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Relationships and settling. 
No, it really is about being happy with you and how you define a partner, as a want or a need. My needs, well, they might overlap but my wants are non negotiable in terms of standards. My needs... ugh. Okay they can't really be lowered either. Bad sex is such a waste of time. Bad food is a waste of time too. Lover better cook good in the kitchen, and be naked when doing so. |
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I'd rather sleep until they wake me up with food already cooked, served on that breakfast in bed tray. Then I can set it on the floor for round two. Three? But again, that is just a want. In regards to my needs.
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Okay. I also want, at halftime of the football game, to have my woman come out in a cheerleader uniform.
And if you have seen History of Violence, then you know how sexy this can be. |
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i agree they are so many people think theres a soulmate out there!!! i think no1 can handle any1 but themselves!!! LOL
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I had a fantastic conversation with a member about this last night, and I was shocked and thrilled we both agreed on this. I hear so much crap about 50/50, soulmates, being lonely, feeling complete, blah blah... I do not need anyone in my life. I am quite independent and capable of either doing for myself or finding a resource who can. I do not believe soulmates exist. I can not be completed by anyone. I am whole, I am in no need of completing. I believe a relationship is 100/100 and that a partner enriches and compliments my life. A person who invigorates my mind, body, and spirit, and I theirs. I want a relationship, and therefore would never take it for granted or become complacent. I'd never settle just to have someone. Anyone agree or disagree? I totally agree with you, but that doesn't mean I don't believe in soul mates. I am whole, complete in myself.........but that doesn't mean my family is whole and complete when I am not there. I do not believe a "soul mate" is a romantic thing, though it can be. I feel that I have a few "soul friends" who I identify with.....whom though I have known for lil time it feels as if they have always been a part of my life..... A soul mate to me, is exactly that. Someone who truly understands you, maybe not completely, but intimately. Someone you can relate to, and can relate to you. Someone who you have always known.......even if not in a physical sense...but anyhoo. |
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