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What kind of beer are we drinkin? I'm on budweiser tonight, as usual, but all beer is good beer. as long as it's cold. In the words of strongbad... "a one that is not cold is hardly a one at all" talking about cold ones. |
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Beers all around
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hmm, I'm thinking one more beer before I hit the sack
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right off I-10. If you want to see the car(s) PM me and I'll get in touch.
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It is wednsday now. One more day and about 5-6 hours till me and my buddy start washing our cars for the shoot.....
I was thinking about finding a spot on the atchatfalaya river basin somewheres, maybe that exit off the bridge. |
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Before It Was Invented...
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that kind of think happens to me all the time. I remember getting this great idea once to hollow out potato skins, mash the potatoes, and put the mashed potatoes back in the skin to serve. Only to find out later that this was called a "twice baked" potato and had been around forever. Several other things like this but can't recall them at the moment.
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um, everyone, LOL. Another day.
Hey, I'm doing a photoshoot for the car thursday, any ideas about scenic places in the area? |
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The chit chatting geckgo needs to go to sleep earlier than 4 am tonight. Not sure how long I'll be up. ((Geckgo)) heya sweets..wonderful to see you!! Nice to walk into a discussion where I'm not being attacked for being a man! where you been hiding? |
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NEW!
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Welcome to the zoo
Beware the monkeys they throw poo!! |
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The chit chatting geckgo needs to go to sleep earlier than 4 am tonight. Not sure how long I'll be up.
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Photoshoot for Nismo
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Thursday I'll be out in the carport washing the 350z with my buddy who will be cleaning up his G8 so we can take some pictures later that day. We are going to start at sunrise. Haven't found any good places to take the pics yet though. I live in Opelousas, near Lafayette, any ideas for good places to take car pics?
If any girls want to doll up in miniskirts and hop in the pictures then you are more then welcome too. We will be getting our carclub kicked off in a few weeks, so any tuners in the area, you can get a free bio page on *edited out* if you are interested in joining. |
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where's all the nice guys
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Men are pigs.... yes, yes we are. And that's why women love us so much |
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in that case you've taken a big step, but it sounds life life has a lot of heartache still to dish out at you, so beware.
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She's not calling Cause she couldn't give a rats ***! She played and toyed with ya Got ya going Left Laughed Went on to the next one Just move on Such is the on-line life Toughen up or they will eat you alive!! ex-zachary |
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So she has a profile Big deal Instead of getting all girly about it jump in and have fun with her Ya know what a blast a couple could have with this !!!!! Yea, I sent a friend request tonight! I think she went to bed already though which is where I should be LOL. About midnight here. That is the plan gossip. I agree with you dude and I'm right there with ya. Paranoia kills. It's good to see that you are having some fun with it but the two of you really need to just sit down and talk about it. Tell her that you're on here for dating advice, or to BS with friends you've made, or whatever the reason is that you're here... Then again maybe don't bring it up unless it's a deal for both of you. If this is your insecurity then I would say deal with it. If you think that she's that worried then have a heart to heart with her, and screw around with her as much as physically possible on here drop her notes, kick her in the but.... foreplay! |
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Update it has now been a few days and have not heard a thing from her, so I've sort of resigned myself to the fact that she won't be calling.....sigh it feels like the story of my life lately. Everyone I seem to meet doesn't seem to work out. I met two other people on this site I met the girl I've talked of here at, one I was interested in got disconnected with mid conversation, while the other we actually exchanged facebooks, only for her to delete me without warning yesterday after just meeting the night before. Think it may have had something to do with a comment I made in talking about how I don't relate to many my age. I told her I don't drink at all, and then added that if I did it was very very very rare, and even then just maybe like a glass of wine at a restaurant or something. Next thing I know, she left and that was the end of her. Maybe it was a bad choice of words on my part, but it hurt. I thought there was a shot there possibly with her, but it came and went like that, and she didn't even have the decency to tell me. Maybe I'm trying too hard I don't know, and need to back off a bit. I feel like everything I touch lately is turning to crap to be honest. There is someone here I started chatting with though that I am a bit interested in, so maybe that will go somewhere, but otherwise I don't know what to think sometimes. Where's BillySuvol?? Billy!?!? we need to pip this boy, he's about pippin age, and it's time I don't need to worry about making myself look like a jerk on the message boards, I've already done a great job at that, so I'm gonna tell you this man to man and I don't care what self-rightious, judgemental female hears it and trys to bash me. A point that should be more than clear to that type of girl by now. Dude. You are beating on yourself when you should be giving yourself praise and seeing a young well adjusted man in this position makes me sick to my stomach. Try this, the next rejection you get, hell aply it to this one, ask yourself one question????? Would you want to be with someone that blows off someone like you that quickly. You have a lot of good traits and a bright future, and you need to get out of this mindset of "not being good enough" for them. **** them. There's a billion women in the world that you are not going to see eye to eye with, every time one blows you off, cross her off the list and keep looking for the one that you deserve. Don't worry about the ones that blow your off. I know right? I don't have any idea about your situation and how hard it is for you, right? RIGHT? Guess what, I was a virgin until I was older than you and had only kissed maybe one or two girls in my life and to this moment I'm wondering if they were just drunk. You need to stop playing this victim role and take some responsibility for your situation, grow a set and take the bad in stride, knowing that the good will be on the other end. If some ***** doesn't like you because you don't drink that's her perogative (sorry for the spelling, drunk) and that's not someone you want to be with. Pure and simple. She's for someone else that likes drunk chicks. Just do a search on here for women that claim not to drink, there's a million of 'em, and being one of the few guys that falls into the category, you've got access to the whole buffet. I find girls all the time that I would love to date that won't give me a second look because I do drink. or because I'm upfront and honest with my thoughts, or because I don't give a @@@@ about drama and won't tolerate it, or because I'm a male (that lesbian that I met a couple weeks ago is my kinda woman). Consider yourself lucky when you find out it isn't going to work prior to a year or two of dating one and then having it go sour. Basically, you're looking at this the wrong way. You should be seeing it as weeding them out, not them rejecting you. ... and now the violent womens club of mingle is going to bash me, so I'm off to hide in another thread. |
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I've been happily taken for quite a while now. I still enjoy coming here to Mingle to see what everyone's up to; kinda a virtual hangout if you will. I see that many others also use this site as a social site, not just a dating site. The reason I ask is that I found my GF started a profile on here without telling me about it. I think it's her way of checking up on me which is fine; I've nothing to hide. I already told her I go on the site and she admits to going into chat rooms sometimes when she's bored so I don't see much of a difference. Is it wrong for me to still be on a "dating" site even though I'm not looking for a date? no, nothing wrong with it until you do something wrong. If you're just here to chat and not looking to hook up with anyone then you're fine. If she starts deciding to have a problem with it later on then she might be a little on the jealous side, but if she says it's cool and you aren't doing anything wrong do you really need to ask? I just thought it odd that she started a profile without telling me about it which makes me wonder a bit if there are some trust issues. On the other hand, would you want your significant other spending time on dating sites? I'm not sure how I'd feel about it; thus the reason for my question I'm going to assume that you are in a pretty good relationship despite your own wondering thoughts and give you some advice. Don't worry about it. If she's trying to "spy" on you she will find out on her own that you aren't doing anything wrong and hopefully that will be the end of it. If you are worried about her being mischevious on a dating site then stop yourself right now and re-evaluate. She's with you, that's all you need to know. Don't start probing and wondering until there is a **** good reason to, okay. Don't repeat the same mistakes that I made. If everything is going good then let it go good and just don't worry about it. Otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life wondering about the one time that you were too insecure to pay attention to what you had in your hands. I guess I shouldn't preach so much but I left a really REALLY good girl once because of my insecurities, and it isn't something that you can take back. So my advice is, shut your brain off and enjoy what you have. If you don't take it, I'm one person that won't blame you, as I've been there too. Just looking out, you know? |
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No extra stuff to speak of. I don't watch TV so I don't have one. that's my philosophy about a great many things. My house is pretty empty cept for the beer in the fridge and the booze on my bar.
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I've been happily taken for quite a while now. I still enjoy coming here to Mingle to see what everyone's up to; kinda a virtual hangout if you will. I see that many others also use this site as a social site, not just a dating site. The reason I ask is that I found my GF started a profile on here without telling me about it. I think it's her way of checking up on me which is fine; I've nothing to hide. I already told her I go on the site and she admits to going into chat rooms sometimes when she's bored so I don't see much of a difference. Is it wrong for me to still be on a "dating" site even though I'm not looking for a date? no, nothing wrong with it until you do something wrong. If you're just here to chat and not looking to hook up with anyone then you're fine. If she starts deciding to have a problem with it later on then she might be a little on the jealous side, but if she says it's cool and you aren't doing anything wrong do you really need to ask? |
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and what are those shortcommings? You seem pretty calm headed to me. Oh, Good LORD...put the crack pipe down, G!!! Let's see here, I'll share 3 shortcomings, okay? 1. I drive waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too fast most times, with no regard for others...I just need to "GET THERE"...and in a hurry. 2. I'll let a fresh head of broccoli sit in my "crisper" bin to the point it needs a CSI team to investigate it's "real" origin of slimey death. 3. I'm really impatient with people who are impatient. And, for the record, I ain't arguing with anyone here. I actually find how discombobulated this whole INTERNET topic became...quite amusing actually. Where's that popcorn? Hmm, that's a start.. 1. yea,,,, patience is a virtue, but in my younger days I did my fair share of weaving through traffic, so I guess I could let that slide as long as I'm not in the car. These days I would probably just fall asleep on the passenger side so I don't have to see it. lol. 2. Can't really see too many serious consequences arising from that one. 3. Interesting to say the least, impatient with people who are impatient, so if someone around is impatient then you become impatient, then you become impatient with yourself for being impatient, wow that turns cyclic quite quickly doesn't it? I have seen myself snapping at people when they get snippy with me though so I understand. And yes, the only reason I'm on this messageboard is because I get a kick out of it. Then people argue with me and I have even more fun with them The popcorn is on my counter next to the popper, shall I make a bowl? |
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