LOL...Yeah, I knew I was throwing myself in front of the bus, but he who has no battles etc etc...

I'm sorry lil, I have just made it a point to read through a lot of the posts and you seem to get a little aggressive and insulting if someone doesn't follow your point of view. Like I said, this was IMO. Opinions are all that are offered here. No one can claim to have the best one because one opinion or action cannot be applied to every circumstance. Personally, I can care less if someone agrees with me or not. A forum is a grab bag of ideas.

Ok, what is the range that we are talking about here? I mean, when does "a few extra pounds" turn into "I have a loaf of bread hidden somewhere on me"? Frankly, I have seen people that claim to have a few extra pounds but really have a few extra people. Maybe I am just a little on the pessimistic side because I am very health / diet conscious. It just seems that the phrase is covering a larger spread than it should be...no pun intended. :)

rpwolff

I don't think there is anything wrong with your compliment as long as it is either preceded by or included in a larger, more intellectual comment. A better idea might be to save the physical comments until a more meaningful connection is in place. I see you have met lil, who IMO is the resident psychologist that will roast you on a spit if your opinion marginally deviates from her own. But, anywho.....

What the heck to I know? :)

I don't think there is anything wrong with expressing yourself in the manner that you want. These forums are separated into the categories and topics they are for good reason. Mrs. Perriwinkle might not want to hear (or know) that the person beneath her would like to pile drive her. So, the sections were created to define a space where different acceptable behaviors begin and end. Now, if you are the type that is squeamish and shy about topics that are HUGELY sexual in nature, you might want to steer clear of Tap it or Pass it. I don't think it is right for someone to voluntarily go into a forum and scream foul. If what is going on in the forum is not your cup of tea, there are about a billion others out there to choose from. If one of those are not suitable, you are welcome to give birth to your own.

I don't think some people "hide what they would actually like to be", I just think that some people are one way, others are another, and the third set follow the majority whomever that might be.

I like that answer.

Don't feel sorry for me. I have a great job that I am good at, but I have a passion for life......not working. What I will remember forever and be thankful for is not in my office. Its outside in the experiences of the world.

I strongly believe in a equal partner relationship where both contribute significantly, but I think your right about the natural dominant / submissive roles. Doing more than the other person is fine just as long as both people are comfortable with it. Some people are nurturers and need to take care of someone while others need a lot of help just to survive. It's the natural balance of things.

I think I'm a little of both. I like to have someone to take care of, but if I feel like I am the only one giving I feel like Im being used. On the other hand while I like having some things done for be to show love, etc, blah, blah....I don't want to be coddled and tended over. Im very independent and like to fend for myself a lot of times.

I'm more play than work. Hell, most of the time I play at work but I still get what I need to do done. I can honestly say that I don't spend more than 2 minutes thinking about work when I walk out the door at the end of the day. Work is what I do to pay my bills and fund my adventures, it is definitely secondary to my life. On more than one occasion, I have thought about getting a one way ticket to Bermuda or the Bahamas and just working it all out when I get there. Maybe I could make coconut cups on the beach for tourists....or hats, everyone needs a souvenir reed hat! I don't think it would be that hard for me to start over and just leave the stressful stuff behind.

See, there is always an exception to the rule. Your mission (should you choose to except it) is to lure the male species into thinking that maybe....just maybe it is ok to ask what a woman wants to make her happy.

Right after that, you hear an evil cackle and your pillow hits you in the face.

I truly find at least 90% of the forums here thought provoking, insightful, and a overall credit to the human race as a medium for idea sharing.

Dude,

Don't you know that if you have to ask, your not paying attention? Asking is worse than doing the wrong thing because at least if you do the wrong thing you're taking the initive. If you ask, you might as well make the couch up for the night.

I hate it when I'm lumped into a group with a bunch of buttholes because someone wants to generalize and say "why don't men do....." or "why to guys all....".

1. All guys aren't the same and if all the guys the person that is making the claim have all been the same, maybe the issue is with the girl.

2. If you actually have been through the entire population of guys in the world and can prove that "all guys are....." , then you have bigger problems than not getting breakfast in bed.

:D

If you have no standards....go to a bar at 2:45am and clean up on left overs.

The clean smell of her hair......I could bury my face in it and stay for a week.

A moron with a little power...

Love It!

Sounds to me like Im the one that wins either way :D

Actually if you did him sideways you might have to deal with both. You could have a boob in one hand and a handful of backhair in the other........I think I'll skip dinner tonight.... :(

~sniff....shudder~ be gentle..... :)

I work with computers all day long and I can honestly say that I don't give a squirt if I came home and it had melted into a little puddle of black goo. Now....if my cell phone took a dump I would quite possibly loose my freakin mind. Every number and piece of information that has ever passed through my cranium is in that thing. I wouldn't know how to get dressed in the morning without it. Sad but true...