someone whos gay it just goese against what i believe, just like i wouldnt hang out with a drug addict, i dont agree with the lifestyle at all nor do i trust em....lol
laugh laugh that was so wrong it actually made me laugh. Good luck to ya sinner laugh

Tromette's photo
Thu 10/16/08 02:03 PM

hey hey now! no personal attacks guys! keep it clean regardless of how much someone makes us upset!


But there's nothing wrong with being gay! So, technically, it wasn't really an attack at all.

crayonredd's photo
Thu 10/16/08 02:04 PM

hey hey now! no personal attacks guys! keep it clean regardless of how much someone makes us upset!


hella funny, i love getting this kind of re-action and it goese to show you how socially acceptable things are these days... and for some of your comments i already answered them... i wouldnt care if a gay person served me at a resturaunt, i would say hi to a gauy person, i give hugs all the time to people at NA meetings who are gay... you guys took me all wrong... and you guys dont know my situation. and im not getting into it. all i can tell you is i dont hang out with them... is that so hard to understand... its funny that it makes you all so mad it makes me smile and sit back and realize how immature this world really is... hate me if you will i just think im misunderstood, you guys heard me wrong

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Thu 10/16/08 02:04 PM


hey hey now! no personal attacks guys! keep it clean regardless of how much someone makes us upset!


But there's nothing wrong with being gay! So, technically, it wasn't really an attack at all.


I was talking about those that jumped on red crayon or whatever his name is.

blackxbird's photo
Thu 10/16/08 02:05 PM

My feeling is that marriage is both a religious and social institution that if it fits into the choices that two consenting adults want to promise to each other and the greater society it should be their bussiness and nobody elses.

Nobody made that choice for me when I picked my partner and I clearly do not see how I have that right to discriminate against anywone else wheather it be race, creed, nationality, mental ability, physical condition, or gender identification.

I believe thoughtful formal commitment to another is in the best interest of society in most relationships. It clearly defines the relationship; it's rights, responsibilities, and boundries. That it clearly honors, protects, and bonds families is my major reason to support it whole heartedly regardless if it "fits" my exact definition of the institution. I can think of nothing worse than telling someone who my child loves and loves them that I would not allow them the same privileges that I or their siblings enjoy. I don't believe in specific or second class definitions just because they don't exactly fit my own.

I think trying to put a gender identification on a term so that marriage means supposedly straight people and union means homosexual is trying to segregate and is definitely not ever going to be equal in anyones mind. I think reserving the marriage term for hetero sexual relationships is eleitest even if that isn't the intention. I also think there is a little bit of homophobia that straight married couples do not want to be associated in something that Gay people do. That few people strictly have a defined example of marriage makes all of this fuss interesting to me. Are we suddenly going to require all heterosexual couples to declare their sexual patterns as a subset of the definition of marriage. Will licenses say traditional, temporary, swinger ect.? I can remember a time when inter-racial couples were not thought to be capeable of the "traditional" definition of marriage and people have come to think differently. I see every day when people question wheather people with disabilities have a traditional marriage?

If Christian marriage is suppose to be the reflection of Christ's love in a partnership I don't remember it being specificlly defind by God or his appointed emmasaries as being gender specific; one man one woman. It is not addressed in the commandments or any words attributed to Christ to my knowlege but then I can not retain the entirity of the Bible as we know it. I will add I don't see the King James version interpretation as the absolute facts. Given that era's definition of marriage I am surprised the term survives at all today.

As far as what will be taught in schools I hate to break it too you but homosexual relationships have been being taught in schools for as long as recorded history. Just because something is taught in school does not mean it is fact or believed. Teaching your child your beliefs will always be the parents job. Teachers teach the common mores of society and their own views and nothing more or nothing less.

Churches or clergy can not be forced to perform marriages they do not endorse. Churches are private communities of voluntary memberships structured under the greater community of the faith. Some faiths preclude certain practices but they have not been forced to endorse marriages that do not support their definition of faith. Example; If I am divorced I can not marry in the Catholic Church without permition of the Pope not the State and I can't sue anyone for that. Makeing something a constituional right does not make it a practice of faith. When you are married by a minister you are not married in the eyes of the state unless you get a license.

It will be interesting to see how the election here in California turns out. There is a great deal of out of state money being spent to push forward view points that I don't necessarily believe are Californian's view points. There are a lot of people here who are not registered voters who still influence the electorate if not the judiciary.


:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Thu 10/16/08 02:05 PM


hey hey now! no personal attacks guys! keep it clean regardless of how much someone makes us upset!


hella funny, i love getting this kind of re-action and it goese to show you how socially acceptable things are these days... and for some of your comments i already answered them... i wouldnt care if a gay person served me at a resturaunt, i would say hi to a gauy person, i give hugs all the time to people at NA meetings who are gay... you guys took me all wrong... and you guys dont know my situation. and im not getting into it. all i can tell you is i dont hang out with them... is that so hard to understand... its funny that it makes you all so mad it makes me smile and sit back and realize how immature this world really is... hate me if you will i just think im misunderstood, you guys heard me wrong
no one hates you... well I certainly don't. If you don't wanna hang out with someone, that's cool. I give you props for at least agreeings that they deserve the same human rights as everyone else.

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