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Fri 11/21/08 05:05 PM
opening a restaurant while in the process of a divorce?


I would see right through that. Why open a venture like that BEFORE your ex takes half? That's just stupid

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Fri 11/21/08 11:16 AM
Of COURSE nice guys finish last...they let their lady finish first!!

pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork

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Fri 11/21/08 11:14 AM
get kissed at midnight on new years eve...

Cross country road trip with me at the wheel...

Shop off the rack...

Make love in the rain (ladies I think we are all onto something!)

Nice romantic slow dance at a fancy restaurant with my man...

Have a baby

Learn another language

Travel anywhere but I am interested in Thailand and Cambodia or any of the 'stans...

Earn a medal from my country...

Learn to swim




Boy! I better get started!

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Fri 11/21/08 11:09 AM
hey!

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Fri 11/21/08 06:48 AM
"#1 song on the day you were born",

Holiday by Madonna



If anyone is wondering LOL

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Fri 11/21/08 06:41 AM
No word of a lie...


Around where I live there is "Maple Grove", "Forget Road" which is around the corner from "Memory Lane", and Lakehill road....it a big hill with a big puddle on top.


People who settled here didn't have much imagination

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Fri 11/21/08 06:00 AM
I got asked once...

I said something smart ass to make them embarrassed....I forget though I was quite loaded at the time...


lol

You can tell a difference though...

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Fri 11/21/08 05:53 AM
Get well soon! :-)


flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Thu 11/20/08 07:12 AM
maybe a different screen name to balance out "flirting" as one of your interests. What "cougar" will want a relationship with an immmature YOUNG man who is self-proclaimed wild in bed and flirts as a hobby?

yeah, thats the makings of a long happy healthy relationship

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Thu 11/20/08 07:08 AM
is the dog IN the house or is he chasing the wheels


His tail would take three pancakes, his tummy the rest.

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Thu 11/20/08 07:05 AM
Edited by itsasqueakthing on Thu 11/20/08 07:05 AM
I got my vacation days taken away from me the second year in a row! Isnt that GREAT?surprised


Never have received a present from an employer...


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Thu 11/20/08 07:01 AM
There's chatting and then there is stupidity. There is a large difference.



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Thu 11/20/08 06:57 AM
That stuff is annoying.

Pop with a whine...

Like country with a death wish on disco steroids...


ugh

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Thu 11/20/08 06:49 AM
Edited by itsasqueakthing on Thu 11/20/08 06:51 AM
There is someone on "the other site" who thinks I have 4 other profiles. He also happens to think my own mother is the biggest B**** on FB.

So far as I know, he is the only one who is thinking I'm fake.

I haven't met anyone from online except papersmile, but I have been verified via webcam!

But I am faking being shadowed...just like I'm faking my naturally brunette hair

:D

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Thu 11/20/08 06:44 AM
Over a kiss?

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Thu 11/20/08 06:41 AM
I'm not looking for specific songs, I just want to expand my repertoire past the last couple years of billboard hits and hodge podge I've found when I had time to look.

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Thu 11/20/08 06:37 AM
Well this could be apraoched different ways

1. When you *expect* to have your heart broken again, it will happen because you are subconsciously sabotaging your chances. You will unwittingly act suspicious, distrusting and leery, and that can only kill a good vibe in the making. Also if you complain and constantly bring up the *****y exes, your new lady may begin to tire of hearing about it, and wonder why you keep bringing it up and if A) You are comparing, which is unfair or B) you still have residual feelings/anger/baggage, which is also unfair

2. A little bit of nervousness is ok. You can break the ice so to speak by saying, "I haven't had much luck before either, and I'm hoping this time I can get it right because I really like you." This will reinforce to her that yes, you do have feelings and they can get hurt, you have a heart. It also will establish to her a line that she can see, and be careful not to cross. Setting boundaries on what is and isn't acceptable is very important.

It's like the guy who always got picked on at school, trying to date the girl who likes to tease and call names in a joking manner. To her it's funny, to him it's painful. She doesn't know it opens old bruises, because he didn't tell her.
You need to let a person know, but only once or twice. People aren't stupid, and constant reminders and repetition make a person feel like you don't beleive they are smart enough to have gotten it the first time.

3. Shake off past hurts like water off a duck's back. Goodbye to one person is a second chance at someone else. Why risk losing someone new over someone old? With every learning experience we are someone new. Not that other guy who did this or didn't do that. So, with a new you and a new them, your past experiences should only help in defining boundaries for a new relationship, not define it or sentence it.


4. CALM DOWN. There is a reason why there is ONE person who is meant for you and millions of people in the world. You have to find them. Just like you test drive a car before you take it, you need to date people without expecting them to be the ONE right away. Then you won't be disappointed at a lost love, you will be disappointed at an attempt that didn't pan out, like the car you liked, but wasn't quite right. Go on dates for the fun of them. Enjoy the company at the time. Think short term and if it will blossom and bloom, it was meant to.

Good Luck! I hope this helped.

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Thu 11/20/08 06:19 AM
I am a music junkie I will admit!

I am good at finding new artists and predicting who will make it big and who will be a flash in the pan.

I am currently looking to expand my playlists to include more artists like Joe Satriani, Steve Vai, Dreamtheatre and Les Paul stuff...but I can't find anywhere that has a suitable playlist to download from, many have all the same one or two songs.

I usually buy albums, but those are difficult to find in the stores with all the emo crap that is flooding the shelves the last couple years.

Does anyone know of any good sites or programs I can use to get access to better, lesser known songs? I'm getting tired of only having the radio top 40 stuff to listen to.

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Thu 11/20/08 05:58 AM
That is a good question, and I can only post from my own experience.

I went to a Catholic school half of my education years, and we had to try out for team sports every year after second grade.

The coach would pick or not pick you based on personal criteria, whether he thought you were of high enough level at your age to be productive and have fun with others on the team. Let's face it, many kids are like this, if they are not that good at a sport, and they are forced to play, there are a few tantrums, sulkings and kick-the-ball-out-of-the-field-on-purpose-i-don't-wanna-play 's.

That was for the School team. There were also Intramural teams, where everyone got to play, but there were also no competitions/meets etc. So, somehow in this there seemed a hierarchy. If you played School team, you were cool. If you were Intramural, it was because you got cut, therefore not good enough, therefore last picked during class gym time.

Honestly I would say the younger the child starts learning fundamentals, the younger they will be when they are ready and talented enough to play competitively. There isn't a set age when you can expect a child to play competitively with little to no practice or learning of the game. I don't know how to play football for instance, but I could tell you ins and outs of Volleyball...It's a situational thing, and a judgment call on both the coach's and the parents' parts.

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Thu 11/20/08 05:46 AM
I'm really not a coffee drinker, but if I REALLY need a pick-me-up, I drink Nescafe flavoured coffee with 1% milk and Splenda sweetener.