Madam!!! Fantastical to see you. Yes, you did and I also have the WWF on the DVR for you to watch withour BFF's....and I copied a copy to VHS to watch on the VCR if the dish goes out.... when are you coming over?

I definately agree. I spen the entire summer needing one and got no where. But I've come to terms with it, and wanting one makes things much easier for me and my date.

I think I agree... I don't know since we disagree on everything else.

Ok. I agree soulmates don't exist.
If the guy admits she is the only one for me or we are made for each other.... than later later later down the line this belief can create problems for not working on the relationship. IN my opinion, The soulmate belief goes hand in hand with the Fairy Tale belief that everything will be alright if we just LOVE each other and Happily ever after because it is Deemed.. or written in the Stars. But in reality, there is a lot of work and compromises and swallowing Pride (no pun intended) to make a relationship work. Like your Parents and sibling are the closest to your upbring and more than likely think the same way and behavior in similar ways and of course no one here really wants to live with them for more then a week before going crazy. Also, it is based on selfish reasoning that "I am Happy" in which Fairy Tale land everyone is "Happy" all the time and free from drama. Once the fairy tale Happy land ends... divorce.

I agree.... I would have to say most people dont need a relationship as much as we want one.... We as humans need thing to survive in life such as food water shelter etc. but to go as far as saying we need a relationship i think is going a bit far!!!!, I think we want relationships because its nice to have someone special in your life other then family and friends.

Good for those who can be alone!!!!!!

agree

Good morning trouble!!!!

SVI... I knew sooner or later we'd agree on something!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know about this part.

"I cannot be completed by anyone".
A life partner (not that kind of partner.. hehe) is suppose to complete you, according to the Bible.
I don't know why or the exact reasons behind it, but I would have to go with the wisdom of God & Bible. (I'm preaching watch out) Adam was alone when he was with God. Adam was complete when he was with Eve.

Now, in the secular book I read, David Deida states The Masculine completes the Feminine and vice verser... because they are opposites of each other like the North pole (no pun intended again.. HAHA) and the South pole... sexual energy is created from the arc of magnetism. The Feminine dances with life and flow of energy, The masculine is stiff and unbenting... they complete each other. Conflict and Drama is as much as a part of life as harmony in relationship... they are the spicy ingredient of life.


But than again, I have seen 70 year old Monks without a wrinkle on his face... years of stress free woman less living. He seems complete. HAHA.

SVI I find it interesting you disagree only because of what the Bible says. I'd have had respect for your response if it came from you and not what you think you ought to believe. Just saying...

re: Adam

he did not need Eve, he wanted companionship

jmo

(edited my own joke to not get the righteous to attack me )

HAHA... I ought to believe Marriage is forever, too.
What I believe about "Truths"?

When you were a Child you believe certain things.
Than when you were a Teenager you know everything and believe differently.
Than when you got married you believe in another way.
Than another life changing event or time you believe in another way.

I am a human being. I make mistake. I am not a constant throughout time.
I cannot trust myself on my opinion today, because if I am to keep growing, I have to be willing to accept I am wrong today and yesterday.
The Bible is constant... I may not understand it, but I just believe in it... Take it on Faith, is the only way I can describe it.


I didn't only quote the Bible to you.
I also got Psychology stuff and Secular writers that believes a man and a woman completes each other. David Deida uses Masculine and Feminine because it can be use for guy-guy and girl-girl models. I had a bride to be Lesbian agreeing to this... incidentally, one is dressed as bride and the other as a groom.

Yeah, but you brought the other stuff in to buff up your statement that it was about the bible as you corrected guesstimated I am not at all religious. C'mon, be honest. I'll buy you a coke?

"Stone Her!!!" ****throws a stone at Franshade...

catches stone, now what?

Totally, implicitly, absolutely agree with you. Here here, well said. In fact, I simply enjoy a man's company from time to time and in no way does it need to go any further than that. I have no agendas, nor expectations.

WEll, My first thought was the Bible, when you used the word "complete". That is such a trigger word for me.

Yes, I am a Christian. The other stuff was information I read that answered the question "Why". I don't believe anything I say base out of the Bible would have anything meaningful to most people or you... it is my journey... my path that I choose to take. However, the other stuff is things I found along the way that does have meaning to most non-Christians (but not to the Christians, you would have to do Bible talk like Bush).


Ok... now where is my coke?

His wife had been killed in an accident and the police were questioning Finnegan. "Did she say anything before she died?" asked the sergeant. "She spoke without interruption for about forty years," said the Irishman.

You have a photo of the lady with the scales of justice there I see.

I thought you weren't allowed to have soda?