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Edited by
Kleisto
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Ok so here's the thing, I go on this one website just to talk to someone, anyone really. It's a site where you meet a stranger at random and chat. Well anyway, I meet this 20 year old girl from Texas and we start talking and talking and talking, and I can't help but feel very understood by her, like there's a strong connection between us. I really want to talk to her again, but she wouldn't give out any info, as far as messengers as a precautionary measure (understandable), and emails she has forgotten apparently.
Before she left, I gave her my phone number, and asked if she'd call me and she said she'd try. I'm afraid I may never talk to her again though, like she might not save my number or she might forget it or forget about me. (sighs) why must things be this way? 
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how long had you been talking before you asked her to call you? some people view that as super personal and are reluctant to give out their numbers- if she calls you you can get her number, unless she thinks to block it. she might have just been on the site to have fun, not to pursue anything into real life.
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That's the game dude.
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if it were meant to be or if she weren't playin the game.. you'd have been called by now.
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if it were meant to be or if she weren't playin the game.. you'd have been called by now. gotta love the game players. |
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if it were meant to be or if she weren't playin the game.. you'd have been called by now. She went to bed actually, has to be up early in the morning, that's why the chat ended when it did. |
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how long had you been talking before you asked her to call you? some people view that as super personal and are reluctant to give out their numbers- if she calls you you can get her number, unless she thinks to block it. It was just at the end before we said good night. I kinda wish I had told her to save it though or write it down so she wouldn't forget, but can't go back now. |
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i can certainly relate man and it kinda stinks lol it seems to happen more often then not but what can you do? gotta pick your head up and hope that the right one comes along and is totally worth the wait
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Ok so here's the thing, I go on this one website just to talk to someone, anyone really. It's a site where you meet a stranger at random and chat. Well anyway, I meet this 20 year old girl from Texas and we start talking and talking and talking, and I can't help but feel very understood by her, like there's a strong connection between us. I really want to talk to her again, but she wouldn't give out any info, as far as messengers as a precautionary measure (understandable), and emails she has forgotten apparently. Before she left, I gave her my phone number, and asked if she'd call me and she said she'd try. I'm afraid I may never talk to her again though, like she might not save my number or she might forget it or forget about me. (sighs) why must things be this way?
I'm confused. Why must things be what way? You gave her your phone number. She might call you again. How long has it been since you gave her your phone number? |
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how long had you been talking before you asked her to call you? some people view that as super personal and are reluctant to give out their numbers- if she calls you you can get her number, unless she thinks to block it. It was just at the end before we said good night. I kinda wish I had told her to save it though or write it down so she wouldn't forget, but can't go back now. if the conversation was as important to her as it is to you, she won't forget and she will call you. just relax. post in the forums or go play a game or something to keep your mind off it. give her a couple days, if she hasn't called by then, just chalk it up to you you had a nice chat through the net and try to move on. 
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Ok so here's the thing, I go on this one website just to talk to someone, anyone really. It's a site where you meet a stranger at random and chat. Well anyway, I meet this 20 year old girl from Texas and we start talking and talking and talking, and I can't help but feel very understood by her, like there's a strong connection between us. I really want to talk to her again, but she wouldn't give out any info, as far as messengers as a precautionary measure (understandable), and emails she has forgotten apparently. Before she left, I gave her my phone number, and asked if she'd call me and she said she'd try. I'm afraid I may never talk to her again though, like she might not save my number or she might forget it or forget about me. (sighs) why must things be this way?
I'm confused. Why must things be what way? You gave her your phone number. She might call you again. How long has it been since you gave her your phone number? As in why must it be that the one person I really like, I may never speak to again, that's what I meant. I know she might call, I just fear she won't for some reason. We only stopped chatting a bit ago, and like I said she went to bed for the night, so I won't know what the future holds till tomorrow or so. Perhaps I'm overthinking the whole thing in fearing the worst, I don't know. |
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I want to know what she told you that's got you so wound up over an internet conversation.
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You are cute! I am sure she will call or you will meet someone better even!
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Edited by
Winx
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Sat 07/04/09 11:09 PM
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Ok so here's the thing, I go on this one website just to talk to someone, anyone really. It's a site where you meet a stranger at random and chat. Well anyway, I meet this 20 year old girl from Texas and we start talking and talking and talking, and I can't help but feel very understood by her, like there's a strong connection between us. I really want to talk to her again, but she wouldn't give out any info, as far as messengers as a precautionary measure (understandable), and emails she has forgotten apparently. Before she left, I gave her my phone number, and asked if she'd call me and she said she'd try. I'm afraid I may never talk to her again though, like she might not save my number or she might forget it or forget about me. (sighs) why must things be this way?
I'm confused. Why must things be what way? You gave her your phone number. She might call you again. How long has it been since you gave her your phone number? As in why must it be that the one person I really like, I may never speak to again, that's what I meant. I know she might call, I just fear she won't for some reason. We only stopped chatting a bit ago, and like I said she went to bed for the night, so I won't know what the future holds till tomorrow or so. Perhaps I'm overthinking the whole thing in fearing the worst, I don't know. But..you don't know if you will "never speak to her again". You just gave her your phone number a bit ago and she went to bed. She may call you in the next few days. Yes, you are 100% over-thinking it.
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Ok so here's the thing, I go on this one website just to talk to someone, anyone really. It's a site where you meet a stranger at random and chat. Well anyway, I meet this 20 year old girl from Texas and we start talking and talking and talking, and I can't help but feel very understood by her, like there's a strong connection between us. I really want to talk to her again, but she wouldn't give out any info, as far as messengers as a precautionary measure (understandable), and emails she has forgotten apparently. Before she left, I gave her my phone number, and asked if she'd call me and she said she'd try. I'm afraid I may never talk to her again though, like she might not save my number or she might forget it or forget about me. (sighs) why must things be this way?
I'm confused. Why must things be what way? You gave her your phone number. She might call you again. How long has it been since you gave her your phone number? As in why must it be that the one person I really like, I may never speak to again, that's what I meant. I know she might call, I just fear she won't for some reason. We only stopped chatting a bit ago, and like I said she went to bed for the night, so I won't know what the future holds till tomorrow or so. Perhaps I'm overthinking the whole thing in fearing the worst, I don't know. yeah, you're over thinking it. don't feel bad though, i used to do the same thing. i'd freak out and think he won't call, he hates me, he doesn't like me, and on and on. you just upset yourself that way. whatever happens, happens. that's why i don't like giving my number to guys, it puts the ball in their court and i like to be in control, lol |
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You are cute! I am sure she will call or you will meet someone better even! Thanks I hope so, I think sometimes I just feel like so few really understand me and how I see things, that if one gets away, where will the next one come from you know? |
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keep giving your number like sawing the seeds
a few may go astray but one or two may call Key is remember the names so you are not snookered |
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You are cute! I am sure she will call or you will meet someone better even! Thanks I hope so, I think sometimes I just feel like so few really understand me and how I see things, that if one gets away, where will the next one come from you know? Finding the right person takes time! Just hang in there |
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Edited by
Kleisto
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Sat 07/04/09 11:11 PM
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Ok so here's the thing, I go on this one website just to talk to someone, anyone really. It's a site where you meet a stranger at random and chat. Well anyway, I meet this 20 year old girl from Texas and we start talking and talking and talking, and I can't help but feel very understood by her, like there's a strong connection between us. I really want to talk to her again, but she wouldn't give out any info, as far as messengers as a precautionary measure (understandable), and emails she has forgotten apparently. Before she left, I gave her my phone number, and asked if she'd call me and she said she'd try. I'm afraid I may never talk to her again though, like she might not save my number or she might forget it or forget about me. (sighs) why must things be this way?
I'm confused. Why must things be what way? You gave her your phone number. She might call you again. How long has it been since you gave her your phone number? As in why must it be that the one person I really like, I may never speak to again, that's what I meant. I know she might call, I just fear she won't for some reason. We only stopped chatting a bit ago, and like I said she went to bed for the night, so I won't know what the future holds till tomorrow or so. Perhaps I'm overthinking the whole thing in fearing the worst, I don't know. But..you don't know if you will "never speak to her again". You just gave her your phone number a bit ago and she went to bed. She may call you in the next few days. Yes, you are 100% over-thinking it.
Yeah, need to just relax, find some things that make me happy in the meantime and just wait and see what happens. If it's truly meant to be, it'll work out. If not, life goes on I suppose. 
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 Cute is right.
Dont worry hon, Im sure weve all been there. or at least I have
The silly things we think. ha ha Listen, rest your head, and know if its right, it will happen. Stop projecting, and let tomorrow come. At very least all this worrying will show whenyou speak again, and you KNOW how lame and psycho it seems to sound desperate. Good luck. |
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