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you dont have to have a drivers license to get a job at most places.... you can take the bus or walk.... then move on to the drivers license I know that, but it's just difficult finding a job these days. not if you are actually looking..fast food joints are always hiring and maybe you could"gasp" help mom out with food and expenses. |
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seems to me you are here to just look for another argument... cause thats all the posts that you reply too 
I came here looking for sympathy, a place to vent really. Evidently I came to the wrong place for that though.
You must be kidding. For the record, it's my mom and grandma I live with, not just my mom. Yes, that makes it better. 
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seems to me you are here to just look for another argument... cause thats all the posts that you reply too
I came here looking for sympathy, a place to vent really. Evidently I came to the wrong place for that though.
You must be kidding. For the record, it's my mom and grandma I live with, not just my mom. Get a job, car...no more worries. I'm waiting on my car right now, save my money...and I will have no more worries as well. 
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you ignore all but who have said negetive things to you...... there for i think you are here to argue....
and i beleive a mother is there when kids are young to teach them all the things they need to survive with on their own... like how to cook clean pay bills etc... to be responsible.. for your mother wont be around all your life... my kids all moved out at age 18.... one had to move back in for a short time...thats what life is all about survival and obviously your mom has failed at teaching you these things cause its not her fault you dont have a drivers license.... its your own damned fault.... find a friend to teach you... find your own ways to do things...
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seems to me you are here to just look for another argument... cause thats all the posts that you reply too
I came here looking for sympathy, a place to vent really. Evidently I came to the wrong place for that though.
You must be kidding. For the record, it's my mom and grandma I live with, not just my mom. Yes, that makes it better.
Didn't say it did, just saying..... |
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you ignore all but who have said negetive things to you...... there for i think you are here to argue.... and i beleive a mother is there when kids are young to teach them all the things they need to survive with on their own... like how to cook clean pay bills etc... to be responsible.. for your mother wont be around all your life... my kids all moved out at age 18.... one had to move back in for a short time...thats what life is all about survival and obviously your mom has failed at teaching you these things cause its not her fault you dont have a drivers license.... its your own damned fault.... find a friend to teach you... find your own ways to do things...
No kiddin, aye. |
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you dont have to have a drivers license to get a job at most places.... you can take the bus or walk.... then move on to the drivers license I know that, but it's just difficult finding a job these days. not if you are actually looking..fast food joints are always hiring and maybe you could"gasp" help mom out with food and expenses. She is right. i am working at a freaking coffee shop. It sucks, but I love it and is doing just great till I am done school. But a question. How do you expect to helpful in a relationship, when you can not even help yourself? |
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you dont have to have a drivers license to get a job at most places.... you can take the bus or walk.... then move on to the drivers license I know that, but it's just difficult finding a job these days. not if you are actually looking..fast food joints are always hiring and maybe you could"gasp" help mom out with food and expenses. She is right. i am working at a freaking coffee shop. It sucks, but I love it and is doing just great till I am done school. But a question. How do you expect to helpful in a relationship, when you can not even help yourself? I have no idea, which is why it's probably good that the one possible relationship I have is long distance. Less pressure on me in that way. Or maybe that's worse...... |
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seems to me you are here to just look for another argument... cause thats all the posts that you reply too
I came here looking for sympathy, a place to vent really. Evidently I came to the wrong place for that though.
You must be kidding. For the record, it's my mom and grandma I live with, not just my mom. Get a job, car...no more worries. I'm waiting on my car right now, save my money...and I will have no more worries as well.
I think some of it is fear, fear of that comfort zone or getting out of it. Fear of driving even, that I won't do good at it, etc. |
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 hes looking for a new mother!   
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hes looking for a new mother!
You know, I really don't appreciate that comment. |
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hes looking for a new mother!
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well your not willing to try to take care of yourself...... putting not much effort into it..... time to grow up....
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sometimes the truth hurts...
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Edited by
Kleisto
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Sat 05/24/08 07:19 PM
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you ignore all but who have said negetive things to you...... there for i think you are here to argue.... and i beleive a mother is there when kids are young to teach them all the things they need to survive with on their own... like how to cook clean pay bills etc... to be responsible.. for your mother wont be around all your life... my kids all moved out at age 18.... one had to move back in for a short time...thats what life is all about survival and obviously your mom has failed at teaching you these things cause its not her fault you dont have a drivers license.... its your own damned fault.... find a friend to teach you... find your own ways to do things...
I've kind of lived a sheltered life really to be honest. My grandma and mom (more my grandma I suppose) babied me and sort of still do to an extent. Insisting on doing dishes, washing clothes and the like, when I ought to be doing those things. I can't learn if I don't. Or saying it's too cold to do this or that too. |
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seems to me you are here to just look for another argument... cause thats all the posts that you reply too
I came here looking for sympathy, a place to vent really. Evidently I came to the wrong place for that though.
You must be kidding. For the record, it's my mom and grandma I live with, not just my mom. Get a job, car...no more worries. I'm waiting on my car right now, save my money...and I will have no more worries as well.
I think some of it is fear, fear of that comfort zone or getting out of it. Fear of driving even, that I won't do good at it, etc. Man up!
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sometimes the truth hurts...
This is true, but you didn't have to put the way you did. |
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ya seem like a good kid, ya family can be irratating at times, but just start doin stuff for yurself, and good things will come.!!!
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ya know what, i lived with my mom, dad and baby brother with 2 of my 3 kids up untill last week, and i'm 25, i had no job.. but not because i didnt look for one, i looked , applied all over town , no one hired me, i ended up having to go 12 hours north of my home town, away from my family , to kansas, i'm staying with a friend and her kids untill i can get an apartment within 4 days of living here, i'm working as a housekeeper,, not the greatest job but its a freakin pay check!!!!
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ya know what, i lived with my mom, dad and baby brother with 2 of my 3 kids up untill last week, and i'm 25, i had no job.. but not because i didnt look for one, i looked , applied all over town , no one hired me, i ended up having to go 12 hours north of my home town, away from my family , to kansas, i'm staying with a friend and her kids untill i can get an apartment within 4 days of living here, i'm working as a housekeeper,, not the greatest job but its a freakin pay check!!!!
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