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Oh come on yall don't yall think yall being just a little hard on him. We don't know what this boy going threw with his mom. He came here to seek help. And what type of help is yall giving him? Just to put him down. Boo here is a # 4 u call it 18007921355 is that the jobline? No, it's actually something called Turning Point, a Christian counseling sort of thing I guess you could call it. I actually thought it was her number when I called it lol. |
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monster.com..... a great place to find a job but if u have no skills id say go out for a day walk around pick up applications and instead of getting on computer fill out applications then go on another outing same route and turn them in.... introduce yourself to managers shake their hands and turn in applications to them<the ones who hire> if at all possible...
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Oh come on yall don't yall think yall being just a little hard on him. We don't know what this boy going threw with his mom. He came here to seek help. And what type of help is yall giving him? Just to put him down. Boo here is a # 4 u call it 18007921355 is that the jobline? No, it's actually something called Turning Point, a Christian counseling sort of thing I guess you could call it. I actually thought it was her number when I called it lol. |
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im not blaming him...... i think its a failed parent issue..... thats what ive been saying all along.... but now... hes got to do something for hisself....
and nice new pic finally seahawk 
They don't, heck my grandma still gets uptight about me using the bus. The other day was gonna bus to meet my dad somewhere en route to a funeral, but she insisted on driving me there herself. 1 of 2 choices you can make here. 1; Walk out one day without telling anyone where you are going, come back when you want; or 2; keep letting them baby you. You know it's funny, I did this one morning recently. I was the only one up, at around 7:30 or so I want to say. We didn't have any cereal or anything, so I decided to go ahead and walk up to the store and get some, among other things. I left the front door unlocked, so I could get back in the house. I figured it wasn't a big thing, as there were people home and such. In hindsight, I probably should have taken a key but I digress.... In any case, I come back and they're all upset that I didn't tell them, as well as that I hadn't locked the door. They were like: "What if you got kidnapped, or hit by a car?" etc etc. I didn't feel the need to say anything, and if I had to do it over again I still wouldn't have. Why should I have to tell them everywhere I go, you know? Keep doing until they understand that they can't control you anymore, would be advisable to leave a note that you have left and won't be back in awhile but don't say where your going in the note and don't give an exact time of return...go have a day applying left and right for work wherever there is a place within walking distance. |
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im not blaming him...... i think its a failed parent issue..... thats what ive been saying all along.... but now... hes got to do something for hisself....
and nice new pic finally seahawk
They don't, heck my grandma still gets uptight about me using the bus. The other day was gonna bus to meet my dad somewhere en route to a funeral, but she insisted on driving me there herself. 1 of 2 choices you can make here. 1; Walk out one day without telling anyone where you are going, come back when you want; or 2; keep letting them baby you. You know it's funny, I did this one morning recently. I was the only one up, at around 7:30 or so I want to say. We didn't have any cereal or anything, so I decided to go ahead and walk up to the store and get some, among other things. I left the front door unlocked, so I could get back in the house. I figured it wasn't a big thing, as there were people home and such. In hindsight, I probably should have taken a key but I digress.... In any case, I come back and they're all upset that I didn't tell them, as well as that I hadn't locked the door. They were like: "What if you got kidnapped, or hit by a car?" etc etc. I didn't feel the need to say anything, and if I had to do it over again I still wouldn't have. Why should I have to tell them everywhere I go, you know? |
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Edited by
dae11x
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Sat 05/24/08 07:55 PM
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Kleisto
I can tell from your writing that you're a pretty intelligent person. We all have lots of opinions on what you should do, but I think you know what you need to do. Good luck!
And, always, always be thankful for the people in your life. 
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Call it and find out.
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im not blaming him...... i think its a failed parent issue..... thats what ive been saying all along.... but now... hes got to do something for hisself....
and nice new pic finally seahawk
They don't, heck my grandma still gets uptight about me using the bus. The other day was gonna bus to meet my dad somewhere en route to a funeral, but she insisted on driving me there herself. 1 of 2 choices you can make here. 1; Walk out one day without telling anyone where you are going, come back when you want; or 2; keep letting them baby you. You know it's funny, I did this one morning recently. I was the only one up, at around 7:30 or so I want to say. We didn't have any cereal or anything, so I decided to go ahead and walk up to the store and get some, among other things. I left the front door unlocked, so I could get back in the house. I figured it wasn't a big thing, as there were people home and such. In hindsight, I probably should have taken a key but I digress.... In any case, I come back and they're all upset that I didn't tell them, as well as that I hadn't locked the door. They were like: "What if you got kidnapped, or hit by a car?" etc etc. I didn't feel the need to say anything, and if I had to do it over again I still wouldn't have. Why should I have to tell them everywhere I go, you know? Oh no don't misunderstand me, I got a key in my drawer actually, have for a while. I just didn't think to take it that time is all. |
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There's never any peace around here I swear! Her and I always clash over something, be it this or something else. My grandma is the same way too. Just constant bickering!
And yet, you keep coming back for more. 
Sounds like you're in love. |
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Call it and find out. no thanx i have a job ..
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I've read this entire thread and all I can say is that the young man in question (aside from the restaurant issue), if he doesn't have a severe problem with self esteem and phobias, is well on his way to having them. Please call the number that was supplied earlier and start getting some help.
Listen to this, I left home for the Army 3 months after graduation. At that time, I had been taught at home to wash the dishes, clean the bathroom, do laundry, iron my own clothes, do rudimentary sewing, basic cooking and the most valuable thing of all, I had Social Skills. In my opinion, Kleisto, until such time as you master those basics, you are heading for trouble and maybe just wasting your life. It's a wide and wonderful world out there, grab your piece of it! You're entitled to it by virtue of having been put on this Earth in the first place. Sure, you're going to get hurt once in awhile, but that's nothing to fear, it's part of the human experience and what doesn't kill you will make you stronger. So pluck up your courage, take that first step and make that call! Remember that a journey of a thousand miles begins with that first step. Oh, and don't sweat the small stuff like what happened at the restaurant. Put it behind you and the next time something like that comes up, recognize it, bite your tongue and let it go. It'll take practice sure, but that's perfectly all right, nobody makes behavior changes instantly. Good luck. |
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Oh come on yall don't yall think yall being just a little hard on him. We don't know what this boy going threw with his mom. He came here to seek help. And what type of help is yall giving him? Just to put him down. Boo here is a # 4 u call it 18007921355 is that the jobline? No, it's actually something called Turning Point, a Christian counseling sort of thing I guess you could call it. I actually thought it was her number when I called it lol. well i know i've been a biatch but I just want to see you get out from under because it will ruin your future relationships with women because your mom/nana will always be all up in your buisness unless you gain a foothold in the world now. |
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i agree ric..... and i guess part of his fear may be discovering that he has different ways than his mom which is called individualized feelings and they are ok....... see i am more like him in the resturaunt.... and he is doubting hisself cause its different than his moms way... and its ok to be different... you are you..... and that is good... just i think you are frustrated... and want to be more you... and only you can make that happen
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Yall may call me silly for what I am about to say but I will say it anyway. Baby talk to God let him gide ur heart. You know what u have to do u have heard it all night I know it is hard heck my mom was like mommy dearest I had it bad but if was not 4 God and his angel I would not made. Every1 heart was in the right place they are good people. Take the advice and run wit it. God bless.
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I just want to apologize for how I may have came off at times in this thread last night. I think I did overreact to the food thing, however valid my point may have been. In any case, I'm sorry if I looked like a jerk who wasn't listening to reason at points here. That isn't me, the real me anyway.
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Baby thats alrite. I forgive ya. Please take care and may God Bless.
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im not blaming him...... i think its a failed parent issue..... thats what ive been saying all along.... but now... hes got to do something for hisself....
and nice new pic finally seahawk
They don't, heck my grandma still gets uptight about me using the bus. The other day was gonna bus to meet my dad somewhere en route to a funeral, but she insisted on driving me there herself. 1 of 2 choices you can make here. 1; Walk out one day without telling anyone where you are going, come back when you want; or 2; keep letting them baby you. You know it's funny, I did this one morning recently. I was the only one up, at around 7:30 or so I want to say. We didn't have any cereal or anything, so I decided to go ahead and walk up to the store and get some, among other things. I left the front door unlocked, so I could get back in the house. I figured it wasn't a big thing, as there were people home and such. In hindsight, I probably should have taken a key but I digress.... In any case, I come back and they're all upset that I didn't tell them, as well as that I hadn't locked the door. They were like: "What if you got kidnapped, or hit by a car?" etc etc. I didn't feel the need to say anything, and if I had to do it over again I still wouldn't have. Why should I have to tell them everywhere I go, you know? Keep doing until they understand that they can't control you anymore, would be advisable to leave a note that you have left and won't be back in awhile but don't say where your going in the note and don't give an exact time of return...go have a day applying left and right for work wherever there is a place within walking distance. I actually did do this again this morning. Left the house around 6:30am on my own to meet a friend to walk and have breakfast. I didn't say a word about where I was going just left a brief note, and that was it. No one really said much about it after I came back, my grandma just asked where I had went (she heard me leave, but didn't know where I was off to) and my mom never even knew I had left the house. When she woke up my friend and I were already back here in the backyard playing ball. Maybe this is a start to getting that space. |
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Or maybe it's not, I'm sitting here online and my grandma comes in and tells me not to go out again this morning. I don't care though, if I want to go out this morning I will and no one is gonna stop me.
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me peronally, i would NEVER take home food i didnt eat from a restaurant, i would be so embaressed.
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you dont have to have a drivers license to get a job at most places.... you can take the bus or walk.... then move on to the drivers license I know that, but it's just difficult finding a job these days. not if you are actually looking..fast food joints are always hiring and maybe you could"gasp" help mom out with food and expenses. She is right. i am working at a freaking coffee shop. It sucks, but I love it and is doing just great till I am done school. But a question. How do you expect to helpful in a relationship, when you can not even help yourself? I have no idea, which is why it's probably good that the one possible relationship I have is long distance. Less pressure on me in that way. Or maybe that's worse...... if you dont work, how do you get money?? id love to work again, but i cant because of my health. it pisses me off when people who can work, DONT |
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