Several months ago I assume I was going through some stupid midlife crises. I was married and although I have had the luck of attracting women most of my life I have never acted upon it. That is until around November. I told my wife I wanted to see other women and separate and she left with my daughter. She didn't go far (I own 2 houses in Myrtle Beach). The pain I caused her is something I don't even forgive myself for and never will. Anyway we seldom talk but during the Spring rally last week here in Myrtle Beach I did see her and some of her friends shopping. We spoke and it was very cordial and pleasant. She just now called me and asked me if I would take her out on my boat this weekend. She also asked if we could be alone on the boat and not my usual crew of friends. Before I could say yes or no she said she would call me "later" after I had time to think about it. So many thoughts going through my head right now. I don't mind posting this on here because none of you know me and can only beat me up so much. I have no clue why this is happening now or what she wants to say. That's why my marital status on my profile reads "no answer" because I am not divorced but separated but not legally . I have never mislead any females on here so for that I can be proud. Again I started this off by saying it was all my fault so please don't post something so stupid as to say "it's all your fault" I also have a 15 year old daughter to consider. This has been terrible on her. Or this whole thing could be because she wants a divorce? I have no clue although she didn't sound like she was pissed off but one never knows. Ok enough of this I need to go find a funny post.

first...it's not ALL your fault.......

Second...tell your friends your plans......you know just in case there is an "accident" at sea........

What does your HEART tell you to do. I would stop thinking with your head....

Best wishes to you...hope things can be resolved in a good manner.

YOu need to soul search. Do you still love your life and are just looking for more spark or do you want more with another person.

it sounds like she wants to reunite or set up a visiation schedule...........

Actually my life has been non stop. Many many parties lots and lots of friends and I am really burned out on all of that. I want to go back to quiet days. We'll see

If you love her go get her back...before she throws you overboard!

Well, check and see if she has a new life insurance policy, and have another boat in the area with some friends on it that can keep any eye out for you.

But seriously, I hope it all works out for you. And remember, sometimes the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

when the party is over.....and the friends are gone......

theres only.....YOU...........

if ya get the chance....and your heart is in it....

grab hold and make it last.......not much does....

JMO

She probably wants to start over or to get back together. Would you want to get back together with her?

I had regret the day after we moved apart.

Do you regret being alone or do you regret not having her in your life?

I have not liked either one but I have come to terms with both of them. I have had plenty of chances to move other women in but have said no. I guess it wouldn't be the same as someone you have been with for so many years.

I'm hoping no one ends up going overboard.




Edited to say I should have read all of the replies first. Seems others had the same thought.

((((Myrtle Myrtle Myrtle))))

Go with your feelings sweetheart!

Then if you still love her, say you're sorry. People make mistakes, but if they learn from them it only makes them stronger. Ask her for a chance to see how strong you've become.

*Secret codeword Scarecrow*

(((No1))) one of my few true's on here.

Tell her that you can't move on because she still has your heart. Tell her that you love her if you do. Everyone is entitled to mistakes, just let her know that this was the biggest of yours. You will have to deal with her being scared of you doing this again, but if it hasn't been totally destroyed, then she may take you back, but it may take a lot of work.

Thank you Sunshine